# Gospel for Life > Grow in grace, one small habit at a time. Public Ghost content for AI and LLM tooling. This file includes a bounded export of public pages first, then recent public posts. Append `.md` to any post or page URL to get the content in Markdown (for example, `/example-post.md`). ## Pages ### About Gospel for Life URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/about/ Last updated: 2026-07-18T23:35:00.000Z ## Our Mission Why we exist: We help ordinary Christians move from inconsistency to everyday faithfulness. ## Our Vision Where we're heading: We long to see the gospel not just known but practiced, in every ordinary life, home, and church. ## Our Strategy How we'll get there: We teach small gospel habits, practiced by grace, that grow people who help other people grow. ## Our Leaders ![Darryl and Charlene Dash](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/images/2024/09/Darryl-and-Char.jpg) Gospel for Life is led by Darryl and Charlene Dash. Darryl is pastor of [Grace Fellowship Church East Toronto](https://www.gfceast.ca/?ref=gospelforlife.com), and author of [*How to Grow*](https://www.gospelforlife.com/how-to-grow/) and [*8 Habits for Growth*](https://www.gospelforlife.com/8-habits-for-growth/). He has a Doctor of Ministry degree from Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary, and has over 30 years of ministry experience. Darryl is married to Charlene. They have two adult children, and one grandchild. You can find Darryl online at [DashHouse.com](https://www.dashhouse.com/?ref=gospelforlife.com). Char is a coach who integrates the gospel into nutrition, movement, and overall health. She serves women through [Live Wholehearted](https://www.livewholehearted.com/?ref=gospelforlife.com). ## Our Values We are motivated by the following values: - **Scripture** — The truth of Scripture, which points us to Jesus, undergirds everything we do. - **Church** — The church is at the center of God’s plan for humanity. We act to support the ministry of faithful local churches. - **Encouragement** — Everyone needs encouragement. We aim to provide hope and encouragement to everyone we meet. - **Quality** — We aim to provide practical, high-quality resources and training. ## Principles Download a PDF of our principles: [PrinciplesPrinciples.pdf50 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/Principles.pdf "Download") ### How to Grow Resources URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/how-to-grow-resources/ Last updated: 2024-08-27T20:38:17.000Z ## Small Group Guide [Small Group Guide (PDF)How-to-Grow-Small-Group-Guide-1551572861.\_print.pdf.html136 Bytesdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/How-to-Grow-Small-Group-Guide-1551572861.%5Fprint.pdf.html "Download") [Small Group Guide (ePub)How-to-Grow-Small-Group-Guide-1551572841.epub.html136 Bytesdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/How-to-Grow-Small-Group-Guide-1551572841.epub.html "Download") [Small Group Guide (mobi)How-to-Grow-Small-Group-Guide-1551572851.mobi.html136 Bytesdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/How-to-Grow-Small-Group-Guide-1551572851.mobi.html "Download") ## Sermon Assets [Bulletin Insertmp\_how\_to\_grow\_bulletin\_insert.pdf.html136 Bytesdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/mp%5Fhow%5Fto%5Fgrow%5Fbulletin%5Finsert.pdf.html "Download") [Flyermp\_how\_to\_grow\_print\_ready\_flyer.pdf.html136 Bytesdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/mp%5Fhow%5Fto%5Fgrow%5Fprint%5Fready%5Fflyer.pdf.html "Download") [Sermon Outlinesmp\_how\_to\_grow\_sermon\_outline.pdf.html136 Bytesdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/mp%5Fhow%5Fto%5Fgrow%5Fsermon%5Foutline.pdf.html "Download") ## Graphics ### Sermon Graphics ![](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/images/2024/08/mp_how_to_grow_background_slide_1280x720-1.jpg) Slide ![](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/images/2024/08/mp_how_to_grow_shareable1.jpg) Square graphic ![](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/images/2024/08/mp_how_to_grow_shareable2.jpg) Square graphic ### Growth Stage Graphics ![](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/images/2024/08/update-growth-stages-01.png) Orange background ![](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/images/2024/08/update-growth-stages-02.png) White background with detail ![](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/images/2024/08/update-growth-stages-03.png) White background without detail ## Need More? [Contact us!](https://www.gospelforlife.com/contact/) I'd love to hear from you. ### Contact URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/contact/ Last updated: 2024-08-19T16:10:01.000Z Contact us using the form below: ### Courses URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/courses/ Last updated: 2024-09-01T09:51:00.000Z ## Helping Others Grow ![Helping Others Grow](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/images/2024/09/helping-others-grow.jpg) "Helping Others Grow" is a course that teaches practical skills to encourage others in their spiritual journey and make a lasting impact in their lives. [More about Helping Others Grow](https://www.gospelforlife.com/helping-others-grow-course/) --- ## 8 Habits Challenge ![8 Habits Challenge](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/images/2024/09/8-Habits-Challenge.jpg) The "8 Habits Challenge" is an 8-week coaching program that helps people build sustainable spiritual habits. It's based on the book [*8 Habits for Growth*](https://www.gospelforlife.com/8-habits-for-growth/). It includes video lessons, resources, and an online community for support. Sign up to our email updates to find out when we run the next 8 Habits Challenge. ## Sign up for Gospel for Life Resources to help you become more like Jesus Subscribe Email sent! Check your inbox to complete your signup. No spam. Unsubscribe anytime. ### Group Coaching URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/group-coaching/ Last updated: 2024-08-19T13:55:13.000Z ### About Group Coaching Group coaching is a type of coaching where a coach works with a small group of people who share common goals or interests. It allows you to learn and grow with the support of others. In group coaching, participants benefit from the collective wisdom and experience of the group. They also have the opportunity to share their own insights and perspectives, which can help others in the group. Group coaching sessions typically involve discussions, exercises, and activities that are designed to help participants achieve their goals. The coach provides guidance and support, but the emphasis is on the group working together to achieve success. Group coaching is an effective way to build relationships, learn from others, and achieve personal and ministry growth. It is also a more affordable option than individual coaching. If you want a helpful and team-focused environment to reach your goals, group coaching might be a good fit for you. ### Group Coaching Options #### 8 Habits Challenge To sign up for the next **8 Habits Challenge**, a group coaching experience based on Darryl's book [*8 Habits for Growth*](https://www.dashhouse.com/books/?ref=gospelforlife.com), fill in the form below. #### Group Coaching with Boards and Staff Darryl also meets with church boards and staff to coach on the subject of Christian discipleship. If you would like to invite Darryl to provide coaching to your team, please [contact us](mailto:info@gospelforlife.com). ### 8 Habits Challenge Resources URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/8-habits-challenge-resources/ Last updated: 2024-08-20T18:01:36.000Z Download the 8 Habits Challenge worksheet below: [8 Week Challenge8weekChallenge.pdf264 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/8weekChallenge.pdf "Download") ## Other Course Material [Intro to HabitsIntro-to-Habits.pdf234 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/Intro-to-Habits.pdf "Download") [Make TimeMake-Time.pdf260 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/Make-Time.pdf "Download") [Rest and RefreshRest-and-Refresh.pdf260 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/Rest-and-Refresh.pdf "Download") [Engage the BibleEnage-the-Bible.pdf265 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/Enage-the-Bible.pdf "Download") [Speak With GodSpeak-With-God.pdf85 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/Speak-With-God.pdf "Download") [Worship and BelongWorship-and-Belong.pdf95 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/Worship-and-Belong.pdf "Download") [Care for Your BodyCare-for-Your-Body.pdf26 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/Care-for-Your-Body.pdf "Download") [Simplify and PrioritizeSimplify-and-Prioritize.pdf66 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/Simplify-and-Prioritize.pdf "Download") [Go the DistanceGo-the-Distance.pdf763 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/Go-the-Distance.pdf "Download") [Rule of Life Worksheetrule-of-life-worksheet.pdf66 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/rule-of-life-worksheet.pdf "Download") ### Helping Others Grow Notebook URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/helping-others-grow-notebook/ Last updated: 2024-08-20T19:22:09.000Z Download the course workbook below: [Helping Others Grow notebookHelping-Others-Grow-notebook.pdf8 MBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/Helping-Others-Grow-notebook.pdf "Download") ### Where Are You Strong? URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/assessment/ Last updated: 2026-01-13T22:05:44.000Z _No content available._ ### What's Your Stage? URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/stages/ Last updated: 2026-01-13T23:07:37.000Z _No content available._ ### Helping Others Grow URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/helping-others-grow-course/ Last updated: 2024-09-01T09:29:31.000Z In **Helping Others Grow**, you’ll learn how to make an eternal difference in the lives of others. Learn how to start and understand personal transformation in the Bible. Get practical tips for inviting others to join your spiritual journey. You’ll learn practical coaching skills to help you walk with others and help them take the next step in following Jesus. You’ll discover how the Spirit uses people like you to shape the lives of others. - **Clear, practical, biblical teaching** — Rooted in Scripture, applied in the context of life and ministry - **Transformational** — This course is not meant to inform you. It’s meant to help you influence others for eternity. - **Hopeful** — We’ve designed this course to help everyday people, not just the spiritually elite. ### Enroll in ‘Helping Others Grow’ Today You’ll receive lifetime access to the course, with lessons and videos that are richly biblical and designed for immediate application. The goal is to help you grow spiritually and to make an eternal difference in the lives of others. REGISTER NOW ## Frequently Asked Questions #### Who teaches the course? Darryl Dash, pastor of Grace Fellowship Church East Toronto, and author of **8 Habits for Growth* and **How to Grow*. #### What will I get? You’ll get lifetime access to the course, featuring clear, practical, biblical teaching on helping others grow. The course features written lessons, videos, and a downloadable workbook. #### How long do I have to complete the course? As much time as you need. #### Can I use this course with others? Yes. Use it with as many people as you would like. ### Wallpapers URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/wallpapers/ Last updated: 2024-09-21T19:18:05.000Z Download wallpapers with the *8 Habits for Growth* for your phone or computer. ## Desktop Wallpapers [8 Habits Desktop (gold)8Habits-Desktop-Screen-gold.png136 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/8Habits-Desktop-Screen-gold.png "Download") [8 Habits Desktop (white)8Habits-Desktop-Screen-white.png166 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/8Habits-Desktop-Screen-white.png "Download") ## Phone Wallpaper [8 Habits Phone (gold)8-habits-gold.png710 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/8-habits-gold.png "Download") [8 Habits Phone (white)8-habits-white.png208 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/8-habits-white.png "Download") ### Bonus Appendices URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/bonus-appendices/ Last updated: 2024-08-21T14:45:11.000Z Download the bonus appendices "Using 8 Habits for Growth in Your Church" and "Helping Others Grow" from the book *8 Habits for Growth*. [Appendix One — Using 8 Habits in Your ChurchAppendix-One.pdf31 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/Appendix-One.pdf "Download") [Appendix Two — Helping Others GrowAppendix-Two.pdf46 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/Appendix-Two.pdf "Download") ### Habit #1: Make Time URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/habit-1/ Last updated: 2025-08-28T01:52:07.000Z 8 Habits for Growth follows a behavior change model, consisting of three phases: - Preparation - Action - Maintenance This habit is part of the preparation phase. It's foundational for all the other habits in this book. 💡 ****Big Idea:** Make Time. Specifically, make at least 10–15 minutes per day to work through the **8 Habits for Growth* book, and once you’re done, to continue practicing these habits. ### Choose Your Actions Choose one or more of the following: - Pick a time of day when you’re alert and not likely to be distracted. Make an appointment with yourself. - Set an alarm to remind you of your daily appointment. - Post a reminder of your new habit where you’ll see it throughout the day. ### Suggested Resources #### **Resources on Habits** - [*The Power of Habit*](https://go.dashhouse.com/4RFb?ref=gospelforlife.com)by Charles Duhigg is the first book I ever read on habits. It's entertaining and engaging. I still recommend it. - [*Atomic Habits*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvPC?ref=gospelforlife.com) by James Clear is also a favorite. Clear outlines some simple guidelines for designing habits: make it obvious, make it attractive, make it easy, and make it satisfying. Bonus: I also love his [weekly newsletter](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvPD?ref=gospelforlife.com). - [*Tiny Habits*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvPH?ref=gospelforlife.com) by BJ Fogg is great at teaching how to shrink habits and make them doable. He also runs a [free Tiny Habits program](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvPJ?ref=gospelforlife.com) that’s open to anyone. - [*Your Future Self Will Thank You*](https://go.dashhouse.com/4RFa?ref=gospelforlife.com) by Drew Dyck is a great look at habits from a Christian perspective. #### **Resources on Making Time** - My top book on making time is [*Make Time: How to Focus on What Matters Every Day*](https://go.dashhouse.com/2grE?ref=gospelforlife.com) by Jake Knapp and John Zeratsky. I review it often. - I also really like Carey Nieuwhof’s book [*At Your Best: How to Get Time, Energy, and Priorities Working in Your Favor*](https://go.dashhouse.com/6WUu?ref=gospelforlife.com). #### **Resources on Heart Change** - In [*How to Grow*](https://gospelforlife.com/grow/?ref=gospelforlife.com), I explain that growth is about pursuing joy *and* transformed desires. - [*Pleasures Evermore*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvPQ?ref=gospelforlife.com) by Sam Storms reminds us that the goal of the Christian life is the enjoyment of God. - Want to find out your growth stage? Check out the [Stages assessment](https://www.gospelforlife.com/stages/). Have an idea, or need support? [Visit the Gospel for Life community.](https://members.gospelforlife.com/?ref=gospelforlife.com) ### Habit #2: Rest and Refresh URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/habit-2/ Last updated: 2025-08-28T01:53:33.000Z You may be surprised to see Rest and Refresh as the second habit. We placed it here intentionally for a couple of reasons: - Most of us are way too busy, and we need to slow down a little to build our relationship with God. - The scripture places great importance on observing the Sabbath and taking the time to rest. It’s a gift from God. In fact, Adam and Eve’s first day was Sabbath. They rested before they got to work. 💡 ****Big Idea:** God built us for a rhythm of work, so build rest into your life. Specifically, build a rhythm of work and rest in your life on a daily and weekly basis. ### Choose Your Actions Choose one or more of the following: - Pick a daily action (taking a nap or bath, going for a walk, reading a book) that brings you rest. - Brainstorm a list of activities that refresh you and make you feel more alive. - Make a list of activities that are pseudo-rest, that look restful but leave you drained (e.g., excessive social media scrolling, playing video games for too long, or binge-watching shows). - Pick a recurring date for a full-day Sabbath, and put it on the calendar. ### Suggested Resources #### **Bible Project Video** This [Bible Project video](https://bibleproject.com/explore/video/sabbath-video/?ref=gospelforlife.com) helps explain what the Bible teaches about rest. #### **Resources on Sabbath and Rest** - [*The Rest of God: Restoring Your Soul by Restoring Sabbath*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvPV?ref=gospelforlife.com) by Mark Buchanan is one of the first books I read on this subject. It’s still the first book I’d recommend to most people. - [*The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry: How to Stay Emotionally Healthy and Spiritually Alive in the Chaos of the Modern World*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvPa?ref=gospelforlife.com) by John Mark Comer is a timely book for many of us. - [*Reset: Living a Grace-Paced Life in a Burnout Culture*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvPe?ref=gospelforlife.com) by David Murray is written for men who want to find a more sustainable pace, and [*Refresh: Embracing a Grace-Paced Life in a World of Endless Demands*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvPf?ref=gospelforlife.com) by Shona and David Murray is written for women. - [*Zeal Without Burnout: Seven Keys to a Lifelong Ministry of Sustainable Sacrifice*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvPk?ref=gospelforlife.com) by Christopher Ash is written for people in Christian ministry who want to pace themselves to last. - [*24/6: A Prescription for a Healthier, Happier Life*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvPl?ref=gospelforlife.com) by Matthew Sleeth and [*Subversive Sabbath: The Surprising Power of Rest in a Nonstop World*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvPn?ref=gospelforlife.com) by A. Swoboda are both helpful books on Sabbath. Have an idea, or need support? [Visit the Gospel for Life community.](https://members.gospelforlife.com/?ref=gospelforlife.com) ### Habit #3: Engage the Bible URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/habit-3/ Last updated: 2025-08-28T01:58:31.000Z Out of all the habits you can develop, engaging the Bible is perhaps the most important. Donald Whitney, a leading teacher on spiritual disciples, writes, “No spiritual discipline is more important than the intake of God’s Word. Nothing can substitute for it. There simply is no healthy Christian life apart from a diet of the milk and meat of Scripture.” We want to provide you with some resources to help. 💡 ****Big Idea:** Engage the Bible by reading or listening to Scripture daily. Engaging the Bible is essential to the Christian life. ### Choose Your Actions Choose one or more of the following: - Choose a format that works for you: paper, electronic, or audio. - Investigate Bible reading plans, and choose one that interests you and fits your schedule. - Find friends who want to read the Bible regularly, and form a group for discussion and mutual support. ### Suggested Resources #### **Bibles** ##### Paper Bibles Here are a few of my favorite Study Bibles: - [CSB Day-by-Day Chronological Bible](https://go.dashhouse.com/BcFu?ref=gospelforlife.com) - [CSB Study Bible](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvPs?ref=gospelforlife.com) - [ESV Study Bible](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvPt?ref=gospelforlife.com) - [NIV Study Bible](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvPz?ref=gospelforlife.com) - [NIV Biblical Theology Study Bible](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvP%5F?ref=gospelforlife.com) - [NIV Grace and Truth Study Bible](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvQU?ref=gospelforlife.com) - [NLT Illustrated Study Bible](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvQ4?ref=gospelforlife.com) Another option is a Reader’s Bible. A Reader’s Bible allow you to read the Bible without verse numbers, section headings, and translation footnotes, more like a regular book. For instance, check out the [ESV Reader’s Bible](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvQY?ref=gospelforlife.com). If you like to write in your Bibles, then a [journaling Bible](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvQc?ref=gospelforlife.com) is a great option. I also like the [ESV Scripture Journals](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvQj?ref=gospelforlife.com). They provide separate volumes for each book of the Bible, with lightly lined blank pages next to each page of Bible text. ##### Electronic Bibles - [YouVersion](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvQs?ref=gospelforlife.com) is one of the most-used Bible apps. - The [ESV Bible App](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvQv?ref=gospelforlife.com) offers Bible text, audio, and optional study Bibles. - The Bible in One Year offers an app ([IOS](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvQy?ref=gospelforlife.com) and [Android](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvR0?ref=gospelforlife.com)) and [website](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvQw?ref=gospelforlife.com). ##### Audio Bibles - I love the [Dwell app](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvR2?ref=gospelforlife.com). There’s a subscription fee, but it’s worth it. - Another interesting audio Bible is called [her.bible](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvR4?ref=gospelforlife.com), featuring female narrators. - Audible.com sells a good selection of audio Bibles, such as the audio version of the [One Year Bible](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvRE?ref=gospelforlife.com). - Some of the apps mentioned in the Electronic Bible section also feature audio Bibles. #### **Bible Reading Plans** - Generate your own Bible reading plan with [Bible Reading Plan Generator](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvRI?ref=gospelforlife.com). Choose your time frame, format, and the books of the Bible you want to read, then print it out. - Some Bibles are formatted to help you read the Bible in one year, along with supporting notes. For instance, the [CSB Chronological Study Bible](https://go.dashhouse.com/BcFu?ref=gospelforlife.com) includes a reading plan with daily notes from Dr. George Guthrie. - [*The Bible in 52 Weeks for Men*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvRM?ref=gospelforlife.com), along with the [small group workbook](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvRQ?ref=gospelforlife.com), is a great resource for men. There's also a version of the [Bible for women](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvRc?ref=gospelforlife.com). - If you’re looking for a challenge, try reading the Bible in [90 days](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvS0?ref=gospelforlife.com). - The [Five Day Bible Reading Plan](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvS6?ref=gospelforlife.com) helps you to read the entire Bible or just the New Testament in one year. - In [*How to Eat Your Bible*](https://go.dashhouse.com/3J57?ref=gospelforlife.com), Nate Pickowicz suggests a seven-year Bible reading plan that allows you to read each section repeatedly before moving on to the next one. #### **Other Resources** - George Guthrie's book [*A Short Guide to Reading the Bible Better*](https://go.dashhouse.com/BSeE?ref=gospelforlife.com) is an accessible handbook to help you better read God’s Word, whether you are new to the Bible or have been reading it faithfully for decades. Highly recommended. - I love the videos at [Bible Project](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvSB?ref=gospelforlife.com) for understanding the books and themes of the Bible. - [She Reads Truth](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvSC?ref=gospelforlife.com), [He Reads Truth](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvSD?ref=gospelforlife.com), and [Kids Read Truth](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvSG?ref=gospelforlife.com) put out some really helpful material. I’m constantly impressed by their resources. - We also recommend [*The Essential Bible Companion*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvSK?ref=gospelforlife.com), which provides a two-page overview of every book of the Bible. - The [*NIV Compact Bible Commentary*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvSL?ref=gospelforlife.com) is an inexpensive one-volume commentary on the entire Bible. - If you want to dig deeper, check out [*How to Read the Bible for All Its Worth*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvSP?ref=gospelforlife.com) or [*Seven Things I Wish Christians Knew About the Bible*](https://go.dashhouse.com/9-Xk?ref=gospelforlife.com). - [Twelve](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvSQ?ref=gospelforlife.com) is a free app for IOS and Android designed to keep each other accountable to read the Word of God every day. “Our simple app allows you to share a picture of what you read each day and have a conversation about it with everyone in your small group.” Have an idea, or need support? [Visit the Gospel for Life community.](https://members.gospelforlife.com/?ref=gospelforlife.com) ### Habit #4: Speak with God URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/habit-4/ Last updated: 2025-08-28T01:59:49.000Z We don’t *have to* speak with God in prayer; we *get to* speak with God in prayer. It’s a gift, not an obligation. God loves to hear from his people. He invites us to come to him and tell him what’s on our minds, and to ask for his help in every area of our lives. The hardest part about prayer is often just getting started. This habit helps you see prayer as a regular part of your life, something you do regularly as you live in relationship with our Father. 💡 ****Big Idea:** Speak with God every day through prayer. Live your life in relationship with God. ### Choose Your Actions Choose one or more of the following: - Choose a time each day to pray, and set a timer for five minutes. - Go for a prayer walk. While walking, spend time praying to God and telling Him what is on your mind. - Write down your prayers. Buy a paper journal or use a journaling app, and write your prayers to God. ### Suggested Resources #### **Books** - Paul Miller's book, [*A Praying Life*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvSy?ref=gospelforlife.com), has been the most helpful resource for improving my prayer life. Reading this book helped me stop seeing prayer as an obligation. It made me want to pray more. If you don’t want to read the whole book, [*Beginning a Praying Life*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3Yy9?ref=gospelforlife.com) is based on the bigger book, but only 64 pages. - Skye Jethani’s book [*What If Jesus Was Serious About Prayer?*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvT2?ref=gospelforlife.com)is also very good. - Tim Keller has also written a [helpful book on prayer](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvT4?ref=gospelforlife.com). - My friend Tim Kerr has written a helpful small book called *22 Life Lessons on Prayer*. Download it for free below. He has also created a book called *Take Words With You*. It has over 2500 Scripture promises and prayers to enhance your prayer life. It's also available as a free download below. [22 Life Lessons on Prayer22 Life Lessons on Prayer.pdf2 MBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/22-Life-Lessons-on-Prayer.pdf "Download") [Take Words With YouTake-Words-with-You\_online-version.pdf568 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/Take-Words-with-You%5Fonline-version.pdf "Download") - If you want to experiment with praying at set times throughout the day, [*The Divine Hours*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvTI?ref=gospelforlife.com) is a good place to start. #### **App** I enjoy using the [PrayerMate app](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvTK?ref=gospelforlife.com) to help organize when I pray for people and ministries. Have an idea, or need support? [Visit the Gospel for Life community.](https://members.gospelforlife.com/?ref=gospelforlife.com) ### Habit #5: Worship and Belong URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/habit-5/ Last updated: 2025-08-28T02:00:53.000Z Many today think that the Christian life is personal — it’s just you and God. The Bible presents a different picture. The focus of the Bible is God creating a community for Himself. Joining a church is not optional. It’s at the very heart of God’s purpose for us. In this habit, we’re going to explore the importance of worshiping and belonging, and how to take the next step. 💡 ****Big Idea:** We’re meant to live our lives as part of God’s people, both receiving from and contributing to the lives of other believers. ### Choose Your Actions Choose one or more of the following: - If not part of a church, find some possible good churches near you. - Attend church every week that you’re able. - Join a small group within the church. - Pick someone in the church and look for a way to encourage him or her. ### Suggested Resources #### **Find a Church** Look for a good church near you through word of mouth, by asking a trusted friend or pastor, or by using one of these directories: - [The Gospel Coalition Church Directory](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvTQ?ref=gospelforlife.com) - [9Marks Church Search](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvTn?ref=gospelforlife.com) #### **Books** - “A Christian without a church is a Christian in trouble.” Learn why in [*Rediscover Church: Why the Body of Christ Is Essential*](https://go.dashhouse.com/5b3f?ref=gospelforlife.com) by Collin Hansen and Jonathan Leeman. - Church is uncomfortable! In [*Uncomfortable: The Awkward and Essential Challenge of Christian Community*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/45kW?ref=gospelforlife.com), Brett McCracken helps us learn to love the church, even when it’s challenging. - Sam Alberry’s book [*Why Bother With Church?*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvTw?ref=gospelforlife.com) outlines what church is, why we need it, and how we can move closer to what church can be. - In [*Caring for One Another: 8 Ways to Cultivate Meaningful Relationships*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvT%5F?ref=gospelforlife.com), Ed Welch helps Christians understand how to care for others through meaningful relationships within the church. - We often don’t give thought to how to prepare for corporate worship. Tony Payne’s book [*How to Walk Into Church*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvU2?ref=gospelforlife.com) is the practical how-to guide you didn’t know you needed. #### **Articles** - I appreciated this article by H.B. Charles: [When It’s Time to Leave a Church](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvU5?ref=gospelforlife.com) - This [post](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvU6?ref=gospelforlife.com) explains how to leave a church to the glory of God. Have an idea, or need support? [Visit the Gospel for Life community.](https://members.gospelforlife.com/?ref=gospelforlife.com) ### Habit #6: Care for Your Body URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/habit-6/ Last updated: 2025-08-28T02:02:16.000Z When God made physical creation, He pronounced it good. God made us embodied creatures, and He calls us to care for every part of our lives, including our bodies. Our bodies and souls matter to God. Our souls and resurrected bodies will exist for eternity. In this habit, we’re going to explore why our bodies matter, and how we can care for them well so that we honor God with our bodies. 💡 ****Big Idea:** Care for your body for God’s glory and so that you can love and serve others. ### Choose Your Actions Choose one or more of the following: - Eat slowly. Savor every bite. Really enjoy food when you eat. - Pay attention to hunger signals, and pay attention to when you’re hungry and full. - Learn how to cook a tasty, nutritious new dish. - Buy a cookbook of nutritious recipes you’re able to cook. - Brainstorm a list of physical activities you enjoy and choose one to try. - Set an alarm to remind you to get outside and go for a walk each day. ### Suggested Resources #### **Books** - [*Embodied*](https://go.dashhouse.com/4WvH?ref=gospelforlife.com) by Gregg Allison presents a holistic theology of the human body. - If you have ever struggled with what it means to be a Christian in a physical world, check out Mike Wittmer’s book [*Becoming Worldly Saints*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvUn?ref=gospelforlife.com). Wittmer explains how to bring your human and Christian lives together. - [*The Supper of the Lamb*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvUr?ref=gospelforlife.com) is a quirky book, but an enjoyable one. It will awaken you to the wonder of God’s gift of food. - [*A Meal with Jesus*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvUt?ref=gospelforlife.com) by Tim Chester examines the centrality of food to Jesus’ ministry, and how we can use food to show hospitality to others. - In [*Full*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvUv?ref=gospelforlife.com), Asheritah Ciuciu helps us develop a healthier relationship with food through a stronger relationship with Christ. - I like Michael Pollan’s advice, “Eat food. Not too much. Mostly plants.” He develops this idea in his helpful book [*Food Rules*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvUx?ref=gospelforlife.com). - If you want to cultivate fun in your exercise, check out [*No Sweat: How the Simple Science of Motivation Can Bring You a Lifetime of Fitness*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvUy?ref=gospelforlife.com). - The Royal Canadian Air Force developed an [exercise program](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvU-?ref=gospelforlife.com) that takes only a few minutes a day. I enjoy it. - I like books that help push beyond diet fads. One such book is [*You Can't Screw This Up*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvV4?ref=gospelforlife.com). Simple and doable. **Other Resources** - The [Precision Nutrition blog](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvVg?ref=gospelforlife.com) is a good source of information on good nutrition and related topics. - [Layman's Fitness](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvVh?ref=gospelforlife.com) seeks to provide the man in the pew with the "What" and the "Why" of exercise and fitness for God's glory. - My wife provides gospel-based nutrition coaching for women through [livewholehearted.com](https://livewholehearted.com/?ref=gospelforlife.com). Have an idea, or need support? [Visit the Gospel for Life community.](https://members.gospelforlife.com/?ref=gospelforlife.com) ### Habit #7: Simplify and Prioritize URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/habit-7/ Last updated: 2025-08-28T02:03:27.000Z Chances are your life is full, maybe too full. It’s one reason why many are drawn to decluttering and minimalism. Deep down, we want to get rid of the clutter and focus on what really matters. In this habit, we’re not going to add something for you to do. We’re going to try to help you lighten your load. We’re going to look for ways to simplify your life so that you can prioritize what matters most. Habit #7 is designed to help you prepare to maintain the habits you’ve built as you look to the future. 💡 ****Big Idea:** Look for ways to simplify your life in order to keep your focus on the main thing. ### Choose Your Actions Choose one or more of the following: - Create a list of distractions in your life. - Delete distracting apps from your phone. - Make a list of “most important activities” that you want to prioritize in your life. - Consider quitting something that isn’t a priority in your life. ### Suggested Resources #### **Books** - [*Simplify Your Spiritual Life: Spiritual Disciplines for the Overwhelmed*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvW7?ref=gospelforlife.com) and [*The Freedom of Simplicity*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4D5Q?ref=gospelforlife.com) both deal with simplicity and spiritual disciplines. - I love the title of the book [*Crazy Busy*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvW9?ref=gospelforlife.com) by Kevin DeYoung, and the content of the book is good too. DeYoung aims to deal with the heart of our busyness issue, not just the symptoms. - John Mark Comer’s book [*The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvPa?ref=gospelforlife.com)is timely and important. Comer describes what hurry does to our souls, and offers practical suggestions on how to slow and focus on abiding in Christ. - [*Essentialism*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvWA?ref=gospelforlife.com) and [*Effortless*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvWB?ref=gospelforlife.com) are both books I’ve enjoyed. The first is about doing the right things; the second is about doing them in the right way. - [*An Unhurried Life*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvWC?ref=gospelforlife.com) and [*An Unhurried Leader*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvWE?ref=gospelforlife.com) both offer counsel on how to slow down to focus on what matters most. - Bob Goff has written a helpful book called [*Undistracted: Capture Your Purpose. Rediscover Your Joy*](https://go.dashhouse.com/AToI?ref=gospelforlife.com). - Cal Newport’s book [*Deep Work*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvWG?ref=gospelforlife.com) helps us beat distraction at work, and his book [*Digital Minimalism*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvWI?ref=gospelforlife.com) helps us rethink our use of technology. Have an idea, or need support? [Visit the Gospel for Life community.](https://members.gospelforlife.com/?ref=gospelforlife.com) ### Habit #8: Go the Distance URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/habit-8/ Last updated: 2025-08-28T02:05:51.000Z You’ve reached the last habit, and it’s an important one. I want this habit to help you continue practicing good habits in your life by creating your own Rule of Life. I want you to customize the habits for your life and the demands you face. In a sense, it’s like writing your own Owner’s Manual. The main idea is to find ways to make time for rest, refreshment, engaging with the Bible, speaking with God, worshiping and belonging, taking care of your body, and simplifying and prioritizing what matters most in your life. 💡 ****Big Idea:** Begin to build a Rule of Life, a set of rhythms and relationships that fit your life. ### Choose Your Actions Choose one or more of the following: - Make a list of habits you’ve enjoyed and that have helped you from this book. - Make a list of key habits that could make a big difference in your life. - Think about some areas that are working for you, and how you can do more of that. - Set a timer for ten minutes and work on your Rule of Life. ### Suggested Resources #### **Books** - In [*God in My Everything*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvWN?ref=gospelforlife.com), Ken Shigematsu shows to build and use a “rule of life” to cultivate a closer relationship with God. He shows how a personal rule of life can fit almost any vocation or life situation. - Stephen Macchia’s book [*Crafting a Rule of Life*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvWQ?ref=gospelforlife.com) is another helpful guide to building your rule of life. - [*The Common Rule*](https://go.dashhouse.com/EvWY?ref=gospelforlife.com) by Justin Whitmel Earley describes simple daily and weekly habits that can transform your life and faith. - John Mark Comer has created a free online [Rule of Life builder](https://go.dashhouse.com/Knb0?ref=gospelforlife.com). #### **Worksheet** The book has a worksheet for creating a Rule of Life. If you’d like to download your own copy, you can download it below. [Rule of Life worksheetrule-of-life-worksheet.pdf364 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/rule-of-life-worksheet-1.pdf "Download") Have an idea, or need support? [Visit the Gospel for Life community.](https://members.gospelforlife.com/?ref=gospelforlife.com) ## Posts ### Discipleship Links URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/discipleship-links-7/ Last updated: 2026-09-08T05:00:44.000Z Some good posts we've found on building gospel habits: [You Don’t Have to Read the Bible](https://janacarlson.com/guilt-free-bible-reading/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > In fact, our motivation can make all the difference between guilt-driven and delight-driven Bible reading. [It’s Not Too Late to Make This a Great Year of Bible Reading](https://www.challies.com/articles/its-not-too-late-to-make-this-a-great-year-of-bible-reading/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > The place to begin is with this: God does not command you to have a daily quiet time. [How to Read the Bible: 15 Tips for Beginners](https://www.kevinhalloran.net/how-to-read-the-bible-for-beginners/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > The Bible shows us how sin has separated us from God, and how in love, He sent his Son Jesus Christ to die on the cross and rise from the dead so we could be forgiven and reconciled to him. [Read the Bible Slowly](https://murraycampbell.substack.com/p/read-the-bible-slowly) > This different and slow pace helps to see and enjoy things in God’s word that I may otherwise have missed. [How to Read the Bible Through the Lens of the Gospel](https://www.crossway.org/articles/how-to-read-the-bible-through-the-lens-of-the-gospel/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > If we seek to interpret the Bible rightly, our interpretation must first be based on the author’s original intention to his original readers. [How to Pray When You Feel Like You Pray the Same Thing Every Day](https://www.crossway.org/articles/how-to-pray-when-you-feel-like-you-pray-the-same-thing-every-day/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > When we pray Scripture, whether it’s a psalm or any other passage, we have fresh ideas to fuel our prayers each day. [Why Should I Go to Church?](https://learn.ligonier.org/articles/why-should-i-go-to-church?ref=gospelforlife.com) > The first answer to that question is the most simple and basic one: because the Bible tells us to! [How to Listen to a Sermon](https://www.gospelforlife.com/how-to-listen-to-a-sermon/) > Cultivate such a high view of Scripture that it shapes how you prepare, listen to, and respond to a sermon. [5 Ways to Cultivate Spiritual Formation in the Church](https://www.logos.com/grow/min-spiritual-formation-in-the-church/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > The goal of the local church, then, is to make new disciples and to help existing disciples grow toward maturity. [5 Tips for Effective 1-on-1 Discipleship](https://www.logos.com/grow/min-one-on-one-discipleship-tips/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > For the rest of human history, until Jesus comes back, the purpose of the church is to make disciples, as opposed to, say, just believers. ### Ask for Help URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/ask-for-help/ Last updated: 2026-09-01T05:00:56.000Z I appreciate [Angela Duckworth’s](https://www.angeladuckworth.com/?ref=gospelforlife.com) writing, so I was interested in her recent essay in the New York Times called [“I Study Successful People. They Have One Habit in Common.”](https://www.nytimes.com/2026/08/28/opinion/successful-people-help.html?ref=gospelforlife.com) What is that one habit? “Research has found that a willingness to ask for help is crucial to achievement.” Successful people, she argues, ask for help. And yet that’s exactly the thing that I have a hard time doing. I tend to live independently, trying to figure things out on my own so I don’t have to bother others or rely on them. My wife has helped me overcome this tendency, but it’s still a struggle. And this affects how I approach God as well. What is one of the best things you can do in your life? Ask for help. Ask for help from others, but even more importantly, ask for help from God. ## Come Needy Scripture invites us to come to God for help: > Cast your burden on the LORD, > and he will sustain you; > he will never permit > the righteous to be moved. > (Psalm 55:22) Jesus invites us to keep on asking, seeking, and knocking (Matthew 7:7-11). Other people may get tired of our requests for help, but God never does. Need wisdom? Ask God for what you need (James 1:5). Feeling anxious and feeling like you need something? Tell God about it (Philippians 4:6-7). Give your anxieties to God, knowing that he cares for you (1 Peter 5:7). Can’t even figure out what to pray? Bring your muddled prayers to God, trusting that God will intercede for you when you don’t know how to pray (Romans 8:26-27). You can be sure that God is ready to hear your prayers, and that you will find help and mercy in time of need (Hebrews 4:16). You have permission to come needy to your God. In fact, one of the reasons why Jesus commands us to pray for daily bread is because he wants us to learn daily dependence on God for all that we need. Jesus could have told us to pray for our month’s worth of daily bread so we didn’t have to come bother him again every day. Instead, he encouraged us to live with an awareness of our daily need for God to provide everything we need in life, even the most basic of our necessities. As Paul Miller [writes](https://amzn.to/45XeiJm?ref=gospelforlife.com), “The criteria for coming to Jesus is weariness. Come overwhelmed with life. Come with your wandering mind. Come messy.” As you do, ask God for exactly what you need. ## Admitting the Truth The question isn’t whether we need God’s help or not. We clearly do. Life is far too overwhelming, and our strength is far too small, to manage life on our own. Live long enough and you will see how many things are beyond your control, and how many situations are beyond your ability to manage. The real issue is whether we will humble ourselves and admit that we need God’s help, and then live in daily dependence on him. The quality that sets successful people apart, according to Angela Duckworth, is that they ask for help. It turns out that this isn’t just a quality that sets successful people apart; it’s also a quality that helps us in our walk with God as well. Come to God. Tell him what you need. Don’t try to live on your own power. God is never exhausted by our neediness. He stands ready to listen, and he stands ready to help. ### How to Listen to a Sermon URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/how-to-listen-to-a-sermon/ Last updated: 2026-08-18T05:00:33.000Z How do you listen to a sermon? Easy. Go to church, sit in a chair, wait for the sermon, and listen. But actually, there’s more to listening to a sermon well. Matt Smethurst writes: > What you get out of sermons isn’t just up to your pastor. It’s also up to you. > > Pride: “I know this already.” > Humility: “I need this again.” > > Don’t be a prideful listener. > > — Matt Smethurst (@MattSmethurst) [July 25, 2026](https://x.com/MattSmethurst/status/2081016350672085233?ref%5Fsrc=twsrc%5Etfw&ref=gospelforlife.com) If you’re going to listen to a sermon well, you need to take some deliberate steps. Here are some practical steps you can take right now. ## Treasure Scripture The most important step you can take is to ensure you have a right view of Scripture. If you treasure Scripture, you will also treasure the preaching of Scripture. This means that we should think accurately about what Scripture is and intends to do (2 Timothy 3:16-17), and we should also pray that God gives us a heart that loves his word (Psalm 119:97). Treasure Scripture, and you will also treasure the preaching of Scripture. ## Prepare Before the Sermon A lot of the preparation for hearing a sermon happens before you listen. Arrive ready to hear God’s word preached. Here are some steps you can take: - Pray for a receptive heart before listening to the sermon. - If possible, read and meditate on the passage being preached in advance. - Get adequate rest so that you’re able to concentrate during the sermon. - Cultivate high expectations of what will happen during the sermon. A little preparation before you begin to listen counts for a lot. Prepare your heart and mind before you even start to listen to the sermon. ## Listen Well During the sermon, listen well. Jesus told a parable about various kinds of listeners, and he concluded by saying, “Take care then how you hear” (Luke 8:18). There’s a spiritual battle going on when you listen to a sermon, so prepare for the battle and listen well. Lean in. Pay attention. Open your Bible. Minimize distractions. If it helps, take notes. Actively listen. Work hard at listening to what the preacher says, and compare it with Scripture. Don’t just passively sit back and listen. Come to church as a participant, not as a spectator. Treat the sermon as if it really matters, because it does. ## Take the Sermon Home Don’t stop when the sermon’s over. Talk about the sermon with others. Ask them for their thoughts on the passage, and share how God’s word affected you. Dedicate some time to thinking through the sermon and how it would change your life if it’s true. Apply the sermon to your life. Pray through what you heard, and ask God to change your heart. If I were to summarize all of this in one sentence, it would be this: **Cultivate such a high view of Scripture that it shapes how you prepare, listen to, and respond to a sermon.** Never take the preaching of God’s word lightly. Listen carefully, and respond. Decide to be someone who takes part in preaching before, during, and after the sermon. This way, you can get the most out of hearing God’s word. For more on how to listen to a sermon, check out [*A Consumer’s Guide to Preaching*](https://amzn.to/4fZfRMB?ref=gospelforlife.com) by Jay Adams and [*How Do I Get the Most from My Pastor's Sermons?*](https://amzn.to/4ib5yGC?ref=gospelforlife.com) by Gunner Gunderson. ### Spiritual Organization URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/spiritual-organization/ Last updated: 2026-08-04T05:00:19.000Z A few weeks ago, I heard a term that I can't stop thinking about. It comes from an [interview](https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/room-for-nuance/id1694579242?i=1000773871505&ref=gospelforlife.com) with Mike Bullmore about his recent book, [*The Heart of Preaching*](https://amzn.to/4pQxOjz?ref=gospelforlife.com). In the interview and the book, he talks about the idea of spiritual organization. Bullmore got the idea from J. I. Packer's excellent book, [*The Quest for Godliness*](https://amzn.to/4hv6ipZ?ref=gospelforlife.com), which describes Puritan life: > They lived by ‘method’ (we would say, by a rule of life), planning and proportioning their time with care, not so much to keep bad things out as to make sure that they got all good and important things in—necessary wisdom, then as now, for busy people! We today, who tend to live unplanned lives at random in a series of non-communicating compartments and who hence feel swamped and distracted most of the time, could learn much from the Puritans at this point. In his book, Bullmore says: > Often when we think about faithfulness and perseverance, we think about discipline over time. Certainly that’s an important component to our faithfulness and perseverance. But I want to suggest that if two critical items aren’t present ahead of discipline, discipline will not last. The two things I have in mind are intentionality and—my special focus here—spiritual organization. I’m thinking of our intention to pursue certain things and our purposefulness in organizing our lives to facilitate those things. In other words, we need three things: 1. Intentionality — setting out to do the right things 2. Spiritual organization — a plan to organize our lives and schedules so that certain practices, “especially rhythms of spiritual refreshment and rest,” are in place 3. Discipline — the ability to choose what is best in the moment We usually focus on the third, but discipline isn’t sustainable without the first two. Our disciplines are often unsustainable because they're not supported by an organized life. We often promise to try new habits after reading a book or going to a conference, but these promises usually disappear within weeks. This happens because our daily routines aren't set up to help us keep them. Discipline alone won't last; we need to organize our lives to support the things we want. ## Spiritually Organize Your Life I've been thinking about that a lot. What would it look like for us to organize our lives this way? How can we not only avoid bad things but also ensure we have enough good things, like [Scripture intake](https://www.gospelforlife.com/tag/engage-the-bible/), [praying](https://www.gospelforlife.com/tag/speak-with-god/), [worshiping](https://www.gospelforlife.com/tag/worship-and-belong/), and other habits that nourish our souls? The place to start isn’t with discipline. That comes later. The place to start is to begin with deciding what we want to build in our lives. Then we need a plan for how to create healthy rhythms that allow us to build these good things into our lives. We need to answer practical questions like what we want to do, when we want to do it, and how. While you plan what to do, also think about rest, refreshment, and space you need in your life to achieve those goals. Think about the daily, weekly, and yearly rhythms that you will need. Bullmore argues that spiritual organization is a powerful contributor to faithfulness and perseverance. It will help you build sustainable habits and maintain them well for a long time. There was a time when I didn't even think of such a thing. I would just argue that we need to practice things like Bible reading and prayer. But now I'm convinced Bullmore is right. To be successful at maintaining these habits, we need the rhythm that spiritual organization provides. What sort of practices do you need in your life? What annual, weekly, and daily rhythms will help you not only keep bad things out but ensure good and right things get in? Don't rely too much on discipline alone; build rhythms into your life that make it easier to do the things that help you grow. ### Discipleship Links URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/discipleship-links-6/ Last updated: 2026-07-28T05:00:07.000Z Some good posts we've found on building gospel habits: [Make the Time and Reap the Benefits](https://gcdiscipleship.com/article-feed/make-the-time-and-reap-the-benefits?ref=gospelforlife.com) > We have seen the fruit of faithfully pursuing Jesus Christ as a family, and it all stems from regular family worship time. [Could Your Devotional Material Be Hindering Your Spiritual Growth?](https://achalmersblog.com/2026/07/09/could-your-devotional-material-be-hindering-your-spiritual-growth/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > The danger is that we begin to treat them as a substitute for reading Scripture itself. [Rest Is Not a Thing to Be Bought, but Received](https://mereorthodoxy.com/rest-is-not-a-thing-to-be-bought-but-received/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > Our speech about vacations and retreats reveals that Americans both in and outside of the church have accepted a particular mindset about work, life, and time. [Prodigal Sabbath Rest](https://newsletter.oalannoble.com/p/prodigal-sabbath-rest?ref=gospelforlife.com) > What this taught me was that sometimes we need to take the time to address underlying causes of unrest. [The Lord of the Sabbath](https://learn.ligonier.org/articles/the-lord-of-the-sabbath?ref=gospelforlife.com) > In Mark 2:23–28, the Lord Jesus Christ cuts through the Pharisees’ legalism to recover what the Sabbath was always meant to be: a gift to man and a day belonging to its Lord. [6 Reasons to Study the Bible](https://www.crossway.org/articles/6-reasons-to-study-the-bible/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > I want to encourage you that Bible study is worth the effort because it allows you to know God more deeply and share his truth with more clarity. [Why We Never Outgrow Scripture](https://gcdiscipleship.com/article-feed/why-we-never-outgrow-scripture?ref=gospelforlife.com) > The Word of God possesses a depth that no single reading, study, or even a lifetime of study can exhaust. [‘I’m Not Feeling It Today’: Bad Reasons We Neglect the Bible](https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/im-not-feeling-it-today?ref=gospelforlife.com) > Joy in God’s presence disappears when I don’t make a habit of pursuing his presence. [‘I Don’t Have Time to Read Scripture’: Bad Reasons We Neglect the Bible](https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/i-dont-have-time-to-read-scripture?ref=gospelforlife.com) > If we would really hear God’s voice in Scripture, we must fight hurry. [‘I’m Too Distracted When I Read’: Bad Reasons We Neglect the Bible](https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/im-too-distracted-when-i-read?ref=gospelforlife.com) > If you let it, distraction will steal what’s best from your soul. [‘I Don’t Understand What I Read’: Bad Reasons We Neglect the Bible](https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/i-dont-understand-what-i-read?ref=gospelforlife.com) > The sovereign God speaks to us in his trustworthy and true word, and we need God to open our eyes and hearts to rightly see and really believe what he has revealed. [How to Memorize Scripture: My Proven Method for Memorizing 45 Books](https://www.logos.com/grow/how-to-memorize-bible-verses/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > One primary way we can do this is by memorizing Scripture. [Why Prayer Is Necessary for You](https://gentlereformation.com/2026/06/22/why-prayer-is-necessary-for-you/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > God will give His grace and the Holy Spirit only to those who constantly and with heartfelt longing ask Him for these gifts and thank Him for them. [7 Tips for Getting More out of Sunday Sermons](https://www.crossway.org/articles/7-tips-for-getting-more-out-of-sunday-sermons/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > Here are some small practices that can strengthen our grasp on the precious truths being handed to us in these moments. [Leaving a Church Well](https://gcdiscipleship.com/article-feed/leaving-a-church-well?ref=gospelforlife.com) > Before you leave, open your Bible with a pastor and seek understanding and instruction on the gap you perceive. [Men and Women Have Unique Discipleship Strengths, Weaknesses](https://research.lifeway.com/2026/07/14/men-and-women-have-unique-discipleship-strengths-weaknesses/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > In general, women have higher discipleship scores than men, according to analysis from Lifeway Research's State of Discipleship study. [The Secret Place](https://mereorthodoxy.com/the-secret-place/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > Eric did not merely witness his father’s private devotion, but a life whose deepest reality did not need to be publicized. ### Where Spiritual Growth Begins URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/where-spiritual-growth-begins/ Last updated: 2026-07-14T05:00:22.000Z If you want to grow spiritually, you need to develop some habits: reading God’s word, praying, and engaging with a local church. I don’t know any Christian who is genuinely growing without these practices, and I’ve also seen that when people drift from them, their growth usually stalls. But as important as these habits are, they aren’t where you begin. They come later. First, focus on desire and time. ## Desire Before you take up any spiritual discipline, ask the most important question: Do I truly desire God? The goal isn’t to practice habits for their own sake; it’s to meet with the living God. These habits are meant to be means — pathways that lead us to him — not ends in themselves. The good news is that God promises to be found by those who seek him. If you genuinely pursue him, he will honor that longing. But if you practice the disciplines without desire, you’ll eventually feel like you’re just going through the motions. And remember: desire fluctuates. When your longing for God wanes, don’t panic, and don’t think you’re the only one. But don’t settle there either. Bring your coldness to him honestly, and ask him to rekindle what’s grown dim. You may also want to check out John Piper’s book When I Don’t Desire God for more help. Remember: keep God himself as the goal, not the habits. Ask God to help you focus on him and increase your desire for him. Let that renewed desire draw you back to his word, to prayer, and to his people. The disciplines aren’t the destination; they’re the pathways to encountering God. ## Time There’s another key step: **make time**. Growth in Christ takes time, like any pursuit that truly matters. We need time to read Scripture, pray, and gather with the church, not just for worship, but to build real relationships with fellow believers. Start small, and aim for a rhythm you can sustain. Choose a manageable Bible reading plan. Keep your prayers simple at first, and let them deepen over time. Then choose a time that genuinely fits your life and protect it. It may not be hours to begin with, but it should be a regular, guarded window you treat as a real priority. In the same way, protect your time for church each week. Prioritize the gathered worship of God’s people, and commit to some form of ministry or community where you can be known and get to know others. Make this a settled rhythm rather than a weekly decision. We’re all busy, but we all make time for what matters. If you want to grow in godliness, you’ll need to make time for the basic disciplines. Over time, that protected time becomes one of the main ways God strengthens both your desire for him and your consistency in seeking him. Desire and time go hand in hand. When we truly want something, we tend to find a way to make time for it, but we still have to set it apart intentionally. That’s why two common reasons people drift from these habits are a lack of desire for God and a failure to protect their schedule. Begin by asking God for a deeper desire for himself, then carve out space in your week for his word, prayer, and life with his people. This is where growth begins. ### Why Spiritual Maturity Takes Time (and Why That’s Good News) URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/why-spiritual-maturity-takes-time-and-why-thats-good-news/ Last updated: 2026-06-30T05:00:30.000Z Why does it take so long for us to grow into spiritual maturity? Richard Sibbes addresses that question in his book [*Glorious Freedom*](https://amzn.to/4f6yBsT?ref=gospelforlife.com). Sibbes (1577–1635) was a leading English Puritan preacher and theologian, known for a compassionate, Christ-centered ministry that earned him the nickname “honey-tongued.” Born in Suffolk and educated at Cambridge, he served in London congregations like St. Antholin’s and Holy Trinity, emphasizing Christ’s sufficiency, inward renewal, and pastoral tenderness. His works—including [*The Bruised Reed*](https://amzn.to/4f7H3rS?ref=gospelforlife.com) and [*The Doctrine of Repentance*](https://amzn.to/4ewWslr?ref=gospelforlife.com)—have deeply shaped later Puritan and evangelical theology and devotional life. Sibbes offers steady encouragement: “Let no one in whom grace has begun be discouraged. God will go on with his grace.” Grace often begins in seed form and grows over time. That means we must be willing to grow slowly, because “progress is gradual in the new creature.” He speaks directly to the discouragement many of us feel: > Let those who are growing not be discouraged with their little beginnings. It is God’s way in this world to bring his children by little and little, through many stations. It is one part of a Christian’s meekness to be subject to God’s wisdom in this respect, and not to complain that they are not as perfect as they would like to be or as they shall be. In fact, even small changes are reasons for hope: > Christians should magnify the mercy of God that there is any change in such defiled and polluted souls;… that God has granted any beginnings. Magnify his mercy, rather than quarrel with his dispensation, that he does not do this all at once. One of Sibbes’s most surprising and most strengthening insights is this: “God sometimes works by contraries. He makes men grow by their decreasing, and to stand by their falls.” When we fall, the Lord often uses it to deepen us. We learn to hate sin more, to watch our hearts more carefully, to treasure God’s pardoning mercy more dearly, and to walk more humbly. As Sibbes observes, “No one grows so much as those who had their growth stopped for a time.” He closes with the kind of reassurance weary believers need: “Let no one be too discouraged who finds a stop.... I would not have anyone discouraged. God will go through the work he has begun and will turn everything to good.” Sibbes leaves us with this comfort: God usually grows us slowly, not because he is absent, but because he is wise and patient. We don’t need to despise small beginnings or complain that change isn’t instant. Even our stumbles can become means of growth—teaching us to hate sin more, cling to Christ’s mercy, and walk more humbly. So we keep going with hope: the God who began his work in us will finish it and will turn even setbacks to our good. So take heart in small steps. Look for simple signs of grace—quicker repentance, a softer conscience, a growing desire for God—and thank him for them. When progress feels slow, keep showing up in the ordinary means of grace: Scripture, prayer, worship, and humble obedience. And when you stumble, don’t spiral; confess, receive Christ’s pardon, learn what the fall exposes, and keep walking, trusting God to finish what he started. ### Discipleship Links URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/discipleship-links-5/ Last updated: 2026-06-23T05:00:20.000Z Some good posts we've found on building gospel habits: [Spiritual Maturity Keeps Maturing: Seven Marks of Growing Disciples](https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/spiritual-maturity-keeps-maturing?ref=gospelforlife.com) > There is no finish line for maturity this side of heaven. [No One Drifts Into Godliness—Why Spiritual Growth Is Not Accidental](https://ca.thegospelcoalition.org/article/no-one-drifts-into-godliness-why-spiritual-growth-is-not-accidental/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > The Christian life isn’t accidental; it doesn’t unravel or flourish randomly. [The Comfort & Assurance of Baby Steps in Sanctification](https://gentlereformation.com/2026/06/16/the-comfort-assurance-of-baby-steps-in-sanctification/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > Even though we’re waddling, we’re moving forward. [10 Tips for Becoming an Excellent Bible Interpreter - With All Wisdom](https://withallwisdom.org/2026/06/17/10-tips-for-becoming-an-excellent-bible-interpreter/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > Becoming a skilled interpreter of Scripture is not a complicated task. [Biblical Self-Examination: Questions for Growth - Stacey Pardoe](https://staceypardoe.com/2026/06/17/biblical-self-examination-questions-for-growth/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > Self-examination is a biblical concept, but we can be swept too far into this introspection. [What the Bible Says About the Power of Prayer](https://www.kevinhalloran.net/what-the-bible-says-about-the-power-of-prayer/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > The Bible says that prayer is powerful. [Establishing A Daily Rhythm of Prayer](https://articles.theshepherdsrefuge.com/p/establishing-a-daily-rhythm-of-prayer?ref=gospelforlife.com) > Daily self-examination, properly done, is not a fixation on failure or the practice of 'sin management.' [4 Reasons to Take Sabbath Seriously](https://research.lifeway.com/2026/06/09/4-reasons-to-take-sabbath-seriously/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > God not only blessed the Sabbath day and made it holy, but He still also blesses those who take it seriously enough to consistently observe it. ['Pressing On Toward the Goal' | Covenant Seminary](https://www.covenantseminary.edu/theology/pressing-on-spiritual-formation-forgetting-pursuing?ref=gospelforlife.com) > There will never be a point in the Christian life where you or I have arrived at the end of our spiritual growth. ### Discipleship Links URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/discipleship-links-4/ Last updated: 2026-06-09T05:00:14.000Z Some good posts we've found on building gospel habits: [Tiny Changes, Massive Payoffs – Building Jerusalem](https://buildingjerusalem.blog/2026/03/25/tiny-changes-massive-payoffs/?ref=dashhouse.com) > There seems to be a real health benefit even in making relatively small changes to lifestyle and behaviour. [Rushing Our Quiet Times](https://au.thegospelcoalition.org/article/rushing-our-quiet-times/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > Our quiet time becomes something to get done, rather than a space for real growth in our relationship with God. [Five Escapes From Dry Devotions](https://www.desiringgod.org/interviews/five-escapes-from-dry-devotions?ref=gospelforlife.com) > Pastor John offers five practices to enliven dry devotions. [How to Read the Bible When Your Heart Feels Cold](https://learn.ligonier.org/articles/how-to-read-the-bible-when-your-heart-feels-cold?ref=gospelforlife.com) > How can we rekindle our delight in God and His holy Word? [How to Understand a Biblical Passage: Hermeneutics 101](https://www.youthpastortheologian.com/blog/how-to-understand-a-biblical-passage-hermeneutics?ref=gospelforlife.com) > The goal of reading the Scriptures is not merely to gain knowledge about God or to learn certain beliefs and behaviors. [The Power of Scripture Memory in Discipleship](https://www.youthpastortheologian.com/blog/the-power-of-scripture-memory-in-discipleship?ref=gospelforlife.com) > Scripture memorization can be a powerful tool in discipling students. [Fifteen Questions to Help You Grow in Corporate Worship: Preparation, Participation and Departure](https://www.9marks.org/article/fifteen-questions-to-help-you-grow-in-corporate-worship-preparation-participation-and-departure/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > These questions are not intended to induce unnecessary guilt or promote an unhealthy form of introspection that prompts us to look more to ourselves than to Christ in worship. [The Difference Between a Lazy Sunday and Intentional Sabbath Rest](https://www.crossway.org/articles/the-difference-between-a-lazy-sunday-and-intentional-sabbath-rest/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > There is a component of physical rest that the Lord has built into the Sabbath. [For the Church | Before You Pick a House, Pick a Church](https://ftc.co/resource-library/articles/before-you-pick-a-house-pick-a-church/?ref=dashhouse.com) > Instead of asking, 'Where will I live?' we should ask, 'Who will be my community?' [Not Everything Is Discipleship](https://www.nnym.org/blog/not-everything-is-discipleship-3334.htm?ref=gospelforlife.com) > In trying to broaden discipleship, we may have unintentionally lost intentional discipleship. ### Four Keys to Unlocking a Lasting Bible Reading Habit URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/four-keys-to-unlocking-a-lasting-bible-reading-habit/ Last updated: 2026-05-19T05:00:40.000Z Many of us have tried, and failed, to build a consistent Bible reading habit. We start strong in January, miss a few days, and quietly give up. But what if the problem isn't discipline? What if it's that we've been missing a few key pieces of the puzzle? I’ve come to realize that building the habit of Bible reading is like a combination lock with four rotating dials. It’s not enough to get one number right; until you get all four aligned properly, the lock won’t open. Here are the four dials that help unlock a Bible reading habit. ## Time A friend described his schedule to me. He works, serves in multiple ministries in church, and is in the process of applying to medical schools, and shoulders family responsibilities. I asked when he takes time off. “I was sick the other week,” he said. No matter how hard my friend tries, he can’t cram more into his life. He’s not alone. Many people I know face more demands than they have time. It’s not hopeless. They always seem to make time for something new if it matters to them, but they have to make choices. We can’t keep adding things into our lives without taking something away. If someone wants to build the habit of reading the Bible, something else probably has to go. One of the biggest obstacles we face is that we’re just too busy. Fortunately, it doesn’t take much time to read the Bible. It takes 15-20 minutes a day to read through the entire Bible in one year; 8-10 minutes to read through the entire Bible in two years. Until we make the time, we won’t build the habit. ## Tools A friend struggled to read Scripture. She couldn’t understand it. “Have you tried a study Bible?” I asked. She got one, and it changed her experience. Reading the Bible is a little like learning how to drive a stick shift. You could figure it out on your own, but it’s easier to learn from others who know what they’re doing. Study Bibles, reading plans (often found at the back of a good study Bible), audio Bibles, and books like *A Short Guide to Reading the Bible Better* by George Guthrie or *How to Read the Bible for All Its Worth* by Gordon Fee and Douglas Stewart provide important help as you learn to read the Bible. ## Desire I want to go to the gym a few times a week. The problem: when the moment arrives, I don’t *really* want to go to the gym. Never underestimate the gap between aspiration and desire. When something’s important to us, we figure out a way to get it done. Of course, desires come and go. We can’t expect to always want to do the right thing. Still, we can pray that God increases our desire for Scripture so that we can say with David, “I will delight in your statutes; I will not forget your word” (Psalm 119:16). ## Style I like to read the Bible in the morning alone. My wife prefers to read the Bible later in the day as part of an online group that provides encouragement and accountability. We’ve learned what works for us through trial and error. Most books on habits were written by authors with a particular personality style, but all of us are different. Find what works for you. Try different times of day, kinds of reading (print, app, or audio). Experiment with different kinds of structure, spontaneity, and social support. None of these four dials have to be perfect before you begin. You don't need the ideal schedule, the best study Bible, or a burning passion that never wavers. You simply need to start, and keep adjusting as you go. The beautiful thing about a combination lock is that you can always try again. So this week, take one small step: set aside ten minutes, open your Bible, and trust that God meets us in our willingness, not our perfection. When you make the time, possess the tools and desire, and adjust to your preferred style, you may find that you've unlocked not just a habit, but a lifelong delight in the God who speaks through every page. ### Discipleship Links URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/discipleship-links-3/ Last updated: 2026-03-17T09:00:12.000Z Some good posts we've found on building gospel habits: [5 Things You Should Know About Sanctification](https://learn.ligonier.org/articles/5-things-sanctification?ref=gospelforlife.com) > Sanctification is the work of God’s free grace, whereby we are renewed in the whole man after the image of God, and are enabled more and more to die unto sin, and live unto righteousness. [Five Escapes From Dry Devotions](http://rss.desiringgod.org/link/10732/17293744/five-escapes-from-dry-devotions?ref=gospelforlife.com) > Every Christian’s goal in reading, especially in reading the Bible — should be to know reality in as many ways as God has designed for it to be known. [3 Poor Reasons To Read The Bible](https://www.knowableword.com/2026/03/09/3-poor-reasons-to-read-the-bible/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > The reasons I have for sitting down with God’s word are often mixed. [Random Thoughts And Tips On Prayer](https://www.challies.com/articles/random-thoughts-and-tips-on-prayer/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > No one apart from Jesus has ever mastered prayer, and no one apart from Jesus has ever fully understood it, so don’t be discouraged if you find praying difficult or perplexing. [4 Practical Tools to Help You Pray](https://www.crossway.org/articles/4-practical-tools-to-help-you-pray/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > Let’s get really practical about the “how” of prayer. [Things I Love To Hear In The Prayer Meeting – Aliens And Pilgrims](https://jacobrcrouch.wordpress.com/2026/02/18/things-i-love-to-hear-in-the-prayer-meeting/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > A real prayer meeting where the saints are gathered to pour out their hearts before God, now that’s a thrill. [What Is Worship Music For? 5 Reasons To Sing](https://www.logos.com/grow/min-role-of-music-in-worship/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > Why do we sing, and what does our singing accomplish in church? In this article, I want to highlight five reasons that musical worship is a key element of Christian liturgy. ### How to Battle Sin URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/how-to-battle-sin/ Last updated: 2026-03-03T10:00:02.000Z We all know the feeling. You promised yourself this time would be different. You meant it. But then the familiar temptation came: the same old pull toward lust, anger, pride, or selfishness, and you caved. Again. Battling sin isn't theoretical. It's the daily, exhausting reality of Christian life. Romans 6 speaks directly into this struggle. Not with moral pep talks or better coping strategies, but with gospel realities that change the entire landscape of how we fight. Here are four insights from Romans 6 on how to battle sin well. ## Know What's Already True of You The first weapon against sin isn't a technique—it's a truth. Romans 6:2 declares that every believer *has died to sin*. Not "should die to sin" or "will one day die to sin." Paul uses the past tense to describe a completed action: when you united with Christ, your old relationship with sin ended. This doesn't mean temptation disappears or that you've arrived at sinless perfection. It means sin's *ruling power* over you is broken. John Stott put it this way: sin has not become extinct in the believer, but it has been defeated—not annihilated, but deprived of power. It may tempt you, but it no longer owns you. This matters enormously. When a familiar sin comes knocking—lust, anger, gossip, pride—you don't have to answer the door. You can say, "I don't belong to you anymore." That's not willpower; that's living out who you already are in Christ. ## Remember Who You Are United To Romans 6:3-10 takes this even further. Paul tells us that if you are in Christ, what happened to *him* has happened to *you*. His death is your death. His resurrection is your resurrection. His victory over sin is your victory. John Piper captures the stakes: "If we can grasp what union with Christ means, we will be a very happy and holy people." Paul makes the point five different ways: we were baptized into his death, buried with him, united with him, our old self was crucified with him, and we have died with him. But then five more times he says we also share in his resurrection: we walk in newness of life, are united with him in resurrection, are set free from sin, will also live with him, and live to God. The same power that raised Christ from the dead is at work in you. You are not fighting sin in your own strength. You are fighting from a position of victory that has already been secured. ## Preach the Truth to Yourself, Then Act on It Romans 6:11 contains the first command in the entire book of Romans: *"Consider yourselves dead to sin and alive to God in Christ Jesus."* Notice what Paul does here. He doesn't open with a command to *do* something—he opens with a command to *believe* something. Consider it. Reckon it to be true. You can't just hold the doctrine in your head; you have to inhabit it. What you believe about yourself shapes how you live. Think of yourself as a new creature in Christ. What follows in verses 12-14 is the active response: don't let sin reign in your body. Don't yield your body parts to sin as instruments of unrighteousness. Instead, devote everything—your eyes, ears, hands, feet, mouth, and mind—to God as instruments of righteousness. Sanctification isn't passive. It's not "letting go and letting God." It requires your active participation. God accomplishes it through you, not apart from you (Philippians 2:12-13). When temptation hits, don't just *feel*your way through it. Preach to yourself: *"I am dead to this sin's power. I am alive to God in Christ."* Then act accordingly. ## Live Like Someone Under New Ownership Romans 6:15-23 brings one more critical insight: you now have a new master. Paul uses the image of slavery to make an either/or point. Everyone serves someone. The only question is *who*. As Bob Dylan once put it: "You're gonna have to serve somebody." Either you serve sin, which leads to death, or you serve God, which leads to life. Before Christ, you had no choice. Sin commanded, and you obeyed—you were free from righteousness, but that "freedom" was bondage. Now everything has changed. God has liberated you from sin's tyranny and placed you under new ownership. You belong to Jesus—body and soul. This changes how you respond to temptation. Think of it this way: when sin calls out and tells you what to do, you can look it in the eye and say, "You don't get to tell me what to do anymore." You know sin's voice. You're used to it. But you don't belong to it. You belong to Jesus. The danger Paul warns against is *selective obedience*—picking and choosing which commands to follow. That's not serving God; that's managing sin. Wholehearted discipleship asks: what am I still holding back from him? That's precisely where the real battle is being fought. ## The Bottom Line Romans 6 doesn't promise a sin-free life, but it does promise a radically different one. You are dead to sin's power. You are united to Christ in death and resurrection. You are under new ownership. These aren't aspirations—they're gospel realities. So when you battle sin this week—and you will—fight from this ground. You've been brought from death to life. Sin has no dominion over you. Now live like it. ### Discipleship Links URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/discipleship-links-2/ Last updated: 2026-02-17T10:00:04.000Z Some good posts we've found on building gospel habits: [The Four Causes of Spiritual Formation](https://ca.thegospelcoalition.org/article/the-four-causes-of-spiritual-formation/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > Many contemporary models of formation appear more like psychological self-help or therapeutic habit-stacking than distinctively Christian sanctification. [Sanctification Hack?](https://www.jvfesko.com/blog/2026/1/19/sanctification-hack?ref=gospelforlife.com) > There are no sanctification hacks—there are no other means by which we can grow in grace. [Why Bible Reading Plans Fail (and What We Can Do About It)](https://research.lifeway.com/2026/01/22/why-bible-reading-plans-fail-and-what-we-can-do-about-it/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > However it looks, the commonality is that many Bible reading plans just don’t work. [Want to Be More Loving? Read the Bible.](https://research.lifeway.com/2026/02/11/want-to-be-more-loving-read-the-bible/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > Reading the Bible makes a difference. [Fewer Than 1 in 3 Churchgoers Read the Bible Daily](https://research.lifeway.com/2026/02/10/fewer-than-1-in-3-churchgoers-read-the-bible-daily/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > Most churchgoers place a high value on the Bible, but only about a third commit to reading it every day. [Preparing the Heart for Prayer](https://learn.ligonier.org/articles/preparing-heart-for-prayer?ref=gospelforlife.com) > The stakes are high, for Satan is a diabolical saboteur of every device, every instrument, and every means of divine grace and spiritual warfare—prayer especially. [Struggling With Prayer? Ask God For Help.](https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/struggling-prayer-god-help/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > If you struggle to pray, take time to remember your need for God. [The Painful Parts of Prayer – Faithful Paradox](https://faithfulparadox.com/2026/01/27/the-pain-of-prayer/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > I can speak the words of faith, but deep within my heart, there is still doubt he will move. ### Discipleship Links URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/discipleship-links/ Last updated: 2026-01-13T10:00:30.000Z We're starting a new feature. From time to time, we're going to share some links we've found to good articles on discipleship and building gospel habits. Here are some recent posts we found helpful. [How to Build Spiritual Habits That Actually Stick (Even When Life Is Busy)](https://janacarlson.com/how-to-build-consistent-spiritual-habits/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > My grandparents’ simple, daily habits supported a lifetime of faith. [Freedom in Devotions](https://womenstudyingtheword.com/2025/12/15/freedom-in-devotions/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > Such a reply reveals an all-too-common misconception of the Christian life: the thinking that, although we are saved by grace, we earn or forfeit God’s blessings in our daily lives by our performance. [When You Don't Get Anything Out of Devotions](https://www.proclaimanddefend.org/2026/01/02/when-you-dont-get-anything-out-of-devotions/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > Every time you make a choice you are turning the central part of you, the part of you that chooses, into something a little different from what it was before. [5 Habits for Better Prayer in 2026](https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/better-prayer-habits/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > Consider five habits or mindsets that can enrich your extended times of prayer. [How Do We Measure Christian Maturity: Hint, It's Not Just Bible Facts](https://achalmersblog.com/2025/12/11/how-do-we-measure-christian-maturity-hint-its-not-just-bible-facts/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > Maturity is a life increasingly shaped by the Holy Spirit, increasingly surrendered to Jesus, increasingly aligned with the Scriptures, and increasingly oriented toward love for God and neighbour. [Bible Reading as a Blessing, Not a Burden](https://www.spiritualtheology.net/p/bible-reading-as-a-blessing-not-a?ref=gospelforlife.com) > Discover profound insights into spiritual theology that can transform your understanding of faith and personal growth. [Reading the Bible for the Ten Thousandth Time](https://www.knowableword.com/2025/08/11/reading-the-bible-for-the-ten-thousandth-time/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > When we feel fatigue with the Bible, the problem is not with the book. [Be Careful How You Listen to Sermons](https://crookandpsalter.substack.com/p/be-careful-how-you-listen-to-sermons) > The way we listen is a life or death business. [Few Pastors Believe Discipleship Tops Their Churches' Efforts](https://research.lifeway.com/2025/11/04/few-pastors-believe-discipleship-tops-their-churches-efforts/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > The biggest obstacle to discipleship in local churches is motivation among members. This is not a new challenge, but it must be addressed. [The Hard Truth About Soft Discipleship](https://gcdiscipleship.com/article-feed/the-hard-truth-about-soft-discipleship?ref=gospelforlife.com) > Discipleship is no safe adventure. [Why the Goal of Spiritual Formation Can’t Be Balance](https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/goal-spiritual-formation-not-balance/?ref=gospelforlife.com) > Christ wants glory, not just balance, for us—likeness to him rather than comparable lives to others. [A Ministry Made in Secret](https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/a-ministry-made-in-secret?ref=gospelforlife.com) > Private communion with God fuelled a public ministry that had unusual power and attraction. ### A Year-End Spiritual Review URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/a-year-end-spiritual-review/ Last updated: 2025-12-30T11:14:10.000Z The turn of a new year offers an opportunity to reflect on what has been and prepare for what's ahead. Here are some questions to guide you through that process. ## Looking Back Most years unfold differently than we expect. As you reflect, resist the temptation to over-analyze, nurse regret, or condemn yourself. Instead, seek wisdom, express gratitude to God, and ask for his continued help and grace. Ground your reflection in these truths: God is sovereign over your life, working all things for his glory and your good. His grace meets you in your weakness. Hold these realities close as you consider the past year. 1. **What blessings have you enjoyed this year?** Take time to give thanks and praise God for his faithfulness (1 Thessalonians 5:18). 2. **What lessons have you learned?** Consider what God has taught you through Scripture, through others, and through your own experiences, including seasons of difficulty. Write down 2-3 key lessons he's been pressing into your heart. 3. **What burdens are you carrying?** Identify the cares and concerns weighing on you, and entrust them to God (1 Peter 5:7). 4. **How are your habits?** Examine your core spiritual practices: Scripture reading, prayer, and participation in church life (worship and fellowship). What rhythms have served you well? Where have you struggled? 5. **What do you need to let go?** Consider both patterns of sin and areas of distraction. What must be laid aside so you can run the Christian life with freedom (Hebrews 12:1-2)? 6. **Where do you need to try harder? Where do you need to try less?** Sometimes we stumble because we've taken on too much. Other times, we're not challenging ourselves enough. Reflect on areas where you've been coasting and areas where you've been straining under self-imposed pressure. While personal reflection is valuable, consider working through these questions with someone who knows you well and can offer spiritual insight and perspective. Thank God for the past year. Fix your eyes on his faithfulness. He remains faithful even when we falter. ## Looking Forward A new year is an ideal time to recommit to the essentials. Rather than adding more to your life, focus on strengthening what matters most. 1. **What is the one thing you hope to see change this year, by God's grace?** Look beyond circumstances to consider your character. How do you long to grow? Bring this desire to the Lord in prayer. 2. **What core habits can you strengthen?** Start with the foundations: Scripture intake and participation in church life. Choose a realistic Bible reading plan—print, digital, or audio—that will help you delight in God's Word. Commit to consistent worship and fellowship in a healthy church. Establish these rhythms before adding other practices. 3. **How will you build these habits into your life?** Consider your current season, preferences, and circumstances. Plan when and how to incorporate these practices into your routine. 4. **What are your roles, and how can you be faithful in them?** Reflect on the roles you already fill: spouse, parent, employee, friend. What would faithfulness look like in each area this year? Which relationships or responsibilities need particular attention right now? 5. **Who can you bless this year?** Think about the key people in your life. How might you serve, encourage, or surprise them? Focusing outward on others is one of the most effective ways to break free from self-preoccupation. The goal isn't perfection but intentionality. You have a part to play, but you desperately need God's help. Don't lean on your own strength or understanding. Come to him and ask for the wisdom and power only he can provide. God is at work in your life. As you commit yourself to him, he will faithfully help you grow. ### 50 Tips for Reading the Bible URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/50-tips-for-reading-the-bible/ Last updated: 2025-10-14T09:00:02.000Z Reading the Bible can feel overwhelming, especially if you’re just starting out. It’s a big book, full of ancient stories, poetry, and teachings that can be hard to understand at first glance. But here’s the good news: it’s worth it. The Bible isn’t just a book; it’s God’s word, a living and active guide that reveals who He is and how we can live in relationship with him. Whether you’re new to Scripture or looking for fresh ways to engage, these 50 tips will help you take the first steps on a journey that can transform your life. ## Getting Started - Choose a Bible translation that’s accurate and easy to read (e.g., CSB, ESV, NIV, or NLT). - Start with a book like Mark, John, or Psalms to ease into the flow of Scripture. - Use a study Bible to provide context and explanations for what you’re reading. - Set realistic goals. Don’t try to read too much at once. - Find a quiet, comfortable place to read without distractions. - Pray before you begin, asking God for understanding and guidance. - Use a Bible app like [YouVersion](https://www.youversion.com/?ref=gospelforlife.com) for convenience and additional resources. - Begin with small chunks Read a chapter or even just a few verses at a time. - Highlight or underline verses that stand out to you - Keep a journal to jot down thoughts, questions, or prayers. ## Building a Habit - Set aside a specific time each day for Bible reading. - Start with just five minutes a day and build from there. - Use reminders and alarms to help you stay consistent. - Pair your Bible reading with another daily habit, like your morning coffee. - Don’t get discouraged if you miss a day. Just pick up where you left off. - Track your progress to stay motivated. - Find a reading plan that fits your schedule and goals. - Experiment with different times of day to see what works best for you. - Read with a friend or join a Bible study group for accountability. - Celebrate milestones, like finishing your first book of the Bible. ## Understanding What You Read - Familiarize yourself with the Bible’s structure (Old Testament, New Testament, etc.). - Watch videos like those from [The Bible Project](https://bibleproject.com/?ref=gospelforlife.com) to get an overview of each book. - Look for repeated words or themes in the text. - Ask questions as you read: What does this teach me about God? About humanity? - Use commentaries or online resources to clarify difficult passages. - Don’t be afraid to ask a pastor or mentor for help. - Remember that some parts of the Bible are harder to understand. Be patient. - Read passages multiple times to let them sink in. - Compare different translations to get a fuller sense of the meaning. - Write down key verses to memorize and reflect on later. ## Making It Personal - Focus first on what the text teaches you about God and humanity. - Reflect on how the passage applies to your life. - Look for ways to live out what you’ve learned. - Share insights with a friend or family member. - Keep a list of verses that encourage or challenge you. - Use the Psalms as a guide for your own prayers. - Journal about how God is speaking to you through His Word. - Be honest with God about your struggles or doubts as you read. - Look for Jesus in every part of the Bible. He’s the central figure of Scripture. - Remember that the goal isn’t just knowledge but transformation. ## Staying Motivated - Remind yourself why reading the Bible matters. It’s God’s word. - Celebrate the progress you’ve made, no matter how small. - Mix up your routine if you feel stuck. Try a new book or reading plan. - Listen to audio Bibles if reading feels difficult. - Take breaks to reflect and pray rather than rushing through. - Surround yourself with others who value Scripture. - Read stories of how the Bible has impacted others to stay inspired. - Remember that it’s okay to have questions and not understand everything. - Trust that God is working in you through his word, even when it feels dry. - Keep going. Bible reading is a lifelong journey, not a sprint. One final word: These tips are meant to help, but they’re only tips. Keep in mind what John Piper [writes](https://www.desiringgod.org/interviews/ive-never-read-the-bible-where-should-i-start?ref=gospelforlife.com): > Let yourself be caught up in what amazes you. Don’t consider my advice or anybody’s advice where you have to read. It is all God’s word. It is all inspired and reliable — all that is profitable to help you know Christ and know how to be saved from sin and from condemnation and how to have eternal life and how to live a life pleasing to God in this world. > You are on the brink of the greatest adventure of your life. ### Check Your Spiritual Vitals URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/check-your-spiritual-vitals/ Last updated: 2025-09-16T09:00:14.000Z When you visit a doctor, they will first check your vitals: body temperature, blood pressure, pulse, and respiratory rate. These basic measurements provide an objective snapshot of your physical health. They’re a critical starting point, often revealing underlying issues and guiding the next steps for diagnosis or treatment. I've found this concept helpful for supporting believers who are struggling spiritually. Life is complex, and so are its challenges, but I’ve learned to start by checking three spiritual vitals. These often point to the root issues that need attention. ## Vital One: Are you in God's Word? Do you have a regular habit of reading Scripture? Are you immersing yourself in God’s truth? I’ve never met a thriving believer who is not consistently spending time in God’s Word. On the flip side, spiritual struggles often begin when this habit is neglected. The good news is that this is a deficiency you can address. It won’t be effortless, but it’s achievable. Begin with small steps: choose a reading plan, get a good study Bible, read one chapter daily, or listen to an audio Bible while commuting. Don’t aim for spiritual highs in your Bible reading; aim to be shaped by Scripture. Over time, this habit will nourish your soul and strengthen your faith. ## Vital Two: Are you praying? By prayer, I mean both planned and spontaneous moments of connection with God. Do you regularly bring your life to him, sharing your plans, seeking his glory, and expressing your worries? Or are you trying to carry life’s burdens on your own? Prayer doesn’t have to be perfect or eloquent; it just needs to be honest. When we neglect prayer, we cut ourselves off from the strength and grace we need. A thriving prayer life isn’t about quantity but about cultivating a heart that depends on God throughout the day. ## Vital Three: Are you engaged in a local church? Are you regularly attending worship services, hearing God’s Word preached, and participating in the Lord’s Supper? Are you known by others—not just superficially, but deeply, including your struggles? Are you practicing the “one another” commands of Scripture—encouraging, serving, and loving others in community? The Christian life isn’t meant to be lived in isolation. When we pull away from the church, we inevitably struggle. God designed us to grow and thrive in the context of His people. I’m not suggesting that doing these three things will make life easy or guarantee spiritual flourishing. But they are foundational. If one of these areas is neglected, it's likely your spiritual life will feel out of balance. Checking these vitals is essential because they directly impact your overall spiritual health. How are you doing in these three areas? Which one needs attention in your life? The Christian life is more than just these three practices, but they form the bedrock for everything else. Before trying other solutions, start here. Build your life on these foundations, and let God work through them to strengthen and sustain you. ### Why a Boring Christian Life is Best URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/why-a-boring-christian-life-is-best/ Last updated: 2025-09-02T09:00:37.000Z We live in a world that craves excitement. Social media feeds are filled with highlight reels, adventures, achievements, and great moments. In church, we often feel drawn to the next big thing: new conferences, books, or spiritual trends. But what if the best way to live the Christian life isn't found in chasing the extraordinary but in embracing the ordinary? What if the so-called boring Christian life is actually the most faithful, fruitful, and fulfilling way to live? ## The Beauty of the Ordinary The Christian life is built on what theologians call the ordinary means of grace. These essential practices ordained by God help strengthen our faith: reading Scripture, praying, gathering with the church, and taking the Lord's Supper. Westminster Shorter Catechism question 88 asks, “What are the outward means whereby Christ communicates to us the benefits of redemption?” The answer: “The outward and ordinary means whereby Christ communicates to us the benefits of redemption are his ordinances, especially the word, sacraments, and prayer; all which are made effectual to the elect for salvation.” None of these are flashy. Sometimes they're hard and even boring. They don't promise instant results. But they're the steady, faithful rhythms through which God works in our lives. Most of life is made up of ordinary days. Extraordinary moments like weddings, graduations, or life-changing decisions are rare. Most of the time, our days are filled with work, family, and routine. It's in these ordinary moments that God meets us. He doesn't just work in mountaintop experiences; he works in the valleys, the plateaus, and the everyday grind. Ray Ortlund writes, “Our gracious Lord is not playing ‘catch me if you can’ with us. He has made Himself knowable and accessible in specific ways of His own wise choosing—His appointed avenues of blessing are the means of grace.” They may seem ordinary, but they are powerful. As Ortlund says, “His chosen means identify where He has concentrated His availability, like a gushing fountain of mercy for sinners desperate enough to come to Christ on His terms.” ## Why Ordinary Is Better ### Ordinary Is Sustainable Chasing the extraordinary can be exhausting. It’s like running a sprint when life is a marathon. The ordinary means of grace provide a sustainable rhythm for the long haul. They ground us, giving us the spiritual nourishment we need to persevere. ### Ordinary Is Transformative Big moments can inspire us, but real transformation happens over time. Daily Bible reading, quiet prayer moments, and weekly gatherings with fellow believers help shape us into the image of Christ. These small, consistent practices add up to big changes. ### Ordinary Keeps Us Humble Extraordinary things can boost our pride. We may believe that our spiritual growth relies on our efforts or that we are more mature due to our experiences. Ordinary means of grace remind us of our dependence on God. They’re not about what we do for him, but about what he does in us. ### Ordinary Reflects God’s Design God works through the ordinary. Jesus entered the world in the humblest way: born to a young woman in a small, unremarkable town. He spent most of his life in quiet obscurity, working as a carpenter. Jesus repeatedly preferred the ordinary to the extraordinary, showing that God's power is usually found in the simple and humble. ## The Challenge of Ordinary Faithfulness The ordinary can be dull. It’s easy to take the means of grace for granted or to let them become routine. The challenge of Christian life is to find beauty in the mundane, realizing there is no "ordinary" when God is present. Faithfulness in the ordinary requires perseverance. It means showing up, day after day, even when we don’t feel like it. It means trusting that God is working, even when we don’t see immediate results. And it means finding joy in the simple, everyday acts of obedience. The good news is that God doesn’t just work through the ordinary; he transforms it. When we read Scripture, we’re not just reading words on a page; we’re hearing the voice of God. When we pray, we’re not just speaking into the void; we’re communing with our Creator. When we gather with the church, we’re not just attending a meeting; we’re participating in the body of Christ. The ordinary means of grace are extraordinary because they connect us to an extraordinary God. ## A Call to Embrace the Ordinary So, what does it look like to live a “boring” Christian life? It looks like opening your Bible each morning, even when you’re tired. It looks like praying for your family, your church, and your neighbors, even when you don’t have the words. It looks like showing up to church each week, even when it feels like a routine. It looks like trusting that God is at work in the small, unseen moments of your life. It looks like what Paul describes in 1 Thessalonians 4:10-11 (CSB): > But we encourage you, brothers and sisters, to do this even more, to seek to lead a quiet life, to mind your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you, so that you may behave properly in the presence of outsiders and not be dependent on anyone. This is the life God calls us to: a life of ordinary faithfulness. It’s not glamorous, but it’s good. It’s not flashy, but it’s fruitful. And in the end, it’s the life that leads to true joy and lasting transformation. Let's embrace the steady rhythms of grace. And let’s trust that as we do, God will do extraordinary things in and through us for his glory. ### Counterintuitive Truths About Prayer URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/counterintuitive-truths-about-prayer/ Last updated: 2025-08-22T13:40:29.000Z Have you ever come across a left-hand or reverse-threaded nut? Unlike standard nuts, they tighten counterclockwise, defying our natural instincts. Prayer is a lot like that. It’s full of counterintuitive truths that challenge how we naturally think and act. Here are five surprising truths about prayer that might shift your perspective: ### Prayer is less about getting things from God and more about enjoying his presence. Prayer should deepen our relationship with our Father, not just be a task to complete. It's about communion with God. Prayer isn’t about what we can get from God, it’s about getting God himself. That changes everything. ### Prayer thrives on honesty, not perfection. We think we need to clean ourselves up before coming to God, but that’s not how prayer works. God invites us to come as we are—messy, distracted, doubting—and to share our struggles with him. “The criteria for coming to Jesus is weariness,” writes [Paul Miller](https://amzn.to/3V1EBZ9?ref=gospelforlife.com). “Come overwhelmed with life. Come with your wandering mind. Come messy.” Jamin Goggin and Kyle Strobel [write](https://amzn.to/4mLUSgP?ref=gospelforlife.com): > Our great mistake is to see our brokenness, our finitude, and our sin as things that keep us from God rather than as opportunities to throw ourselves at the foot of the cross and grasp his grace. Your sin and your weakness are not a surprise to God, and they shouldn’t be a hindrance to prayer. He knows. Bring your sins and your weaknesses to him in prayer, and ask for his cleansing and his help. ### Prayer is both simple and hard. It’s as straightforward as telling God what’s on your mind, and even children can do it beautifully. Yet, it’s also hard because it requires perseverance and trust. Prayer is easy and hard at the same time, and that tension never really goes away. ### Prayers don’t have to be long to be meaningful. The Lord's Prayer takes 20-30 seconds to say at a normal pace, and it serves as the model Jesus provided. Some of the best prayers in Scripture are short prayers, like these: - “I believe; help my unbelief!” (Mark 9:24) - “God, be merciful to me, a sinner!” (Luke 18:13) Short prayers are better than no prayers. If you feel like you can’t pray long, pray short. Pray often. Just pray. ### Prayer is less about striving and more about surrendering. It’s where we admit that we're not in control and trust the One who holds all things together. While prayer takes effort, it’s also about ceasing our striving and resting in God’s work on our behalf. Finally, here is perhaps the most profound, counterintuitive truth: ### Focus less on prayer itself and more on God. Paul Miller highlights this in his helpful book, [*A Praying Life*](https://amzn.to/3V1EBZ9?ref=gospelforlife.com). “Oddly enough, many people struggle to learn how to pray because they are focusing on praying, not on God.” Experiment with redirecting your focus from prayer to God: his character, his greatness, his love. Rejoice in who he is and what he’s done for you. When you’re captivated by him, prayer becomes the natural overflow. If you fixate on prayer, you’ll likely struggle. But if you fix your eyes on God, prayer will likely follow. Prayer, in all its counterintuitive beauty, invites us into something far greater than we often realize. It’s not about perfect words, polished techniques, or even the act of praying itself. It’s about relationship. It’s about drawing near to the God who made us, loves us, and longs to hear from us. By surrendering and embracing our imperfections while focusing on God rather than just on prayer, we get closer to the true essence of prayer. It’s not a duty but a delight, not a transaction but a communion. And in that communion, we find the grace, strength, and joy we so desperately need. ### Hope for Christians Who Are Bad at Habits URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/hope-for-christians-who-are-bad-at-habits/ Last updated: 2025-07-30T10:30:31.000Z There are two kinds of people in this world: those who love reading books like [*The Power of Habit*](https://amzn.to/40JS4Z0?ref=gospelforlife.com) and [*Atomic Habits*](https://amzn.to/457lSQv?ref=gospelforlife.com), and those who don’t. The problem? The habit-lovers are the minority. They’re the ones writing the books, leaving the rest of us feeling like we’ll never measure up. But here’s the good news: even if you’re not a natural habit keeper, there’s hope. You can build spiritual habits that help you grow. Let me give you three reasons why I’m confident you can build good spiritual habits, even if you're not a natural habit keeper. ## You Have the Power of the Holy Spirit If spiritual growth relied on our strength, we would fail. The truth is, no one grows into Christlikeness by sheer willpower. Christian, you have the Holy Spirit living in you. The same power that raised Jesus from the dead is at work in your life (Romans 8:11). God himself is transforming you, and he’s promised to finish what he started (Philippians 1:6). You don’t have to rely on your own strength; you have the Spirit’s power working in you. This is where I appreciate critiques of spiritual disciplines and habits. If we’re not careful, we can make it sound like our efforts are the key to growth. But that’s not the full picture. Yes, our efforts matter, but they’re not enough on their own. We need God’s help to grow, and he’s promised to provide us with everything we need. ## God Gives Believers a Desire for Him and His Word One of the marks of a Christian is a love for God’s word. The Holy Spirit changes our hearts so that we long to know more about God and what he’s revealed. Psalm 119 is a beautiful meditation on this. The psalmist delights in God’s law, not out of duty, but out of love. God also gives us a desire to pray. Let’s be honest: prayer is hard for most of us. But even in the struggle, God stirs in us a longing to talk to him, to seek his help, and to praise his name. He also gives us a desire to gather with other believers in worship and fellowship. The Christian life isn’t just about duty, it’s about delight: delight in God, his word, and his people. That’s why I’m confident you can develop habits like Scripture reading, prayer, and church involvement. God will transform your heart so that you want to do these things, even if habits don’t come naturally to you. There’s one more reason I’m confident that God can help you build good spiritual habits even if you’re not a natural habit-keeper: ## You Don't Have to Live the Christian Life Alone Alone, we would struggle. But God hasn’t left us alone. He’s given us his Spirit, and he’s given us his church. We are meant to live the Christian life in community. Other believers can encourage us, challenge us, and walk alongside us. What we can’t do on our own, we can do with the help of others. And as we grow, we can also help others when they struggle. The church is a gift: a community where we can build each other up as we pursue God together. So, Christian, even if you’re not a natural habit keeper, your hope isn’t in your own abilities. Your hope is in the resources God has given you: his Spirit, his word, and his people. You’re not alone in this. God is at work in you, and he will help you build the habits you need to grow. I'm confident because God is faithful and has given you everything you need to pursue Him (2 Peter 1:3). I have every confidence that God can and will work in your life to build the habits you need to grow. ### Become Who You Already Are URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/become-who-you-already-are/ Last updated: 2025-07-08T09:00:00.000Z We all wonder what it takes to change. How do we grow in Christ? Is it about mastering habits? Is it all up to us? Or is there some secret strategy we’re missing? The answer is both simple and profound: become who you already are. Here’s what I mean. Growth in Christ means living out what God has already done for us through Jesus, rather than striving for something new. When we come to Christ, we’re transformed. Paul writes, “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come” (2 Corinthians 5:17). This isn’t just a future hope; it’s a present reality. Through Christ’s death and resurrection, our identity has changed. We’re no longer defined by sin, shame, or the world’s standards. We’re clothed in Christ’s righteousness, adopted as God’s children, and empowered by the Spirit. But here’s the tension: while this transformation is complete in Christ, we’re called to live it out daily. Paul puts it this way in Colossians 3:9-10 “You have put off the old self with its practices and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge after the image of its creator.” The new self is already ours, but it’s also being renewed as we grow in understanding and obedience. Our task is to take off the old and put on the new, aligning our lives with the reality of who we are in Christ. This is the foundation of Christian growth: Jesus has already changed you, now live like it. You don’t have to strive to earn an identity. Your job is to live out the identity you’ve already been given by grace. It’s like wearing a uniform that represents who you are. The uniform doesn’t make you part of the team, it shows that you already belong. In the same way, our actions, attitudes, and choices should reflect the reality of who we are in Christ. This is why Scripture always begins with what Christ has done before moving to how we should live. The Gospels and Epistles consistently follow this pattern: identity first, then action. We need to grasp the foundational truth of how Christ has changed us before we can live practically in light of that change. It’s not about pretending to be something we’re not or trying to change on our own. It’s about living out who we truly are in Jesus. And as we do, we become more like Christ, not because we're forcing change, but because we're living out the change he's already made in us. This is the beauty of the gospel: we’re already new, and now we’re invited to live like it. So what does this mean practically? It means we don’t need to hustle to change ourselves. Yes, growth requires effort, but it’s not about self-improvement. It’s about living in the freedom and power of what Jesus has already done. Meditate on the truth of your new identity in Christ. Let it shape your thoughts, your choices, and your habits. Bring your life in line with the reality of who you are in him. Christian, become who you already are. It’s freeing, it’s encouraging, and it’s true. ### We’re All Beginners at Prayer URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/were-all-beginners-at-prayer/ Last updated: 2025-06-10T09:00:56.000Z Prayer is one of the simplest and most profound gifts God has given us. Yet, if we're honest, it's also one of the hardest things we do. Dr. Martin Lloyd-Jones, a notable preacher in the 20th century, said, "Everything we do in the Christian life is easier than prayer." Alexander Whyte, a Scottish preacher, observed, "There is nothing that we are so bad at all our days as prayer." Note that both of these quotes come from mature Christian leaders. No wonder the rest of us sometimes feel discouraged with our prayers. I hope that makes you feel less alone. I've never met anyone who feels they've mastered prayer, not one. Even seasoned pastors and theologians admit they're still beginners at prayer. ## Why Prayer Feels Hard On paper, prayer shouldn’t be hard. Prayer connects us with the loving Creator of the universe, who knows and cares for us through Jesus. He loves to hear from us. Prayer is one of our greatest privileges. And yet, we still find it hard. For one thing, it’s deeply personal. It’s not a performance or a technique. Add to that our wandering minds, our doubts, the busyness of life, and it’s no wonder we struggle. Sometimes we feel like we’re talking to the air. Other times we’re overwhelmed with guilt because we don’t pray enough or well enough. We compare ourselves to others who appear to have everything under control and pray beautifully, making us feel inadequate. Also, Satan would like nothing better than to discourage us in our prayer lives. He knows that if he can keep us from praying, he can disrupt the close fellowship that God wants us to have with him. We have a hard time praying for many reasons. If you struggle to pray, you’re not alone. But here’s the good news: God doesn’t expect us to be experts. He welcomes us to come just as we are and pray. ## Jesus’ Invitation to Beginners When Jesus taught his disciples to pray, he didn’t give them a complicated formula. Instead, he gave them a simple, heartfelt model: “Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name” (Matthew 6:9) Jesus emphasized honesty and simplicity. He warned against praying to impress others or using empty words. Instead, he invited us to come to God as children come to their father, with trust, dependence, and openness. He provided us with a simple model prayer that clearly expresses his priorities for our lives, while addressing our concerns, and it's both profound and brief. Jesus also affirmed simple prayers like this one, found in Luke 18:13: “God, be merciful to me, a sinner!” We don’t need long, complicated prayers. There’s no time limit for how long we must pray or standard we must achieve. Jesus emphasized honesty and simplicity. It's not just about the words we use; it's about opening our hearts to God—sharing our thoughts, seeking his help, and acknowledging his presence in our lives. In fact, God even gave us an entire book of prayers—the Psalms—to turn to when we get stuck praying. We don’t need to be experts at prayer; we just need to pray. ## Why Being a Beginner is Good Being a beginner is valuable because it humbles us and strengthens our reliance on God rather than just our own abilities. It keeps us curious and open to learning. Most importantly, it keeps us focused on the relationship, not on the act of praying itself. One of our greatest problems is sometimes focusing on prayer itself rather than on whom we're praying to. Prayer is not a requirement or a way to gain favor with God; it's about enjoying his presence, expressing our feelings, and listening to his word. Here's a beautiful thing: even when we don't know what to say, the Holy Spirit intercedes for us (Romans 8:26). When we are faithless in praying, our great High Priest is praying for us (Hebrews 7:25). God hears us, even when we sense that our prayers are weak. If you feel like a beginner at prayer, don't be discouraged. You're in good company. The key is to keep showing up. Pray honestly. Tell God what's on your mind, even if it's messy. Thank him for his goodness; ask for his help; confess your struggles. Don't forget to be honest about everything you're going through. In fact, when you struggle in prayer, pray about that too. Tell him that you find it hard; ask for his help. You don't need to be eloquent. You just need to pray! The more you pray, the more you'll grow. But even then, you'll still be a beginner—and that's a good thing. Prayer isn't about being an expert. It’s about being a child of God, welcomed into his presence, loved and heard. Let's embrace our beginner status. Let's pray simply, honestly, and often, and let's trust that God delights in every fumbling word. ### When You Don't Feel Like Going to Church URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/when-you-dont-feel-like-going-to-church/ Last updated: 2025-05-20T09:00:51.000Z We've all had those moments. The alarm goes off. It's time to get ready for church, but you don't feel like it. Every reason not to attend church floods your mind. Maybe you're tired, discouraged, or simply going through a spiritual slump. I've been there and you probably have too. These feelings aren't unusual or necessarily sinful. They're human. ## The Biblical Foundation for Church Attendance Scripture is clear about the importance of gathering together. Hebrews 10 says: > And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near. (Hebrews 10:24-25) Someone [paraphrased](https://go.gospelforlife.com/c11%5F?ref=gospelforlife.com) what how this passage contrasts with what Satan would say: > Therefore, brothers, since we don’t have confidence to enter the holy places by our own sacrifices… by the old and dead way, that we have closed through our flesh… and since we don’t have a great priest over the house of God, let us withdraw far away with a false heart, in empty assurance and doubt, with our hearts still dirty, and our bodies defiled with impurity. Let us stop stirring each other up and stop meeting together… and all the more as we dread the day drawing near Ever feel like that? Satan would love nothing more than to distance us from the God-given means of grace, and that includes corporate worship. That’s one reason why we need to gather together. What Jesus has done is amazing, but we’re so quick to forget it. Worship gatherings mirror the early church's practices of fellowship, breaking bread, prayer, and apostolic teaching, as outlined in Acts 2:42-47\. It also follows the pattern we read about in the rest of the New Testament. God’s people gather together to worship and to practice the many one-another commands of Scripture. ## More Than a Command Gathering is not just a command. It’s an invitation to something life-giving. Church attendance isn't primarily about what we feel; it's about what we need. I don't know how often I've walked into a church feeling spiritually dry, but as I've walked in the door, somebody greeted and encouraged me, and it encouraged me just a little. Then, as the service started, I heard a call to worship like [this one](https://go.gospelforlife.com/c155?ref=gospelforlife.com) given by Ray Ortlund: > To all who are weary and need rest; > To all who mourn and long for comfort; > To all who feel worthless and wonder if God even cares; > To all who are weak and fail and desire strength; > To all who sin and need a Savior — > This church opens wide her doors with a welcome from Jesus, > the mighty friend of sinners, > the ally of his enemies, > the defender of the indefensible, > the justifier of those who have no excuses left… As Ortlund says, “I just want people to know, it’s going to be different now. You just walked into grace. We can relax. We can own up. We can be honest. We can face the living God through the blood of Christ and let him speak to us.” As I’ve heard a call to worship like this, or from Scripture, I’ve often realized there’s hope for someone like me. I’ve been invited into the presence and grace of Jesus. But then there’s the music, the prayer, the Scripture, and the sermon. All of this is designed to give us the help we need. We *need* to worship together. We're not meant to live the Christian life on our own; we need the ministry of the local church. I often feel spiritually lethargic when I come to church, but the ministry nudges me back to Jesus' grace and mercy. Attending church isn’t just a command; it’s a privilege too. We need it. ## Gospel-Centered Reasons to Attend When You Don't Feel Like It Here are some gospel-centered reasons to attend when you don't feel like it: 1. **Church attendance is an act of faith, not feeling**. When we go despite our emotions, we're exercising spiritual muscles. 2. **We often receive what we need, not what we want**. The sermon that speaks to your heart may be the one you almost missed. 3. **Your presence encourages others**. Someone in your church family needs to see your face today. As Sam Allberry [writes](https://amzn.to/4mkfxZJ?ref=gospelforlife.com), “It is almost impossible to overstate the positive impact we can have on others if we are coming looking for ways in which to be an encouragement.” 4. **Worship reorients our perspective**. Singing truth together can lift our eyes from immediate concerns to eternal realities. 5. **The church is God's primary means of spiritual formation**. We need others to see our blind spots and speak truth in love. ## Practical Steps for the Reluctant Churchgoer Still struggling to attend? Sometimes what we need most isn't the desire but simply to act in spite of our desire. These feelings follow our actions. Just show up and pray that God uses the service to give you what you need. Here are some practical steps to consider: - **Prepare your heart the night before**. Spend time in prayer and Scripture on Saturday evening. - **Have accountability**. Tell someone you'll be there, making it harder to back out. - **Consider serving**. When others depend on you, motivation often follows commitment. - **Go for 10 minutes.** When you don't feel like attending church, promise yourself you'll go for just 10 minutes. If after those minutes you still want to leave, give yourself permission to do so. Most often, once you're there, the hurdle of attendance is overcome, and you'll stay. - **Address legitimate obstacles**. If exhaustion is real, adjust your Saturday night schedule. If church feels unwelcoming, talk to leadership or connect with a small group. If you’re still struggling, perhaps something more is going on. Reluctance often masks deeper concerns like unresolved conflict, theological disagreements, past church hurt, depression or anxiety, or spiritual dryness. If you think one of those is the problem, then be sure to follow up with a trusted pastor, counsellor, or friend. Deal with the issue; it probably won't go away on its own. Don't ignore persistent resistance to church attendance. ## Take the Next Small Step This Sunday, instead of asking if you feel like going to church, try asking what God might have for you at church today. Then show up expectantly, even if reluctantly. Pray that God blesses you as you attend. After the service, record one takeaway: a word of encouragement, a meaningful connection, or a truth that resonated with you. Over time, these documented blessings can serve as evidence of God's faithfulness through your church community. Remember, God's grace meets you in your weakness, not your strength. Sometimes the most meaningful worship happens when we simply show up empty-handed and let God meet us in our need. ### The Problem With Habits (and Why We Still Need Them) URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/the-problem-with-habits-and-why-we-still-need-them/ Last updated: 2025-04-15T09:00:33.000Z Habits carry a hidden danger: they can turn meaningful actions into mindless routines. This paradox often appears in spiritual disciplines. A person starts a daily Bible-reading habit but ends up just skimming the verses without truly engaging or reflecting on them. What starts as a sincere prayer can become just another task on a checklist. The consistency that strengthens habits can also make them feel like empty obligations instead of meaningful actions. Habits alone cannot change our hearts. Even disciplined spiritual practices like reading Scripture, praying, or attending church can lose meaning without genuine inner commitment. In the New Testament, the Pharisees exemplify religious leaders who strictly followed spiritual practices such as fasting, prayer, and studying Scripture. Jesus called them out, emphasizing that their diligent rituals masked a heart that remained untransformed. Their story illustrates that impressive religious practices do not guarantee true spiritual transformation. We face a spiritual paradox: habits alone cannot transform us, yet we cannot grow without them. This tension demands a practical solution: How do we maintain essential spiritual disciplines without falling into empty ritualism? Approach habits with structure and intention, maintaining consistency while connecting to their deeper purpose. ## The Limits of Habits Habits, by themselves, cannot bring about true transformation. This truth may come as a shock to Christians who prioritize discipline. While habits matter, they are merely vessels that bring us to the true source of change: God himself. Think of habits as pathways, not power sources. God has established means of grace. They’re ways through which he promises to work in our lives. When we seek him through Scripture, our hearts are changed. The transformative power lies not in our routine of Bible reading, but in the living word itself. God’s Spirit actively works through his word. God’s word has the power to change our lives (2 Timothy 3:16-17). The same applies to prayer. God promises that those who seek him will find him (Matthew 7:7-8). The power isn’t in habits; habits just get us to God’s means of grace. Picture these means of grace as a mighty river. Habits are simply the well-worn paths that lead us to its banks. The path itself holds no power. The path’s value lies solely in reliably bringing us to the life-giving waters. Just as a trail cannot quench your thirst, habits cannot transform your heart. Only the river - God's active presence and work - can do that. We often mistakenly fixate on perfecting our habits when we should focus on the encounter they enable. Spiritual disciplines are not ends in themselves but tools that position us before God's transforming presence. Their value is in connecting us with the blessings God has promised, not just in their execution. Habits aren't enough, but they can help us come to God, who is enough. ## The Proper Use of Habits The challenge, then, is to use habits, but to keep our focus on God, not on the habits themselves. When approaching Scripture, resist the urge to simply complete a reading plan. See each encounter with Scripture as a chance to connect with the living God through the Holy Spirit. Let the text become an encounter with God through his word. Prayer becomes most meaningful when we focus less on the method and more on the relationship. The goal isn't to perfect our prayer technique but to nurture genuine dialogue with God. Shifting our focus from prayer to God redirects our attention to the One to whom we pray. Just as, in the gym, mindless repetitions yield limited results, spiritual habits require intentional engagement. Without proper form and focused attention, we miss the full benefit of the practice. Spiritual disciplines and habits are not the end; they're a means to an end. That end is God. Their value lies not in their perfect execution but in their ability to help bring us to God himself. Habits are important when they help us focus on Christ, deepen our relationship with him, and transform us through his presence. Think of habits as valuable servants but poor masters. Let them help you deepen your connection while staying focused on your relationship with the Triune God. We need these habits to guide us to Jesus. It was never about the habits themselves; the habits are only meant to lead us to what God has promised to bless. They're meant to lead us to him. ### The Journey of Progressive Sanctification URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/the-journey-of-progressive-sanctification/ Last updated: 2025-03-25T09:00:04.000Z Do you ever feel frustrated with your progress? Do you ever wish you were farther ahead in overcoming sin in your life? You're not alone. Every believer in Jesus Christ shares this experience, which stems from a vital theological concept with profound practical implications for our daily walk. This concept is progressive sanctification. ## What Is Progressive Sanctification? Scripture speaks of sanctification in three distinct ways: past, present, and future. - **Past (Positional):** At conversion, believers are instantly made holy in position before God - **Future (Perfect):** After death, believers will be completely free from sin's presence - **Present (Progressive):** The ongoing process of becoming more Christ-like The moment we become Christians, we are definitively sanctified: God declares us holy in our position before him. At death, we will experience complete sanctification, when God permanently separates us from sin's presence and makes it impossible for us to transgress. But between these points lies progressive sanctification — the ongoing, incomplete, lifelong journey of becoming holier. God could have instantly eliminated all sin from our lives at conversion, but he chose a different path. He ordained that we would spend our earthly lives in a continuous process of transformation, requiring daily growth, obedience, reliance on him, and resistance to sin. Scripture teaches this in a number of places. For instance, In 2 Corinthians 4:16, Paul says we're being renewed every day. This is an experience we need daily. It's an incredibly realistic experience about our conditions. As [John Piper says](https://go.gospelforlife.com/WbzS?ref=gospelforlife.com): > Day by day, *renewed*, which means every day you leak, every day you fade, every day you get depleted. That’s what it says. You wouldn’t need to be renewed day by day, if you could run your car on yesterday’s gas, if your metabolism could function on yesterday’s meal, or if the pain in your head can be relieved on yesterday’s dosage. You can’t run today’s life on yesterday’s newness. We define progressive sanctification like this: it's the ongoing process by which a believer in Jesus Christ becomes holier in character and conduct through the work of the Holy Spirit. It's a lifelong journey of spiritual growth and maturity. It's a continuous process, unlike justification, which is our standing before God in which we're declared righteous because of Jesus. Sanctification is an ongoing process that will never be done until the day we die. 💡 Progressive sanctification is the ongoing, lifelong process by which a believer in Jesus Christ becomes holier in character and conduct through the work of the Holy Spirit. It's driven by the Holy Spirit, but we play a role too. The purpose is that we become like Christ, but this process will never be complete as long as we're alive. As long as we're alive, we will need to continue this process of being made holy. ## Two Applications This understanding leads to two essential applications: patience and perseverance. ### First, embrace patience. If you're discouraged by your progress, remember that God intentionally designed sanctification as a gradual process. Every believer remains imperfect until glory. God may have chosen this path to teach us to rely on him daily and to develop true humility by acknowledging our constant need for his grace. God is patient with us, so we can be patient too. As believers, we must not lose heart. Your struggles don't indicate God's absence but rather confirm his normal working in your life. We need his strength daily, and we'll continue facing challenges until we reach glory. Your local church family plays a crucial role in reminding each other of these truths - we're not yet who we'll become, but God faithfully continues his work in us. ### Second, embrace steadfast perseverance. Each day presents opportunities to turn from sin, confess our failures, meditate on Scripture, align our thoughts with God's truth, and seek the Spirit's help for righteous living. We must maintain honest confession both to God and fellow believers, engaging with our church family for encouragement and accountability. While God initiates and empowers our sanctification, we actively participate through spiritual disciplines and resistance to sin. Take heart in this truth: God works purposefully in your life, even amid struggles, to make you holier. Though the process spans your entire earthly journey, its completion is divinely guaranteed. Until then, expect ongoing challenges - they're normal! God will faithfully finish his transformative work, even when progress seems slow or uncertain. ### A Beginner’s Guide to Reading the Bible URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/a-beginners-guide-to-reading-the-bible/ Last updated: 2025-03-06T17:52:58.000Z Do you want to read and learn how to read the Bible? This article will give you some practical tips to get started. The Bible is a key text for culture and, more importantly, for our spiritual lives. It’s the word of God, revealing what he wants us to know about him and how to live in this world. But reading the Bible can be tough, especially if you're a beginner. So, this article will provide steps to help you start your Bible reading journey with confidence. Here are some steps you can take as you begin to read. ## First, choose a good Bible translation. Many popular translations combine accuracy and readability. Good options include the Christian Standard Bible (CSB), New International Version (NIV), English Standard Version (ESV), and New Living Translation (NLT). Focus on readability and your reading purpose when choosing a translation. A good study Bible with introductions to each book and explanatory notes can also be helpful. I recommend the [CSB Study Bible](https://amzn.to/4i1jMXP?ref=gospelforlife.com). There are many digital options too, like the [ESV Bible](https://go.gospelforlife.com/VP0k?ref=gospelforlife.com) or [YouVersion](https://go.dashhouse.com/VP16?ref=gospelforlife.com). ## Second, understand the basics of the Bible's structure. When you open the Bible, you'll see it’s not just one book but a collection of books. The two main sections are the Old Testament, also known as the Hebrew Scriptures, and the New Testament. The Old Testament consists of historical books (Genesis to Esther), poetry and wisdom literature (Job to Song of Solomon), and prophetic books (Isaiah to Malachi). The New Testament contains the four Gospels (Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John), the Acts of the Apostles, epistles or letters (Romans through Jude), and the Book of Revelation. The Bible covers thousands of years and includes various literary forms such as poetry, prophecy, and letters. - History recounts God's dealings with humanity over centuries; - Poetry uses literary devices to convey truth and emotion; - Prophecy uses symbolism to address historical events; - Epistles address specific congregations and their needs; - Apocalyptic literature uses symbolism to communicate important truths. Don’t get overwhelmed. You can always keep learning as you go. Keep your eye on these basics so you can begin to understand what you're reading. ## Third, decide where to start reading. For beginners, there are many great starting points: - The Gospel of John introduces Jesus and core Christian beliefs. - Genesis lays the foundation for biblical narratives. - Psalms offer devotional poetry and prayer that express our feelings and teach us how to talk to God. - Proverbs provides practical wisdom for daily life. - You might also consider different reading approaches like chronological readings, topical plans, or book-by-book methods. There are various timeframes, too—30-day, 90-day, or year-long plans. If you're busy, a two-year plan might suit you better. ## Fourth, create effective reading habits. Set aside dedicated time for consistent reading in a comfortable environment free from distractions. Pray for guidance before you read. Set realistic goals that fit your schedule and track your progress to stay motivated. It's normal to fall behind sometimes; just keep going. ## Fifth, take notes and ask questions as you read. Highlight and take notes as you read. Don’t be afraid to mark up your Bible or journal your insights and questions. Observe what you're reading by asking what it reveals about God and humanity. Read and reread passages, paying attention to details, and pray for understanding. When you encounter difficult passages, don't get overwhelmed. You don't need to understand everything right away. Use study Bibles or commentaries (like [this free online series](https://go.gospelforlife.com/VPmd?ref=gospelforlife.com)) for deeper insights, and balance your understanding with scholars' insights. ## Finally, move from reading to application. Reflect on what you read and how it applies to your life by asking what it reveals about God and humanity. Consider memorizing key passages that help you and share your insights with others. Seek help from a trusted pastor when needed. Remember that Bible reading is an ongoing journey developing a lifelong relationship with Scripture. If you want more information, consider reading other helpful books like [*How to Read the Bible for All its Worth*](https://amzn.to/4h7P2Dl?ref=gospelforlife.com) or [A Short Guide to Reading the Bible Better](https://amzn.to/4h5A00E?ref=gospelforlife.com). My book, [*8 Habits for Growth*](https://www.gospelforlife.com/8-habits-for-growth/), also contains information on how to read Scripture, along with a [companion online resource](https://www.gospelforlife.com/habit-3/). Bible reading is worth it despite its challenges because its rewards are enormous—it can change your life as you absorb it over time. Don't get discouraged when it's hard; living according to God's word is invaluable. ### The Hidden Value of Church URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/the-hidden-value-of-church/ Last updated: 2025-02-11T11:20:29.000Z In Ray and Jani Ortlund’s new book, [*To the Tenth Generation*](https://amzn.to/42QRXN5?ref=gospelforlife.com), there's a sentence that made me pause. They write, “Church is a rich resource for long-term steadiness disguised as a short trip down the road.” I’ve been thinking about that sentence ever since I read it. Going to church every week may seem small and unimportant. Sometimes, we even wonder if it's worth the effort. The truth is, church doesn’t look like much, but its value is incalculable. Church sets us up for long-term stability. It's a weekly routine that helps us refocus and refresh. The Lord can use your church to help you grow without you even noticing. While private spiritual practices are important, we need the church even more. We were not meant to grow alone; we were meant to grow together with other believers. Reading Scripture by ourselves is important, but reading it together as a church is indispensable. Praying alone can be hard, but praying with others at church can support us when we struggle. Sometimes we don’t have the strength to pray on our own. We aren’t meant to live the Christian life by ourselves. We need the church. Almost everything we're supposed to do as individual believers, we are also supposed to do as part of the church. Jake Belder, a pastor and theologian, explained our need for the church in a series of tweets: > Every so often, I get asked, “What feeds you spiritually? What works for you?” That question bugs me, for one, because nothing ever worked particularly well for me. “Quiet times,” reading plans, they were all exhausting. But it also bugs me because the question assumes that you’re entirely responsible for your own spirituality. And so you cycle through all manner of spiritual “techniques,” just getting more exhausted and no more “spiritual.” > **Nothing was more of a relief for me than discovering that the Church has already figured this all out for me.** The Church gives me rituals and habits, rhythms and patterns, for nurturing my spirituality each day and throughout the year. > But in this self-centered era, it takes a big step of faith to trust that the Church has more wisdom in these matters than you do. But when you do, recognizing the Spirit guides the Church in discerning how best to nurture its members’ spirituality, it is so freeing. It’s a gift to know the Church has 2000 years of practices proven to form & shape you and that you don’t have to figure it out for yourself. (quoted in [*8 Habits for Growth*](https://www.gospelforlife.com/8-habits-for-growth/)) The church might be the most underrated and under-appreciated way to grow spiritually. Some argue say that church is ineffective and doesn't help people grow, but don't believe them. Church is part of God's plan for your life. If you're struggling to grow, remember how important the church is. As the Ortlunds write: > All you do is show up, and the Lord meets you there, making your church even better than it is. And there you are, refocused on him and ready to ramp up for another week in this world. Why not thank him? And make sure you never miss another Sunday? > Then toss in, for good measure, the songs, the prayers, the conversations with friends, the seminars and classes and studies and missions trips. Your church provides you with multiple exposures to Jesus and his gospel every Sunday, plus more… Most churches are not impressive, but God moves toward the unimpressive. And wherever he is, that’s where we keep coming alive — again and again. ### Building a Stronger Prayer Life URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/building-a-stronger-prayer-life/ Last updated: 2025-01-21T10:00:33.000Z Do you struggle with prayer? You’re not alone. Most Christians I talk to feel the same way. Even those with a healthy prayer life want to improve. Many people report that they struggle to pray. They wonder if God really hears their prayers. Sometimes, it feels like they're talking to themselves with no sign that anyone is listening. If you feel like you're struggling in your prayer life, be encouraged. You're not alone. This article aims to give you some practical tips to help you progress in your prayer life, no matter where you are right now. ## The Importance of Prayer Prayer is essential to the Christian life. Jesus said, “When you pray…” (Matthew 6:5-7). He assumed that we would pray because it's an essential part of the Christian life. Jesus repeatedly talked about the importance of prayer, encouraging us to ask, seek, and knock, promising that God would hear our prayers (Matthew 7:7-8). He gave practical instructions on prayer by giving us a model prayer (Matthew 6:9-13). He set an example himself. Jesus often withdrew to lonely places to pray (Luke 5:16). We see similar examples throughout scripture. David poured out his heart to God in prayer in the psalms. Daniel prayed even under the threat of punishment (Daniel 6:10). The Apostle Paul recorded his prayers for churches. We’re also commanded and invited to pray (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18). Scripture shows us, by command and example, the centrality of prayer to the Christian life. ## How to Build a Prayer Habit For most of us, prayer will continue to be a struggle throughout our lives. We might feel like God isn't listening or wonder what prayer accomplishes. But here are some tips on how we can build a prayer life and develop this important habit. ### First, understand what prayer is about. Prayer is not just about getting things from God; it's about living in a relationship with him. We don't pray only for answers; we pray as an acknowledgment of our dependence on God for everything. Prayer is primarily about relationship — a relationship of extreme dependence on the one who created us. When you pray, don't see it as something you have to do or something that will get you what you want. See it as a way of living in relationship with your Heavenly Father, who loves you and made you. ### Second, don't think of prayer as a technique. When Jesus taught us how to pray, he condemned those who thought that the right series of words or techniques would make for an effective prayer (Matthew 6:5-8). Don't fall into the trap of thinking you have to say things a certain way for God to hear you. Jesus commended those who just poured out their hearts to God, who prayed simple prayers (Luke 18:13). We don't need articulate prayers; we can come to God and tell him what's on our mind. Jesus reminds us that our Heavenly Father knows what we need before we ask him (Matthew 6:8). ### Third, use biblical patterns for prayer. The Psalms cover all kinds of circumstances and emotions—use them as a pattern for your own prayers. Pray the Psalms by finding one that expresses what you're going through and use it as a guide. You can also use the Lord's Prayer (Matthew 6:9-13), which covers every area of life and teaches us how to pray. Although simple, it's profound and can provide a lifetime's worth of help in knowing what to pray for. Additionally, use other passages in Scripture like Paul's prayers as patterns for your own prayers. Books like Tim Kerr's [*Take Words With You*](https://amzn.to/4h1rpga?ref=gospelforlife.com) are helpful in letting us use biblical prayers to shape our own prayers. One of the best things you can do is pray through Scripture as you read it. Talk with the God, the author, about what you're reading, ask for his help, and share what's on your mind. ### Fourth, engage in two kinds of prayer. Build two kinds of prayer into your life: regular times throughout the day and spontaneous prayer throughout your daily activities. Pick a time that works best in your schedule and treat it like an appointment you want to keep. Spend time worshiping God, asking for His help, and praying for others. Don't treat it as an obligation; treat it as a gift: you get to spend time with your Heavenly Father! Then engage in spontaneous prayer throughout the day. Talk to God while driving, ask for his guidance during conversations, and share your thoughts with him when facing difficult problems. Scripture encourages us to cast our cares upon God because He cares for us. ## What It Takes to Pray When it comes down to it, we need two things in order to pray: awareness of who we're talking to and holy desperation. If we grasp that we have access to the God of the universe who loves us, we would struggle less in prayer. Focus on God instead of focusing on prayer itself. Remind yourself who you're talking to and his incredible power and love for you. Secondly, if we realized how much we need God, we wouldn't struggle as much with praying. Keep reminding yourself that you can't do anything apart from Him. Refuse to give up. Practice these tips and expect that it will be hard, but keep praying anyway. As long as you're alive, you'll probably struggle with prayer, but with God's help, you can grow and build a regular prayer habit not out of obligation but out of joy and privilege in speaking to your Heavenly Father who cares for you. What a privilege it is to pray. It truly is one of the greatest privileges Christians get to enjoy. Your Heavenly Father wants to hear from you! ### Finding Your Rhythm in Bible Reading: A Beginner's Guide URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/finding-your-rhythm-in-bible-reading-a-beginners-guide/ Last updated: 2024-12-31T10:00:24.000Z Hands down, there's nothing more important than reading the Bible for spiritual growth. Out of all the things you can do as a Christian, reading Scripture is at or near the top. The problem, though, is that reading the Bible isn't so easy. It's a complicated book or set of books. It's hard to know where to begin, and it's also hard to develop the habit of reading Scripture. The purpose of this post is simple. It's to help you develop a consistent Bible reading habit. We want to provide clear guidance on how to do this and practical steps on how to get started. ## Why Read the Bible? What are the benefits of reading the Bible regularly? Four reasons come to mind. **First, reading the Bible will deepen your relationship with God.** Scripture is how God reveals himself to us. It's given to us by God so that we understand him and what He expects from us. Nothing is more important in life than understanding who God is and orienting ourselves rightly around him. You were made to know God. Nothing is more important. The best way to get to know God is through Scripture. Scripture meets our deepest and greatest need: it helps us understand who God is and what he wants us to know about Him. **Secondly, reading the Bible consistently will give you wisdom and guidance for daily life.** We all face countless decisions, but lack the wisdom we need. Scripture is a source of wisdom on how we should live. It's very practical. Scripture is designed to give us the wisdom we need to live well in God's world. We can't live well unless we understand the world from God's perspective and what He's revealed about how He wants us to live. **Third, engaging with Scripture will facilitate your transformation.** The Bible makes a claim about itself: “All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, equipped for every good work” (2 Timothy 3:16-17). The Bible is designed not only to change our behavior but also to change our hearts. Reading Scripture has a profound effect on our lives. As we are shaped by Scripture, we find ourselves increasingly changed as we understand more about God. **Finally, we need to read the Bible so we can flourish.** Psalm 1 offers a powerful description of a man who delights in Scripture: > He is like a tree > planted by streams of water > that yields its fruit in its season, > and its leaf does not wither. > In all that he does, he prospers. > (Psalm 1:3) The message of the psalm is that if we are going to be like this tree that flourishes, we need to delight in God's word. For these reasons and more, it’s important that we develop the habit of reading scripture regularly in our lives. ## Obstacles to Consistent Bible Reading Why don't we read the Bible? Many of us have tried to develop this habit in the past, but it's easy to get discouraged or give up. Here are four common obstacles to consistent Bible reading. - **Lack of time or busy schedules** — Everyone I know is busy, no exceptions. It's easy to go through life without making the time required to read Scripture. Our busy schedules can get in the way of what matters most. - **Difficulty understanding the Bible** — When you read Scripture, you will encounter passages that you don't understand. If you're new to the Bible, you'll especially feel overwhelmed. Often, we encounter things we don’t understand and give up, believing that our efforts are pointless. - **Feeling overwhelmed or discouraged** — The third obstacle is feeling overwhelmed or discouraged. I know I felt that way when I fell behind on a plan and felt like I had failed. It’s normal to feel discouraged when falling behind or overwhelmed by the Bible’s size and complexity. - **Struggling with consistency and discipline** — The fourth common obstacle to consistent Bible reading is struggling with consistency and discipline. Creating habits is challenging. It's easy to start a new habit, but keeping and maintaining a habit is a different story. These four main obstacles to developing a consistent Bible reading habit are common among people I talk to. ## Overcoming Obstacles So, how do we overcome these common obstacles to consistent Bible reading? Here are six approaches you can try. **First, set a specific time and place for daily reading.** You know your schedule best, so find a time and place that works for you. Decide in advance when you will read scripture. Set an intention. Don't just aspire to read; get practical with when and where you will do it. **Second, start small and gradually increase your reading time.** You don't need to read for hours. Even seven minutes a day can help you read through scripture in a year. Start small and build from there. Make your goal so small that you can't help but succeed. Start with a small goal and gradually build up instead of aiming for something unrealistic. **Third, choose a translation that you find easy to understand.** We live in a golden age of Bible translations. I often recommend the [CSB](https://go.gospelforlife.com/SPPs?ref=gospelforlife.com), [ESV](https://go.gospelforlife.com/SPQ1?ref=gospelforlife.com), or [NIV](https://go.gospelforlife.com/SPQ9?ref=gospelforlife.com). For sheer readability, it's hard to beat the [Christian Standard Bible](https://go.gospelforlife.com/SPPs?ref=gospelforlife.com). Find a translation that works for you, and that’s both accurate and easy to understand. **Fourth, use study aids.** One of the best investments you can make is a good study Bible. I recommend the [CSB Study Bible](https://amzn.to/4fK7JvY?ref=gospelforlife.com) or the [NIV Grace and Truth Study Bible](https://amzn.to/41OGGMO?ref=gospelforlife.com). A study Bible is an investment that yields long-term benefits. Other aids include devotionals, commentaries, and Bible apps. Check out [this free online commentary](https://go.gospelforlife.com/SPQK?ref=gospelforlife.com) and [this set of Bible studies](https://go.gospelforlife.com/SPQL?ref=gospelforlife.com) to help you understand scripture. **Fifth, engage with the text through journaling, prayer, or memorization.** As you read, journal the questions and thoughts that come to mind. Pray through the passage, asking God for understanding or reflecting on it in your prayers. Memorize scripture passages that challenge or comfort you. **Finally, find an accountability partner or join a Bible study group.** You don't need to read alone. Find others who can join you and offer support. Ask them to check in and encourage you as you read scripture. ![overcoming obstacles to Bible reading](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/images/2024/12/overcoming-obstacles.webp) [Overcoming ObstaclesDownload a PDF of the infographicovercoming-obstacles.pdf785 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/12/overcoming-obstacles.pdf "Download") ## When You Get Stuck Here are some ways to handle the obstacles and setbacks that you'll inevitably face. ### ”I don't understand what I'm reading." No problem. This is very common. Think of reading Scripture as learning a new language. Not understanding what you're hearing is just part of the process. It's an inevitable step on the way to learning. Even when you don't understand what you're reading, it still helps you become familiar with Scripture. It's just part of the process of learning what Scripture is all about. Embrace not understanding everything, but use resources like a study Bible or seek help from a pastor or friend. There are many good resources out there that will help you improve your understanding of difficult passages. ### ”I can't stay consistent." Here's what I recommend: Make your plan very realistic so that it's easy to stay consistent. Don't aim for something ambitious; aim for something small and achievable. Find a good plan that works for you and gives you grace days to catch up if you fall behind. Ask for help from accountability partners. Track your progress with a good habit app or journal. Read a good book on building habits. And don't get discouraged if you can't stay consistent. It's better to keep at it and do it imperfectly than not do it at all. ### "I don't have the time." Everyone's busy. It's not so much a matter of time, but a matter of priority. Get creative with your scheduling. Just look for five or ten minutes a day that work for you and guard that time. Treat it as a priority in your life. Consider using audio formats to listen to Scripture while commuting to work. Read in micro-sessions instead of reading for ten minutes straight; look for two five-minute periods throughout the day. The most important thing is to just keep going. Don't get discouraged when you fail. Just keep up and refuse to give up as you build this habit in your life. ## Getting Started Here are some practical next steps you can take to get started. **First, find a plan that works for you.** There are many plans available. If you want to customize it, you can [use a website](https://go.gospelforlife.com/SPQw?ref=gospelforlife.com) that lets you build your own Bible reading plan. You can also buy [Bibles formatted for daily reading](https://amzn.to/4fGUuMq?ref=gospelforlife.com), which you can pick up every day and read. There are [countless options](https://go.gospelforlife.com/SPRB?ref=gospelforlife.com) that take you through either part of the Bible or the whole Bible over a year. There are great [audio Bibles](https://go.gospelforlife.com/SPRG?ref=gospelforlife.com) you can try. Choose a plan that works for you and experiment. You can choose a chronological plan, read the New Testament, or follow the order of the books in the Bible. However you choose, just find a plan that suits you and get started. **Second, buy good tools.** A [good study Bible](https://amzn.to/4fK7JvY?ref=gospelforlife.com) will be a huge help as you begin to read Scripture. George Guthrie’s book [*A Short Guide to Reading the Bible Better*](https://amzn.to/3PjldUA?ref=gospelforlife.com) will also be helpful. **Third, enlist help from others.** Tell a friend or friends that you are reading Scripture. Ask them to keep you accountable and encourage you as you begin to read. **Finally, simply keep going.** Guard the time you've set aside for reading Scripture. Prioritize it over other activities like surfing the web or watching your favorite show. When you get discouraged, refuse to give up. Keep going and continue building this habit because it will change your life. ## Just Get Started Beginning a Bible reading journey can feel overwhelming, but every great journey starts with a single step. Start with five minutes a day, listen to an audio Bible while commuting, or join a study group. The key is to begin. Don't let perfectionism or the fear of not understanding everything hold you back. Like any meaningful habit, Bible reading becomes more natural and rewarding with time. The wisdom, guidance, and deeper relationship with God that await you are worth every effort you make. Remember: start small, be consistent, use good tools, and don't hesitate to ask for help. When obstacles arise – and they will – keep pushing forward. Regular Bible reading transforms you by letting God's word shape your heart and life. It’s not just about gaining knowledge. Take that first step today. Choose your time, pick your translation, and begin this life-changing journey. Your future self will thank you for starting this vital spiritual habit now. ### Maintaining Your Spiritual Health During Christmas URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/maintaining-your-spiritual-health-during-christmas/ Last updated: 2025-01-21T16:30:33.000Z Christmas is a season filled with joy and celebration, yet it can also be a time of stress and distraction. Many of us find ourselves caught in the whirlwind of activities, from shopping for gifts to attending numerous social gatherings. We will likely encounter distractions like consumerism, pressure to buy gifts, social commitments, family issues, and financial stress. It's no surprise that many people find Christmas challenging. Amidst this busyness and stress, maintaining our spiritual health can become a challenge. We often stop practicing our spiritual disciplines just as our busyness and stress increase. But it doesn't have to be this way. How can we not only survive the Christmas season but also thrive spiritually as believers? ## Keep Control of Your Schedule When life gets busy, it’s important to remember that you have some control over your schedule. Don’t live by the demands of others. Protect the time you need to focus on what matters most. One time, I complained to someone about my life. "Darryl," he asked, "have you lost control of your schedule?" I had to admit that I had. This question helped me realize that I didn't have to live this way. I could take back some control of the commitments I was making. One effective way to combat these distractions is by setting appropriate boundaries. It's essential to learn how to say no and live our lives by design, not by default. Reflect on your schedule and identify areas where you might lose control during the holiday season. Consider how you can regain some of that control and ensure that you are making time for what truly matters in your life. ## Focus on the Basics To maintain spiritual health, it's vital to focus on the core habits that matter most. In my book [*How to Grow*](https://www.gospelforlife.com/how-to-grow/), I discuss three core habits that every believer should cultivate at every stage, no matter how busy: engaging with the Word of God, spending time in prayer, and participating in the life of the church. These habits are foundational and should be pursued consistently, regardless of the season. People who grow spiritually follow these habits, while those who get stuck stop doing them. Ask yourself how you can protect these practices during Christmas. When life gets busy, reduce the time spent on these habits, but keep practicing them. What steps can you take to ensure you have adequate time in God's Word, regular prayer, and meaningful church involvement? Keep things simple, but maintain these habits even during Christmas. Set a realistic plan to keep practicing the core habits in your life, even when your life gets busy. ## Remember the True Meaning of Christmas Amidst the festivities and celebrations, it's crucial to keep in mind the real reason for Christmas: Jesus. Christmas is a celebration of Christ's birth and the incredible steps God took to save us through Jesus. Reflect on the wonder of God's love and the amazing fact that Jesus became human to save us. This Christmas, many things will vie for your attention, but what we all need most is to keep our focus on Jesus. Ask God to make your heart happy in Jesus and in the truths of the gospel this Christmas. Read the stories with awe. Marvel that Jesus left heaven for his Father's glory and for our salvation. Christmas will still probably be busy and stressful, but taking these three steps can help. Manage your time wisely, practice key spiritual disciplines, and rekindle your awe for the gospel. Amid the distractions, take the time to love those around you and share Christ's hope. Embrace the simplicity of the gospel and let it guide your actions and interactions. Pray for spiritual renewal and a deeper connection with the Savior who came to save us. Stay focused on Christ by following these steps to maintain your spiritual health during the busy Christmas season. May this Christmas be a time of growth and reflection, as you celebrate the birth of our Savior and the incredible love he has for his people. Don't let the busyness and stress rob you of the realities of the gospel that are ours because Jesus came to earth. ### Jonathan Edwards and the Body: Integrating Physical Health into Spiritual Life URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/jonathan-edwards-and-the-body-integrating-physical-health-into-spiritual-life/ Last updated: 2024-11-18T10:00:46.000Z In this Gospel for Life podcast episode, host Darryl Dash interviews Myles Holmes, pastor of [Redemption Newmarket](https://go.gospelforlife.com/RCS7?ref=gospelforlife.com), about the link between physical health and spiritual life, highlighting Jonathan Edwards. This discussion encourages believers to consider their physical habits as essential to their spiritual journey and overall well-being. You can listen to the episode below: ## The Holistic Pursuit of Health and Faith Myles Holmes stressed that physical well-being shouldn't be idolized but used for personal and spiritual growth. He underscored the importance of diet, sleep, and exercise. Holmes emphasized the importance of aligning physical health with spiritual goals, urging believers to honor God through their bodies. Holmes passionately described the significance of diet, sleep, and exercise in spiritual life. He pointed out how Jonathan Edwards, a theologian known for his disciplined life, balanced his physical routines with spiritual activities. Edwards followed a strict diet that improved his mental clarity and reduced migraines, boosting his efficiency in studying and ministry. ## Examining the Heart and Intentions A key takeaway from the episode was to reflect on the intentions behind pursuing physical disciplines. Holmes cautioned against legalism and laziness, advocating for a genuine desire to align physical habits with spiritual objectives. He argued that self-control, as demonstrated in Edwards' life, is not about limitations but about achieving one's purpose for greater satisfaction in the long run. Holmes highlighted that actions must be motivated by a desire to please God rather than merely adhering to rules. This perspective aligns with Jonathan Edwards' approach, viewing resolutions as tools for greater spiritual happiness and fulfillment rather than burdens. ## The Role of the Church in Accountability Holmes and Dash examined how important the church community is for holding individuals accountable and offering insight into their physical habits. Fellow believers can guide and support each other, ensuring that actions are aligned with spiritual principles. This sense of community and mutual encouragement mirrors the strength in Holmes and Dash's own friendship and ministry. This community-centered approach is essential, considering the dangers of overcommitment and legalism, which Holmes astutely noted. Personal spiritual practices vary greatly among people, so it's important to find balance and self-awareness, aided by the insights of other believers. ## Jonathan Edwards as a Model of Discipline Jonathan Edwards exemplifies the integration of physical disciplines and spiritual practices. Edwards exercised regularly, often walking and thinking about theology, and he limited his sleep to have more time for studying. Despite his strict routines, he struggled with moderation and maintaining balance, thus humanizing his disciplined persona. Holmes highlighted the risk of misapplying Edwards' resolutions and stressed the need to grasp the true intention behind these practices. Edwards' disciplined life teaches us to seek closeness to God instead of following strict systems. ## Theology of Embodiment Myles Holmes urged Christians to create a theology that values both the body and the soul. He suggested that secular materialism emphasizes the physical, while Christian teachings may overly focus on the soul and disregard physical well-being. Holmes' reflections align with the principles in [*Desiring God*](https://amzn.to/48SVdZ8?ref=gospelforlife.com) by John Piper, which profoundly influenced his theological perspective. This book revealed the joy of Christian life to Holmes and reshaped his understanding of faith, emphasizing the connection between physical health and spiritual growth. ## Practical Implications of Physical Health Ultimately, the integration of physical health into spiritual life has practical implications. Staying physically fit enhances spiritual well-being by improving focus on spiritual matters, as discussed in [the referenced article from Desiring God](https://go.gospelforlife.com/RCRx?ref=gospelforlife.com). Holmes shared his personal routines and challenges, underscoring the need for situational awareness and the importance of adequate rest. This episode emphasizes the significance of integrating physical health into spiritual life, drawing inspiration from Jonathan Edwards' approach. This view encourages believers to reflect on their physical habits as an aspect of their devotion to God, promoting a balanced approach to faith and well-being. ## Key Takeaways 1. **Spiritual and Physical Integration**: Myles Holmes underscores the importance of integrating physical health (diet, sleep, and exercise) with spiritual goals. He suggests that maintaining physical health can yield spiritual benefits and enhance one's focus on spiritual matters. 2. **Heart and Intentions**: Actions related to physical health should be driven by spiritual alignment rather than legalism or laziness. Examining one's heart and intentions is crucial. 3. **Community and Accountability**: The role of the church community in providing accountability and perspective is vital. Fellow believers can help ensure actions are undertaken for the right reasons. 4. **Jonathan Edwards’ Example**: Jonathan Edwards balanced physical discipline with spiritual goals not for self-improvement alone, but for greater closeness to God. Edwards' practices can serve as a guide for integrating spiritual habits with physical well-being. 5. **Avoiding Legalism**: Myles Holmes emphasizes the need for balance and avoiding legalism. Actions should seek to please God rather than just adhering to strict rules. 6. **Personal Journey and Influence**: Holmes shares his journey, particularly influenced by John Piper's *Desiring God*, which reshaped his theological perspective. Jonathan Edwards' focus on resolutions and fitness influenced Holmes' belief in combining physical health with spirituality. 7. **Theology of Embodiment**: A need for Christians to develop a theology of embodiment is emphasized, recognizing that both the body and soul matter. Reflecting on physical habits in relation to spirituality is seen as a meaningful pursuit. 8. **Practical Implications**: Physical health practices can support spiritual well-being. Regular exercise and diet adjustments can improve cognitive function and spiritual clarity. 9. **Individual Approaches**: Different people may benefit from varied approaches to spiritual disciplines. Structured systems might work for some, while others might need more flexibility. 10. **Cultural and Theological Reflections**: Views on sleep, rest, and work have cultural and theological implications. Trusting in God and recognizing human limits are part of theological teachings on rest. The episode promotes a balanced approach to spiritual and physical health, using Jonathan Edwards' life as a guide for reflection and disciplined living. ## Transcript Download the transcript below: [Jonathan Edwards and the Body TranscriptJonathan Edwards and the Body Transcript.pdf251 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/11/Jonathan-Edwards-and-the-Body-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### Home with God URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/home-with-god/ Last updated: 2024-11-04T10:00:54.000Z I recently spoke with [Kyle Worley](https://go.gospelforlife.com/QkdL?ref=gospelforlife.com) about his upcoming book, [*Home with God: Our Union with Christ*](https://amzn.to/3AeNloh?ref=gospelforlife.com). The book explores what it truly means to be united with Christ. The concept is profoundly beautiful when you let it sink in. At its core, union with Christ means being spiritually incorporated into Him. It's not just some theological idea, but a real and permanent reality for those who put their faith in Jesus. As Kyle explained, this union begins the moment we believe and cannot be shaken, no matter what storms we face in life. It's an unbreakable foundation for our identity, rooted in Christ's finished work on the cross. But here's where it gets really powerful: Kyle uses the metaphor of being "home" with God to help make this dense theology feel personal and intimate. Just as a loving home provides shelter, warmth and belonging, being in Christ means we have a spiritual home in Him, enveloped by God's infinite love and presence. For those whose earthly homes were imperfect or even painful, the idea of an eternal home with our Heavenly Father can bring tremendous healing. I was struck by the distinction Kyle made between our permanent union with Christ and our ongoing communion with Him. Union is irrevocable, but communion — that close relationship and fellowship — can ebb and flow based on our obedience and prayer life. But never doubt, even when you feel distant from God, that unbreakable union is still yours in Christ. Contemplating this reality should shape how we preach the gospel too. We're not just offering forgiveness, but an invitation into an eternal home and an adoptive family, with all the celebration and deep relationship that implies. Those are just glimpses of the insights I found so compelling from this interview. I hope you enjoy this episode. Embracing the profound reality of our spiritual union with Christ is life-changing. It provides such unshakeable security and belonging, while also motivating me to nurture that communion through prayer, obedience and extending Christ's welcoming heart to others. You can listen to the podcast here: You can also check out other resources from Kyle, including his [Substack](https://go.gospelforlife.com/Qker?ref=gospelforlife.com) and his excellent podcast [Knowing Faith](https://go.gospelforlife.com/Qkem?ref=gospelforlife.com). ## Key Takeaways - The metaphor of 'home' is used to explain union with Christ. A home represents a dynamic place of love, conversation, and presence, paralleling the intimate and spiritual relationship believers have with Christ. - For those whose experiences of home have been painful, the metaphor of a 'home with God' offers redemption and healing from past wounds. - Worley distinguishes between union (permanent identity in Christ) and communion (ongoing relationship). Though communion can be disrupted, union remains unbreakable as it is based on Christ’s faithfulness. - Believers should focus on enjoying their relationship with God, extending his welcome to others, and embodying the understanding of union with Christ in everyday interactions. - Presently, believers experience small tastes ("Dixie Cups") of God’s blessings, which will be fully realized ("oceans") in the future. ## Transcript [Home with God TranscriptHome with God Transcript.pdf237 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/11/Home-with-God-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### Navigating Discipleship in a Post-Everything World: Insights from Daniel Im URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/navigating-discipleship-in-a-post-everything-world-insights-from-daniel-im/ Last updated: 2024-10-21T10:14:28.000Z In today's post-Christendom world, it can be challenging for Christians to navigate the complexities of discipleship and spiritual growth. As cultural norms change and definitions of truth evolve, many people are questioning what it means to be a faithful follower of Christ. In the latest episode of the Gospel for Life podcast, host Darryl Dash interviews pastor and author Daniel Im about his new book, [*The Discipleship Opportunity*](https://amzn.to/3Ybj1To?ref=gospelforlife.com). They discuss ways churches can be stronger, healthier, and more mission-focused today. Daniel Im, lead pastor of Beulah Alliance Church in Edmonton, Alberta, and author of [*No Silver Bullets*](https://amzn.to/3NA9FeZ?ref=gospelforlife.com), offers valuable insights and practical wisdom. He explains that although we may feel we're in a "post-everything" world, this moment presents a great opportunity for the church to focus on meaningful discipleship. Listen to the podcast below or on your favorite podcast platform. ## Learning from Daniel’s Experience The podcast highlights the significance of acknowledging the spiritual openness of younger generations like Gen Z and Gen Alpha. Im highlights recent research indicating that these generations are more receptive to spiritual matters than their predecessors. The church is always one generation from extinction, so believers must invest in the discipleship of the next generation. A key point in the episode is that Christians should actively engage in their faith instead of being passive. Im is concerned that believers use "watch" to describe spiritual growth. He emphasizes that discipleship involves active participation, including coming, dying, going, and following, as Jesus instructed. The podcast discusses the growing interest in spirituality among non-Christians, highlighted by a man's journey from a New Age seminar to attending a church service, where he became eager to learn about the Bible. This story highlights that people seek spiritual truth, and the church should be prepared to share the gospel with them. Throughout the conversation, Im's passion for discipleship and his commitment to equipping the church shine through. He offers practical insights and strategies for churches to foster spiritual growth and become more mission-focused in this post-everything world. Listeners will appreciate Im's honesty and vulnerability as he shares his own journey of seeking therapy to address personal challenges. This openness encourages others to prioritize their well-being while navigating life's challenges and ministry. ## Key Takeaways - There is a unique opportunity given the increased spiritual openness among Generation Z and Generation Alpha. - The church must re-evaluate and update its approaches to ministry, discipleship, and community engagement. - Im emphasizes trusting the Holy Spirit to inspire interest in people’s hearts instead of relying only on human strategies. - Four Groups Classification categorizes people into four groups, focusing beyond Christians and non-Christians to engage those interested in spirituality. - Church leaders frequently feel guilty about not achieving numerical growth, largely due to pressures from church growth literature. Im suggests a balanced approach, focusing on faithfulness rather than metrics. - Daniel Im shares his therapy journey and underscores the importance of emotional, mental, and spiritual health. ## Transcript [The Discipleship Opportunity TranscriptThe Discipleship Opportunity Transcript.pdf225 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/10/The-Discipleship-Opportunity-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### The Power of Small: Celebrating Effective Ministry in Small Congregations URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/the-power-of-small-celebrating-effective-ministry-in-small-congregations/ Last updated: 2024-10-07T09:00:45.000Z In the latest episode of the Gospel for Life podcast, host Darryl Dash and guest [Karl Vaters](https://go.gospelforlife.com/karlvaters?ref=gospelforlife.com) engage in a discussion about the need for a shift in how churches measure success based on Karl’s book [*De-sizing the Church: How Church Growth Became a Science, Then an Obsession, and What's Next*](https://amzn.to/3zPTQNZ?ref=gospelforlife.com). Shifting from a focus on numerical growth to discipleship is more in line with Jesus' teachings. This conversation illuminates the path forward for pastors and church leaders feeling overwhelmed by the pressures of societal expectations. Listen to the podcast below or on your favorite podcast platform. ## The Core Mission: Discipleship Over Growth Karl Vaters passionately argues that the church's primary mission should revolve around discipleship rather than an increase in attendance. Vaters underscores that while churches may experience numerical growth by focusing on following Christ and His mission, this growth should not be the ultimate goal. Discipleship aligns with the Great Commission left by Jesus, urging believers to make disciples of all nations. Vaters suggests that, despite the popularity of large megachurches, smaller congregations can offer significant opportunities for meaningful discipleship. ## Alternative Metrics for Church Health One of the episode's most valuable contributions is the exploration of alternative metrics for assessing church health. Karl Vaters presents a church health assessment tool with 16 statements in four categories: theology, worship, community outreach, and spiritual growth. This tool allows churches to self-assess their health beyond mere numbers. Vaters highlights the significance of non-numerical metrics, including the congregation's spiritual maturity, genuine worship, and deep theological understanding. By using these measures, churches can foster a more holistic approach to their community's spiritual well-being. ## The Perils of Christian Celebrity Culture The podcast delves into the seductive allure of Christian celebrity culture. Vaters and Dash voice serious concerns regarding pastors who seek celebrity status, as this ambition frequently results in moral failures. Vaters explains that the hunger for fame can distract pastors from their true calling of serving God and their congregation. Personal anecdotes highlight cases where faithful service in smaller congregations has had profound impacts, despite a lack of public recognition. Dash tells a moving story of a dedicated pastor in Saskatoon who quietly plants churches and nurtures his community, embodying pastoral humility. ## Lessons from Church History: The Church Growth Movement Vaters discusses the history of the Church Growth Movement, highlighting its roots in missionary Donald McGavran's observations in India and Africa during the early to mid-20th century. McGavran’s work aimed to increase the percentage of Christians in a community, but in North America, it morphed into a "bigger is better" mindset.This change was influenced by economic factors like bigger donations and larger church buildings, reflecting the industrial and corporate spirit of the 1950s to 1980s.. While the church growth movement encouraged sharing ideas and resources among denominations, it also led to an unhealthy focus on church size. Vaters highlights the need to extricate from this mindset and value the health and mission of the church over its size. ## Encouragement for Small Church Pastors The episode offers poignant encouragement to pastors of small churches, emphasizing that their work is significant and impactful. Vaters reassures them that they are likely more effective than they realize, particularly in fostering tight-knit, spiritually mature communities. A crucial element of this encouragement is fostering a sense of gratitude. Vaters emphasizes that embracing gratitude for past blessings is essential for overcoming life's obstacles—an invaluable lesson for anyone. Visiting small churches globally, he found inspiration in the faithfulness and diversity of God’s people. ## Redefining Success in the Church In concluding this episode, Karl Vaters calls for a redefinition of success in ministry. Churches must shift from the "myth of inevitability" in growth principles and instead measure success by health and adherence to Christ’s mission. Encouraging pastors serving smaller congregations and providing tailored resources for them is crucial. This episode encourages listeners to value the deep, transformative work happening in their communities, regardless of size. By embracing faithfulness over fame, and discipleship over mere attendance, churches can align more authentically with the teachings of Jesus and foster truly thriving spiritual communities. ## Key Takeaways - **Discipleship Over Growth:** Carl Vaders emphasizes a pivotal shift in focus from numerical growth to the mission of making disciples, aligning with Jesus' teachings. He underscores that growth should be a byproduct of focusing on Christ, not the primary goal. - **True Church Health:** Explore other ways to measure church health besides attendance figures. Carl discusses a comprehensive church health assessment tool, featuring 16 statements across four key areas, allowing congregations to evaluate their health non-numerically. - **Dangers of Celebrity Culture:** The episode dives into the risks and pitfalls of the Christian celebrity culture, discussing the moral failures often associated with pastors seeking fame over serving God. Carl parallels this with insights from his book on the topic. - **Encouragement for Small Church Pastors:** Carl offers heartfelt counsel for pastors who may feel discouraged by the pressure to grow. He reassures them of their significant potential impact and the privilege of shepherding smaller congregations. - **Lessons from Church History:** Learn about the origins of the church growth movement and its evolution over time, influenced by societal changes and economic opportunities in North America. Don’t forget to subscribe to our podcast on your favorite platform and leave a review if you enjoyed the episode! Your feedback helps us reach more listeners and spread the message of discipleship and faithfulness in ministry. ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [De-sizing the Church TranscriptSeason 6, Episode 1 of the Gospel for Life podcastDe-sizing the Church Transcript.pdf227 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/10/De-sizing-the-Church-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### What’s Ahead for Gospel for Life URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/whats-ahead-for-gospel-for-life/ Last updated: 2024-09-23T09:00:38.000Z Here’s a little about how Gospel for Life (G4L) began, how it stalled, and what we have planned for the future. ## G4L Begins In 2016, I was about three years into planting a new church. My wife, Char, wanted to shift her work from accounting to coaching and discipleship. We picked up a book called [*Sprint*](https://amzn.to/4eeiw1q?ref=gospelforlife.com) and booked a week to dream about how to start a new venture. We were excited. It felt meaningful, and I was excited to work alongside my wife. ![Char planning](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/images/2024/09/sprint.jpg) One day, on the way home, we talked about what we should call this new project. “I have an idea,” I said. I told her that I’d purchased the [gospelforlife.com](https://www.gospelforlife.com/) domain before and wondered if that might work. “Interesting,” she said, and promised to think about it. At the end of the week, we decided to create a small discipleship program: a habits-based approach to Christian growth. I would write the curriculum; we would try it out and get feedback. She would coach the women; I would coach the men. We launched the program soon after. The name varied, depending on the iteration: G4L Discipleship and G4L Coaching. We used it in our church, and we also coached a good number of others outside of our church. We got good feedback, and we loved it. I wrote a book based on our approach called [*How to Grow*](https://www.gospelforlife.com/how-to-grow/). Later, we published the curriculum I’d developed as [*8 Habits for Growth*](https://www.gospelforlife.com/8-habits-for-growth/), which can be used as a self-directed program or to disciple others. We loved seeing an idea grow and bless others. ## How G4L Stalled Eventually, though, this ministry stalled, or at least began to change direction. When *8 Habits for Growth* was published, we no longer needed to coach others through the program. People could work through the material themselves. To be honest, we always felt a little uncomfortable marketing Gospel for Life. We believe that discipleship should take place within the local church, and we struggled with some of the online approaches to marketing. We faced some pressure to make at least part of our income from G4L — it was Char’s primary income, and also my part-time job — but we didn’t want to make money in a way that felt icky to us. Char kept coaching, but she began to focus on gospel-based nutrition and movement coaching through [Live Wholehearted](https://livewholehearted.com/?ref=gospelforlife.com). I kept updating the website, but we didn’t have much direction. Eventually, I got tired of publishing two newsletters — one for my site, and one for G4L. I shuttered the website and incorporated its content into my own at [DashHouse.com](https://www.dashhouse.com/?ref=gospelforlife.com). G4L still existed, I still spoke about the [two books](https://www.gospelforlife.com/books/), and I still ran the Gospel for Life [podcast](https://www.gospelforlife.com/podcast/), but we lost a lot of our direction. ## The Future of G4L A few things changed. First: I changed roles. I became pastor of [Grace Fellowship Church East Toronto](https://www.gfceast.ca/?ref=gospelforlife.com). I no longer faced the pressure of working for G4L part-time, and, generally speaking, I’m less available for speaking at other churches. Second, I solved some of our tech issues. My headaches were largely about generating content, but some of our headaches came from cobbling together different pieces of software and making them work together. I’ve simplified that now and found a way to make things work without constant friction. Most importantly, the pressure’s off. We want to see G4L produce helpful resources without having to promote ourselves or make things work in a particular way. We’re going to aim to produce better content with a more flexible timeline, and I hope it will be helpful. Next week, we launch a new season of the [podcast](https://www.gospelforlife.com/podcast/). We also have plans for producing new posts and videos. We hope that some will find them helpful, but we don’t have to be the biggest thing on the Internet. That’s freeing. We want to serve, to be generous, to share, and to have fun. I hope you enjoy it too. We’re looking forward to the next season of Gospel for Life. ### Season 5 Recap URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/season-5-recap/ Last updated: 2024-08-31T19:14:19.000Z Season 5 of the [Gospel for Life podcast](https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show//insideg4l?ref=gospelforlife.com) is behind us. Here's a recap of some of the highlights. ## Faithfully Present In this episode, I talk to author Adam Ramsey about his book [*Faithfully Present: Embracing God's Timing and Location*](https://amzn.to/3AMFgqA?ref=gospelforlife.com). Ramsey focuses on his central theme: living fully and faithfully in the time and place God has us. Ramsey says that time and location restrict us, but we can still maximize our current situation for God's glory. Topics discussed include resisting the urge to go beyond our limits, finding beauty in daily life, and honoring God in the present. Check out the [episode and show notes](https://www.gospelforlife.com/faithfully-present/). ## The Lies That Bind Canadian pastor Chris Quiring discusses his book [*The Lies That Bind: Exposing The Lies Keeping You From A Rich And Meaningful Life*](https://amzn.to/3AUQv02?ref=gospelforlife.com). The book explores the problem of deception by Satan. Quiring explains that Satan's main strategy is deception, based on Jesus' words in John 8:44, calling Satan the "father of lies." He explains how lies can control and complicate our lives, stopping us from understanding our true identity in Christ. Quiring highlights the importance of recognizing the genuine truth in order to uncover counterfeits, using forgeries and Satan's lies as a comparison. The episode shows how important it is to find lies, track them back to their origin, and replace them with God's truth. We can use the Word of God as a powerful weapon against deception. A key theme in the discussion is the role of community and collective discernment in recognizing and combating Satan's lies. Quiring says that it's important for believers to have support from their community to recognize these lies, because individual decisions are often based on emotions rather than logic, which makes them vulnerable to deception. The episode highlights the importance of matching daily habits with spiritual truths, showing that even small actions can affect one's spiritual journey. The conversation ends with thoughts on the revival in church communities, where people find again the importance of truth, community, and worship together, highlighting their crucial role in spiritual growth and life change. Check out the [episode and show notes](https://www.gospelforlife.com/the-lies-that-bind/). ## The Influential Mentor In this episode, we can learn about Howard Hendricks, a respected professor and mentor, as Maina Mwaura describes his profound influence. Howard Hendricks was not just an educator, but also touched many lives with his teachings and his good character. Hendricks taught over 10,000 students and wrote 23 books. He is remembered for his wisdom and godliness. He is known for inspiring leaders like Tony Evans and Andy Stanley, by emphasizing that true impact comes from both skill and humility. Hendricks' courage in addressing cultural issues and advocating for racial integration further highlights his commitment to righteousness and serving God. Maina Mwaura reflects on the life-changing lessons he learned while [writing about Hendricks](https://amzn.to/3X6oXMY?ref=gospelforlife.com). The episode shows how Hendricks' honesty about his weaknesses and his unwillingness to seek personal glory emphasized the importance of serving others without expecting anything in return. Hendricks' legacy is a strong reminder of the influence that sincere mentorship, based on character and humility, can have on others. Maina shares how chronicling Hendricks' life taught him to rely on God's providence, serve faithfully, and appreciate unseen blessings during challenging times. Check out the [episode and show notes](https://www.gospelforlife.com/the-influential-mentor-learning-from-howard-hendricks/). ## Introducing Church History I interviewed Perry Edwards, the author of the book [*Introduction to Early Church History: The First 500 Years*](https://amzn.to/3AMFn5u?ref=gospelforlife.com). The focus is on the importance of church history, how it helps us understand theology, and the challenges early Christians faced. Edwards, with extensive experience teaching church history through Carey Outreach Ministries, emphasizes the importance of studying the early church. This study provides valuable insights into the challenges that modern Christians encounter. People, especially evangelicals, often have a limited view of church history and think it started in the 16th century Reformation. Edwards stresses that theological battles and persecutions have continued throughout history. He suggests that understanding the past helps Christians approach current challenges with greater perspective. The episode suggests that pastors and church communities should include church history in their teachings. Edwards says that stories from the early church, such as those of monks and martyrs, can inspire today's believers to reflect on their own faith and dedication. Check out the [episode and show notes](https://www.gospelforlife.com/introducing-early-church-history/). ## The Unwavering Pastor The podcast episode with Jonathan Dodson focuses on his helpful book, [*The Unwavering Pastor*](https://amzn.to/3Tbm3W6?ref=gospelforlife.com), which offers valuable support and guidance for pastors facing ministry challenges. Dodson speaks honestly about the pastor's inner experiences, including the many joys and sorrows that come with the job. Dodson gives valuable advice to pastors, urging them to face difficulties with grace and stay true to the gospel by connecting their insights with Biblical wisdom. The conversation discusses betrayal and pain in pastoral ministry. It explores how these challenges can bring us closer to Christ, who also suffered. In the episode, it's important for pastors to be open about their weaknesses and learn from more experienced peers to improve their leadership. 2 Corinthians and 2 Timothy are identified as rich resources for understanding suffering in ministry, while Dodson's quotes reinforce the idea that engaging with suffering helps pastors develop greater compassion, modeled after Christ's own example. We should face challenges with the support of Jesus. He is a Savior who understands pain and deeply cares for those who suffer. Check out the [episode and show notes](https://www.gospelforlife.com/the-unwavering-pastor/). ## The Beauty of Small Churches Ron Johnston, the executive director of [Small Church Connections](https://go.gospelforlife.com/P3sb?ref=gospelforlife.com), talks about the important role and specific challenges that small churches face in a society that values big size. Ron emphasizes the importance of being content and valuing individual ministry, regardless of the church's size, drawing from his personal experiences as a pastor in small churches. The focus on church growth started with the Church Growth Movement in the 1950s. This often makes us overlook the beauty and effectiveness of smaller congregations. Ron emphasizes that small churches have unique strengths, like nurturing strong relationships and intergenerational dynamics, which allow them to have a significant impact despite their size. Small Church Connections supports small churches in Canada through encouragement, retreats, and research initiatives. Ron encourages pastors and members of small churches to see their roles as a divine calling, focusing on the eternal significance and rewards of their work. He affirms that ministry is mainly about people, making small churches feel valued regardless of their size. They remain integral parts of the body of Christ and are involved in transformative moments in their communities. Check out the [episode and show notes](https://www.gospelforlife.com/the-beauty-of-small-churches/). ## Reprise: Why We're Not Emergent In this podcast episode, I revisit a 16-year-old interview with Kevin DeYoung and Ted Kluck, who wrote the book [*Why We're Not Emergent: By Two Guys Who Should Be*](https://amzn.to/3MsgM8F?ref=gospelforlife.com). The episode revisits the ideas and problems related to the emerging church movement from 2008\. Leaders like Brian McLaren were advocating for a rethinking of traditional church doctrines. The podcast discusses how the concerns of the time, like social justice and caring for the poor, made the emerging church attractive to many, while traditional churches were criticized for not addressing these issues well. DeYoung and Kluck emphasize the importance of good doctrine and authentic community in churches, rather than seeking cultural relevance. They highlight the rich diversity found in "uncool" churches, where individuals from various backgrounds worship and learn together. The speakers argue that instead of striving to be trendy, churches should focus on preaching the Word. This episode reflects on past church dynamics and highlights enduring principles that are still applicable today. Check out the [episode and show notes](https://www.gospelforlife.com/reprise-why-were-not-emergent/). Season 6 of the podcast will be launching in September. ### Reprise: Why We’re Not Emergent URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/reprise-why-were-not-emergent/ Last updated: 2024-08-31T19:19:15.000Z Remember 2008? George W. Bush was finishing his term as president, and Barack Obama was battling John McCain to take over. We were in the middle of the Great Recession. Apple launched its App Store. And we were dealing with something called the emerging church. The emerging church is a distant memory now, but back then, leaders like Brian McLaren were trying to rethink not only the church but key doctrines of the faith. In early 2008, Kevin DeYoung and Ted Kluck released a book called [*Why We're Not Emergent: By Two Guys Who Should Be*](https://go.dashhouse.com/L425?ref=gospelforlife.com). I somehow managed to book them for an interview. I still remember dialing them on Skype from my basement. 16 years later, the emerging church is dead. Kevin DeYoung and Ted Kluck are much better known. And I don’t think my interview existed anywhere except on my computer. So I dug it up, edited it, and I’m reposting it. Although some of the issues have changed, many of the ideas they talk about still apply. The interview also gives us a taste of what a 30-year-old DeYoung sounded like before he became as well-known as he is today. (I appreciate that he pushed back at the premise of one of my questions.) I hope you enjoy this old episode. You can listen below, or find [The Gospel for Life podcast](https://go.dashhouse.com/podcast?ref=gospelforlife.com) on your favorite podcast app. ## Key Ideas - We must real-life struggles and challenges faced by individuals, such as helping a 45-year-old mom dying of breast cancer, rather than just giving generic spiritual advice. - It’s important to value both good doctrine and love within churches, as highlighted in the context of the seven churches of Revelation. - Never undervalue the worth and work of ordinary churches and uncool pastors. - If you want to fix the church, preach the word. ## Quotes "I think we would have been ripe for the picking, I guess, for the emergent church. And some of our critiques were, you know, that evangelicals didn't seem to care about the poor. They didn't seem to care about social justice. And I think that's probably what made the emergent church attractive at the time was, Hey, it looked like here are some folks like us who seem to care about this stuff, you know, who seem to be concerned about it." (Ted Kluck) “Visiting these uncool churches, thinking about the churches we grew up in, there are PhDs worshiping next to hourly workers and everything in between. And you just see this kind of really cool diversity and, you know, people learning from each other, people living their lives together in community." (Ted Kluck) “The Bible teaching that we've gotten has just been so meaningful and much more meaningful than any other kind of trendy demographic thing that you might look for in a church.” (Ted Kluck) “I think if we would stop chasing after relevance, we would be so incredibly relevant to our culture if we would be willing to be who we're called to be and be different, not in the way that we all have to dress differently and listen to different music, but we'd have a different ethic and ethos and culture. I think that's the relevance that really matters.” (Kevin DeYoung) ## Episode Links - [My 2008 review of the book](https://go.dashhouse.com/L42g?ref=gospelforlife.com) - [ClearlyReformed.com](https://go.dashhouse.com/L42m?ref=gospelforlife.com) (Kevin DeYoung's website) - [Kluckstack](https://go.dashhouse.com/L49D?ref=gospelforlife.com) (Ted Kluck's website) ### Books mentioned: - [*Why We're Not Emergent: By Two Guys Who Should Be*](https://go.dashhouse.com/L425?ref=gospelforlife.com) by Kevin DeYoung and Ted Kluck - [*Facing Tyson: 15 fighters, 15 Stories*](https://go.dashhouse.com/L42E?ref=gospelforlife.com) by Ted Kluck - [*Becoming Conversant With the Emerging Church*](https://go.dashhouse.com/L42K?ref=gospelforlife.com) by D.A. Carson - [*The Truth War: Fighting for Certainty in an Age of Deception*](https://go.dashhouse.com/L42d?ref=gospelforlife.com) by John MacArthur - [*Blue Like Jazz: Nonreligious Thoughts on Christian Spirituality*](https://go.dashhouse.com/7Dpm?ref=gospelforlife.com) by Donald Miller ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [Why We're Not Emergent240220 Transcript.pdf308 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/240220-Transcript-1.pdf "Download") ### The Beauty of Small Churches URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/the-beauty-of-small-churches/ Last updated: 2024-08-31T19:20:28.000Z I pastored two small churches for a combined total of 17 years. In the first small church, I didn’t realize how good I had it. The people were loving and patient. They gave me a chance to grow and learn the role of pastor. They let me make mistakes. They loved us in significant ways. But I felt bad about the smallness of the church. The church grew a little and then shrank a little. No matter how much we tried, it never became a medium-sized church, and I felt bad about it. Some years later, I had the privilege of starting a new church in a downtown community. I didn’t know what size that church would be. Because of the kind of community — especially because of the transience of the community — it remained small. But this time I was ready: I was able to recognize the beauty of the church even though it was small. We tend to value big things. Many times, we miss the beauty and significance of small churches because we believe that small churches are somehow deficient. I’ve increasingly come to believe that small churches, medium churches, and large churches are just different. One isn’t better than the other; each has sets of strengths and challenges. Churches of every size can be healthy; churches of every size are significant. Pastors and members of small churches don’t need to be discouraged. God is at work in even the most humble church. I recently had the privilege of meeting Ron Johnston, executive director of [Small Church Connections](https://go.dashhouse.com/KjQW?ref=gospelforlife.com). I knew immediately that I wanted to interview him about the importance and difficulties of small churches in a culture that often prefers larger ones. I hope this conversation encourages you about the value of small church ministry. You can listen to the podcast episode below, or find [The Gospel for Life podcast](https://go.dashhouse.com/podcast?ref=gospelforlife.com) on your favorite podcast app. ## Summary - Ron traces the origins of the emphasis on church growth back to the Church Growth Movement of the 1950s. - He talks about his personal experiences as a pastor in small churches and emphasizes the importance of being content and appreciating the significance of individual ministry. - Small Church Connections aims to serve small churches across Canada through encouragement, support, retreats, and research projects. - Challenges faced by small churches include feelings of failure and difficulties in building quality leadership teams. - Small churches have strengths in their focus on relationships, intergenerational dynamics, and their collective impact on many people. - Ron encourages pastors and small churches to see their role as a divine calling and to keep going in their ministry, focusing on the rewards and eternal significance of their work. ## Quotes “I often say to small churches … that if I came back in a few years time, and they had grown enormously, and their budget was three times what it is right now, and they were running programs everywhere. I'll say you would not be one speck more valuable in the eyes of God than you are right at this moment, because you'd still be a part of the body of Christ.” (00:02:20 → 00:03:00) "No matter what the size of a church, ministry is to individuals." (00:05:09 → 00:05:14) "One of the things that I think is so incredibly important for anyone who's in some aspect of full time Christian ministry is that sense that God has called you, and that's why you're there." (00:06:34 → 00:07:37) "I've never met a small church pastor that didn't need encouragement." (00:10:15 → 00:10:18) "The rewards \[of being a pastor\] are second to none. When you see that young person really get turned on for God or you see that marriage come back together, or you see that person who started attending your church become a Christian or whatever it might be. We get to participate in some weddings and some of the most joyous times that there are. And we do it as part of what God is doing." (00:20:26 → 00:20:37) ## Episode Links - [Small Church Connections](https://go.dashhouse.com/KjQW?ref=gospelforlife.com) - [Significant Church Small Church Research Study](https://go.dashhouse.com/KjQa?ref=gospelforlife.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*The Call*](https://go.dashhouse.com/KjQt?ref=gospelforlife.com) by Os Guinness ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [The Beauty of Small Churches240130 Transcript.pdf237 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/240130-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### The Unwavering Pastor URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/the-unwavering-pastor/ Last updated: 2024-08-31T19:21:43.000Z I really like Jonathan Dodson’s book [*The Unwavering Pastor*](https://go.dashhouse.com/BMTD?ref=gospelforlife.com). I like it because Dodson is honest. When I first read one of Dodson's books, it felt like he understood my experience as a pastor better than I did. Dodson knows a pastor’s heart, a pastor’s anguish, and a pastor’s temptations. He shares his joys and struggles, and it makes me feel less alone. It may do the same for you. I like this book because it’s biblical. Dodson doesn’t just write from his experience; he brings the wisdom of Scripture to bear on a pastor’s experience. He’s a pastor who’s struggled with God’s word open in front of him. Because of that he provides good counsel for pastors who want to struggle well too. I also like this book because it grounds the pastor in the gospel. “Jesus bends down to minister to us,” he writes. “When we are low, he goes lower to lift us up. Jesus sympathizes with your struggle. Will you receive his strength and believe in his heart for you? Collapse into his arms if you have to and receive the ministry of Jesus!” What pastor doesn’t need that? I have a list of three books that I think every pastor should read, and this is one of them (along with [*Memoirs of an Ordinary Pastor*](https://go.dashhouse.com/AGql?ref=gospelforlife.com) and [*The Imperfect Pastor*](https://go.dashhouse.com/AGqk?ref=gospelforlife.com)). If you’re a pastor, please read this book. If you sit under a pastor, please consider buying your pastor this book. It’s just that good. I had the pleasure of engaging in a delightful conversation with Jonathan Dodson on The Gospel for Life podcast, where we discussed this book and much more. You can listen to the podcast episode below, or find [The Gospel for Life podcast](https://go.dashhouse.com/podcast?ref=gospelforlife.com) on your favorite podcast app. ## Key Ideas - Pastors experience betrayal and deep wounds in ministry that can linger and cause profound pain. - The book of 2 Timothy is rich for pastors in understanding the nature of suffering in ministry. - The gospel allows pastors to be honest about their weaknesses and struggles, following the example of Paul. - Spending time with wiser and more experienced pastors can provide valuable insights and correction for personal growth and leadership. - Pastors should prioritize caring for and spending time with those who have been sinned against or are suffering. - Suffering is a part of ministry, but it is worth it in Christ. Clinging to Jesus and seeking wisdom from seasoned pastors can help navigate challenges. ## Quotes "When we stand up and proclaim God’s word as true and authoritative, We are challenging idols, and behind every idol, there is a power, a satanic power, that Christ has yet shamed through the victory of the cross." “There are deep betrayal wounds that happen in ministry that just linger in their sting. Those relational wounds are of a frequency and depth in vocational ministry that aren't quite present in a lot of other jobs.” “The suffering makes us better pastors for several reasons. Primarily, it puts us in touch with a suffering Savior. We uncover his compassion for sufferers that we can't manufacture without experiencing it ourselves.” “Don't despair. Cling to Jesus. And remember, he is a suffering Savior with scars on his hands.” ## Episode Links - [Citizen’s Church, Texas](https://go.dashhouse.com/KPrE?ref=gospelforlife.com) - [Gospel Centered Discipleship](https://go.dashhouse.com/KPrG?ref=gospelforlife.com) - [Immanuel Nashville](https://go.dashhouse.com/KPrH?ref=gospelforlife.com) - [Makoto Fujimura](https://go.dashhouse.com/KPrI?ref=gospelforlife.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*Memoirs of an Ordinary Pastor: The Life and Reflections of Tom Carson*](https://go.dashhouse.com/AGql?ref=gospelforlife.com) - [The Unwavering Pastor: Leading the Church with Grace in Divisive Times](https://go.dashhouse.com/BMTD?ref=gospelforlife.com) - [*The Imperfect Pastor: Discovering Joy in Our Limitations Through a Daily Apprenticeship with Jesus*](https://go.dashhouse.com/AGqk?ref=gospelforlife.com) ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [The Unwavering Pastor240109 Transcript.pdf270 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/240109-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### Introducing Early Church History URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/introducing-early-church-history/ Last updated: 2024-08-31T19:23:05.000Z When I first attended seminary, I had little knowledge of church history, and little understanding of why it might matter. My church history professor, Dr. Michael Haykin, changed that. Nobody can listen to Dr. Haykin talk about church history without feeling his excitement about this field of study. I began to learn more, but I still felt like I was only beginning to understand the subject. More recently, we’ve seen an explosion of books that make the subject of church history more accessible. I'm worried that we don't know much about the history of the church and that we act like it only started in the 1980s, with only a few important events like the Reformation in mind from the past two thousand years. Perry Edwards has written a book called [*Introduction to Early Church History: The First 500 Years*](https://go.dashhouse.com/JvWR?ref=gospelforlife.com) to help us. [![](https://www.dashhouse.com/content/images/2023/12/early-church-history.jpg)](https://go.dashhouse.com/JvWR?ref=gospelforlife.com) Edwards is pastor of [Living Way Baptist Fellowship](https://go.dashhouse.com/JwPe?ref=gospelforlife.com) in Chipman, New Brunswick, Canada. He’s served as a lecturer for Carey Outreach Ministries for the past seventeen years. He’s taught courses on the early church and Reformation history in several different countries around the world. His new book is an accessible and interesting introduction to early church history. I enjoyed talking to him about his new book on the Gospel for Life podcast. This would be a great book to pick up for a church library, or to use as the basis for a course in your church. It would also make a good gift to anyone who wants to learn more about the history of the early church. You can listen to the podcast episode below, or find [The Gospel for Life podcast](https://go.dashhouse.com/podcast?ref=dashhouse.com) on your favorite podcast app. ## Key Ideas - We need church history to understand the theology of the church. - As we face increasing persecution, we can learn from how early Christians faced opposition, persecution, and even martyrdom. - The early church addressed many of the issues we face today. - Pastors can and should teach church history within the church. ## Quotes "The church didn't begin in the 16th century, but sometimes I think we have that impression as evangelicals." "We're not reading the Bible in a vacuum. We're not in the first century reading the Bible for the first time. We're reading it on the shoulders of those who have come before us." “I'm gripped by reading the stories of these early monks, and it causes me to think deeply and ponder and question my own commitment to the Lord. Have I given up everything for Jesus? What does that look like?” “Satan is not a very creative guy. He's always doing the same stuff over and over and over and over again. It seems to me it's the same heresies.” ## Episode Links - [Living Way Baptist Fellowship](https://go.dashhouse.com/JwPe?ref=gospelforlife.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*Introduction to Church History: The First 500 Years*](https://go.dashhouse.com/JvWR?ref=gospelforlife.com) - [*The City of God*](https://go.dashhouse.com/JwPc?ref=gospelforlife.com) - [*Church History in Plain English*](https://go.dashhouse.com/JwP9?ref=gospelforlife.com) - [*The Story of Christianity, Vol. 1: The Early Church to the Dawn of the Reformation*](https://go.dashhouse.com/JwPU?ref=gospelforlife.com) - [*The Story of Christianity, Vol. 2: The Reformation to the Present Day*](https://go.dashhouse.com/JwPW?ref=gospelforlife.com) ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [Introducing Early Church History231205 Transcript.pdf294 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/231205-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### The Influential Mentor: Learning from Howard Hendricks URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/the-influential-mentor-learning-from-howard-hendricks/ Last updated: 2024-08-31T19:23:57.000Z Hang around me long enough, and you’ll probably hear me talk about Haddon Robinson. Haddon Robinson was author of *Biblical Preaching*, one of the best books on how to prepare a sermon. He taught hundreds how to preach. He served as seminary president and professor. But what struck me most about Haddon was his character. He was brilliant at his craft, but he was even more impressive because he was a godly and humble man. The same could be said for another man I never had the privilege of meeting: Howard Hendricks. Hendricks taught at the same school as Haddon Robinson. He also wrote books. And he also is known as someone who shaped many lives not only through his teaching but through his life. You know when you’ve met someone who studied under Hendricks, because his name will eventually come up. According to Maina Mwaura, author of [*The Influential Mentor: How the Life and Legacy of Howard Hendricks Equipped and Inspired a Generation of Leaders*](https://go.dashhouse.com/JKYq?ref=gospelforlife.com), Hendricks equipped and inspired a generation of leaders, including some people you’d recognize. [![The Influential Mentor](https://www.dashhouse.com/content/images/2023/11/9780802425836.jpg)](https://go.dashhouse.com/JKYq?ref=gospelforlife.com) Hendricks taught over 10,000 students, wrote 23 books, and enjoyed 66 years of faithful marriage. It was my privilege to talk to Maina about the life and impact of Howard Hendricks on The Gospel for Life podcast. You can listen to the podcast episode below, or find [The Gospel for Life podcast](https://go.dashhouse.com/podcast?ref=gospelforlife.com) on your favorite podcast app. ## Key Ideas - Howard Hendricks was described as a man of God who was both skilled and godly, leaving a deep impact on those around him through his character and teachings. - He had a significant influence on many people, including prominent leaders like Tony Evans, Andy Stanley, and others, demonstrating the importance of both skill and godliness. - His willingness to go against the grain, speak into cultural issues, and push for racial integration showcased his courage and commitment to doing what God called him to do. - Hendricks demonstrated honesty and humility by acknowledging his weaknesses and being reluctant to make ministry about himself, emphasizing the importance of serving rather than seeking recognition. - The podcast interview also highlighted the significance of expressing appreciation and encouragement to those who have influenced our lives, as exemplified by Howard Hendrix's impact on many individuals. - The interviewee, Maina Mwaura, shared personal experiences and reflections on how writing about Hendrix's life impacted him, teaching him to rely on God, serve faithfully, and recognize God's work in challenging seasons. - The interview provided valuable insights into the life and legacy of Howard Hendricks, emphasizing the importance of character, humility, courage, and the impact of genuine mentorship. ## Quotes “Howard didn't see himself as a brand man. He really saw himself as an ordinary man who he was asking God to use.” “We all have weaknesses, but God really does want to use those for his good.” “Why don't we encourage people? Why are we so slow to express appreciation to people?” “Good mentors open doors.” ## Episode Links [*The Influential Mentor: How the Life and Legacy of Howard Hendricks Equipped and Inspired a Generation of Leaders*](https://go.dashhouse.com/JKYq?ref=gospelforlife.com) ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [The Influential Mentor: Learning from Howard Hendricks231115 Transcript.pdf267 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/231115-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### The Lies That Bind URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/the-lies-that-bind/ Last updated: 2024-08-31T19:24:42.000Z Satan has one main strategy: deception. We tend to think that he works through bizarre manifestations, but he primarily works as a deceiver, and he’s very effective. Jesus said, “He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks out of his own character, for he is a liar and the father of lies.” (John 8:44). We’re not always good at recognizing Satan’s lies, which cause great damage. Canadian pastor Chris Quiring has written a book to address this issue, and to help us learn how to identify Satan’s lies, trace them to their source, and replace them with God’s truth. The book is called [*The Lies That Bind: Exposing The Lies Keeping You From A Rich And Meaningful Life*](https://go.dashhouse.com/I%5FZz?ref=gospelforlife.com). [![](https://www.dashhouse.com/content/images/2023/10/lies-that-bind.jpg)](https://go.dashhouse.com/I%5FZz?ref=gospelforlife.com) It was my privilege to talk to Chris about his new book on The Gospel for Life podcast. Quiring helps us understand how lies can entangle our lives and hinder us from living out our true identity in Christ. He draws a fascinating parallel to the art of forgery, where knowing the real thing — the true, pure, and authentic— enables us to detect and expose the counterfeit. You can listen to the podcast episode below, or find [The Gospel for Life podcast](https://go.dashhouse.com/podcast?ref=gospelforlife.com) on your favorite podcast app. ## Key Ideas - We need to identify Satan’s lies, trace them, and replace them. - A community of other believers can help us spot Satan’s lies. - We tend to make decisions emotionally, not logically. This can be a danger when we’re tempted to follow lies that feed our emotions. - Sometimes the most spiritual thing we can do is something unspiritual. ## Quotes "The most dangerous enemy is the one you can't see." “There is absolutely no more effective weapon in our fight against the lies of the enemy than to get to know the word of God." "What you give your attention to will ultimately determine who you become." “Do you want to be discipled by YouTube's algorithm? Do you want to be discipled by culture at large, or do you want to be discipled by the word of God and the people of God?” "Sometimes the answer to a lot of our problems is simply to start changing our daily habits because that will accumulate... each individual decision in and of itself is not a life-changing moment, but they add up over time." "I've just been encouraged just to see the passion in people's eyes and hearts for a church and community, especially community. It's been really encouraging as of late to see the fire come back for some people, to see the light in their eyes, to see them prioritizing truth and community and being together and worshiping. That I think that's been a real encouragement for me in my own life." ## Episode Links - [Chris’s website](https://go.dashhouse.com/I%5FZs?ref=gospelforlife.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*The Lies That Bind*](https://go.dashhouse.com/I%5FZz?ref=gospelforlife.com) - [*The Art of War*](https://go.dashhouse.com/I%5FZ%5F?ref=gospelforlife.com) - [*The Power to Change*](https://go.dashhouse.com/I%5Fa1?ref=gospelforlife.com) ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [The Lies That Bind231028 Transcript.pdf294 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/231028-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### Faithfully Present URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/faithfully-present/ Last updated: 2024-08-31T19:25:32.000Z I had a sad moment this week. We had our real estate agent come to our condo to take a look as we begin to think about selling our place. We’ve lived in only a few places since we got married 32 years ago, and by far, this is our favorite. To think of selling this place fills us with some sadness, even though we know it’s time. Honestly, sometimes I want to be able to inhabit more than one place at a time. I’m glad I had just read Adam Ramsey’s book [*Faithfully Present: Embracing the Limits of Where and When God Has You*](https://go.dashhouse.com/IWfz?ref=gospelforlife.com). [![Faithfully Present by Adam Ramsey](https://www.dashhouse.com/content/images/2023/10/5fde86a2-5338-46d1-acfb-c4a11bda111d.__CR0-0-2021-625_PT0_SX970_V1___.jpg)](https://go.dashhouse.com/IWfz?ref=gospelforlife.com) Ramsey talks about the two kinds of limitations that all of us face: location and time. We only live in one place out of 4.3 million unique towns and places on Earth. We are currently living in this specific moment among all the past and future moments. Our lives are short, and we will soon be forgotten. We can’t transcend our time and place. God calls us to be faithfully present in our time and place for his glory. Ramsey’s book is not one that taught me anything new. Instead, it’s a book that reminds me of a Puritan work. It takes a couple of significant thoughts and turns them over slowly in our minds, teasing out the implications in a way that can change our lives. Ramsey deals first with the limitations of being limited to one time. I liked this section, particularly when he discussed topics such as regret, changing seasons, rushing, and the feeling that time is passing quickly. The second section — place — is also timely for me. I’m leaving one place for another; I live in a body; I can maintain a limited number of relationships. Ramsey’s book couldn’t have been a better one for me to read. I get the sense that most of us are wrestling with these issues. Ramsey helps us recognize our finitude and find hope in the gospel. He writes: > Do not lament the shortness of your days or the changing of the seasons. Do not despair that you cannot freeze the best moments in time. Instead, press on in the power of the Holy Spirit, fully and gratefully alive to the short life God has given you. Receive each day as the limited-edition gift that it is. God does not promise you tomorrow. But he does promise you, in Christ, an everlasting life in his never-failing love. ## My Interview with Ramsey I was privileged to talk to Ramsey about his new book. Something happened in the interview that doesn’t happen often; I don’t know if you will pick it up if you listen to it. Ramsey applied the gospel in real time to the issues I raised in my questions. I found myself feeling challenged and encouraged by his responses as he applied the gospel to my soul. So here’s the interview. It marks the beginning of a new season of the [Gospel for Life podcast](https://go.dashhouse.com/podcast?ref=gospelforlife.com). You can find it on your favorite podcast platform. You can also find the show notes and transcript below. I hope you enjoy it. ## Key Ideas - We’ve always struggled with the temptation to transcend our limits, but technology gives us new opportunities. - We need to live in reality, appreciate the ordinary, and find glory in the present moment. No more chasing constant "mountaintop experiences." - Living in the here and now means glorifying God in our current circumstances and surroundings. - Slowing down and finding rest amidst the chaos of our hyperconnected world is essential for our well-being and productivity. - Remember, God is always present with us, even in the midst of the most challenging times or seasons of life. ## Quotes We all have an idea in our minds of how we think life should go, and then real life happens. “We’ve only tasted the entree, the hors d'oeuvres of the fullness of life in God. We have the fullness of that life yet to come as the Kingdom of God breaks into this world, as the new creation becomes a new permanent reality.” “You're not awesome. You're loved, and that's awesome.” “While we should absolutely pray for and enjoy such mountaintop experiences with God, we need to, as pastors, we need to teach our people of the glory of the ordinary, the glory of plodding, the joy of simply being attentive to the life, the relationships, the geographic spaces that we inhabit, and to go, What does it look like to glorify God here in this space?” “The one thing that we owe absolutely to God is never to be afraid of anything.” (Charles de Foucauld) ## Episode Links - [Liberti Church](https://go.dashhouse.com/IWxy?ref=gospelforlife.com) - [Adam Ramsey on X](https://go.dashhouse.com/IWx-?ref=gospelforlife.com) - [Adam Ramsey on Instagram](https://go.dashhouse.com/IWx%5F?ref=gospelforlife.com) ### Book mentioned: - [*Faithfully Present: Embracing the Limits of Where and When God Has You*](https://go.dashhouse.com/IWfz?ref=gospelforlife.com) - [*Truth on Fire: Gazing at God Until Your Heart Sings*](https://go.dashhouse.com/7IB6?ref=gospelforlife.com) by Adam Ramsey - [*The Imperfect Pastor*](https://go.dashhouse.com/AGqk?ref=gospelforlife.com) by Zach Eswine - [*Principles: Life and Work*](https://go.dashhouse.com/Dri1?ref=gospelforlife.com) by Ray Dalio - [*Honor: Loving Your Church by Building One Another Up*](https://go.dashhouse.com/IWy2?ref=gospelforlife.com) by Adam Ramsey ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [Faithfully Present231017 Transcript.pdf272 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/08/231017-Transcript.pdf "Download") More from [Amazon.com](https://go.dashhouse.com/IWfz?ref=gospelforlife.com) ### Want to Grow? Pay Attention to These Three Things. URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/want-to-grow-pay-attention-to-these-three-things/ Last updated: 2024-09-03T19:01:59.000Z I’m fascinated by the topic of spiritual growth. I’ve even written [a couple of books](https://www.dashhouse.com/books/?ref=gospelforlife.com) on the subject. How do people mature in their faith? What habits and disciplines are most important? How can we help others grow? Why do some people grow and others seem to stall? The answers to these questions matter to every believer and every church leader. But it’s not enough to know how to grow in general. In his book [*A Short Guide to Spiritual Disciplines: How to Become a Healthy Christian*](https://go.dashhouse.com/CyME?ref=dashhouse.com), Mason King argues that we need to pay attention to three dimensions of our lives: - **Our attention** — Who gets our attention? How do we manage the onslaught of digital distractions that overwhelm us? What we pay attention to determines the direction of our lives. - **Our emotions** — How do we process our emotions? How do we offer all of us — including our emotions — to God and learn to trust him with every emotion, even the difficult ones? - **Our limits** — How do we stop trying to do too much and live within our limits? Most spiritual growth books don’t discuss these three dimensions of our lives. It could be one of the reasons that many of us aren’t growing as much as we’d like. You may practice all the spiritual disciplines, but without practicing God’s presence in these three categories, your spiritual growth will be limited. ## My Interview with Mason King Mason King is a pastor at The Village Church in Flower Mound, Texas. He also serves as the Executive Director of The Village Church Institute, Groups, and Leadership Development. He is currently completing a Ph.D. in Church History from Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary and holds a D.Min. in Executive Leadership from The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary. He’s also a husband and a father. King and I share similar interests. It seems that we may also face similar challenges. The section on limits, for instance, hit me hard. I highlighted this quote in the book, taken from a commentary on the Psalms that King read: “Putting wise limits upon our undertakings and our spheres is one of the most important and anxious things that we have to do. And one of the chief modern sins is attempting too much, and not being willing to keep ourselves strictly within the limits of what we can do really well.” I need to not only highlight that but post it on my wall where I can see it every day. I appreciated King’s take on a familiar subject. King draws attention to some important areas around spiritual growth that we often tend to miss. If you’d like a refresher on how to grow, I think you’ll enjoy this book. I was privileged to interview King for the [Gospel for Life podcast](https://go.dashhouse.com/podcast?ref=dashhouse.com). You can listen to the interview below, or download the transcript. [A Short Guide to Spiritual Disciplines with Mason King230327 Transcript.pdf247 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/230327-Transcript.pdf "Download") ## Key Ideas - Joy is found by submitting your life to God and living within limits while giving attention and emotions to God. Prioritizing sleep, rest, diet, relationships, and managing pressure and anxiety from others is key to avoiding burnout and being a people pleaser. - The metaphor of a tree runs through the book, emphasizing the importance of the lifelong pursuit of growth. - Digital technology acts as a pacifier, providing distraction and instant gratification at the click of a button. The ease of distraction can prevent individuals from feeling conviction and needing something outside of themselves for help. With constant access to stimulation, stillness becomes difficult to achieve which prevents individuals from hearing the still, small voice of God. - King identifies areas that are often neglected such as attention, emotions, and limits in his book, going beyond the basic spiritual practices. It's important to remember that emotions are real but not always reliable, and one should get curious about them and know how to move through them. ## Quotes “God is not waiting for a future version of you to love.” “It's hard to know ourselves when we won't slow down. It’s hard to create space to know God and to be known by God when we feel shame over emotions or we don't have emotional maturity and vocabulary. And if we're trying to do too much, we're trying to do more than a creature can. You're not recognizing God's good design for giving you rest.” ## Episode Links - [Mason King on Instagram](https://go.dashhouse.com/CyMh?ref=dashhouse.com) - [masonking.org](https://go.dashhouse.com/CyMp?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*A Short Guide to Spiritual Disciplines: How to Become a Healthy Christian*](https://go.dashhouse.com/CyME?ref=dashhouse.com) by Mason King - [*Breaking Bread with the Dead: A Reader's Guide to a More Tranquil Mind*](https://go.dashhouse.com/CyMI?ref=dashhouse.com) by Alan Jacobs - [*How to Think*](https://go.dashhouse.com/CyMN?ref=dashhouse.com) by Alan Jacobs ### Taking No for an Answer URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/taking-no-for-an-answer/ Last updated: 2024-09-03T19:11:32.000Z “Everything we do in the Christian life is easier than prayer,” said Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones. He’s not the only one to make this observation. “There is nothing that we are so bad at all our days as prayer,” observed Alexander Whyte. “There are times in my life when I would rather die than pray,” said Thomas Shepard. “As for my heart, when I go to pray, I find it so reluctant to go to God, and when it is with him, so reluctant to stay with him,” wrote John Bunyan. These are not the observations of spiritual lightweights; they represent the experience of even the godliest among us. One of the difficulties we face in prayer is when God doesn’t answer our prayers, or when he denies what we asked. On the one hand, we understand that God knows best and that he gives us what is ultimately good. But that doesn’t mean we don’t struggle to understand why God doesn’t answer our prayers sometimes, especially in the face of hardships we don’t understand. I don’t know many books on unanswered prayer. That’s why Blake Long’s new book [*Taking No for an Answer: How to Respond When God Says No to Our Prayers*](https://go.dashhouse.com/CAYq?ref=dashhouse.com) is so necessary. [![](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/images/2024/09/614ikBPM2kL._AC_UF700-800_QL80_.jpg)](https://go.dashhouse.com/CAYq?ref=dashhouse.com) Long hasn’t written a theoretical book. He begins with a couple of stories of unanswered prayer from his own life. He then takes us to Scripture to learn from unanswered prayer in the lives of David, Paul, and even Jesus. He leads us to develop some qualities we need if we’re going to learn how to pray well: trust, contentment, repentance, persistence, and more. He concludes with a chapter on one of many prayers that God will always answer: praying to be more like Jesus. The conclusion of the book reminds us that God doesn’t answer our prayers for one or both of two reasons: our good, and his glory. This is a book that goes beyond *why* God doesn’t answer prayer to what’s true about God and his purposes, and how we can respond faithfully. The books on prayer that have helped me the most are those that share the author’s own struggles with prayer and point the way forward. Long’s book does that. It reminds us of truths about God that are easy to forget when our prayers aren’t answered the way we want. This book won’t answer all your questions, but it will point you to God’s care for you and his desire for you in prayer. It’s hard for me to imagine a Christian who wouldn’t benefit from reading this book. “It doesn’t matter if your life is collapsing or you are on top of the world,” Long reminds us. “This truth still remains: God hears you, he’s listening to you, and he’s attentive to your prayers.” ## My Interview with Blake Long I was privileged to interview Long about his book on the [Gospel for Life podcast](https://go.dashhouse.com/podcast?ref=dashhouse.com). If you’re interested in listening to the interview, then subscribe using your favorite podcast platform, or listen to the interview below. You can also download a transcript of the interview: [Taking No for an Answer230207 Transcript.pdf231 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/230207-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### Episode Links - Long’s blog [Theology and Life](https://go.dashhouse.com/CAZS?ref=dashhouse.com) #### Books Mentioned - [*Taking No for an Answer: How to Respond When God Says No to Our Prayers*](https://go.dashhouse.com/CAYq?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*A Praying Life: Connecting with God in a Distracting World*](https://go.dashhouse.com/2frx?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Eyes Wide Open Into the Beautiful Truths That We've Been Given URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/eyes-wide-open-into-the-beautiful-truths-that-weve-been-given/ Last updated: 2024-09-03T19:19:51.000Z I love books. I often think that a book I've recently read is very important and that everyone should read it. But I’m not exaggerating when I say that about [*The Thrill of Orthodoxy*](https://go.dashhouse.com/AmkS?ref=dashhouse.com) by Trevin Wax. It really is one of the most important books written in the past couple of years. [![The Thrill of Orthodoxy](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/images/2024/09/thrill-of-orthodoxy.jpg)](https://go.dashhouse.com/AmkS?ref=dashhouse.com) We live in an atheological age. Many think that theology is boring, irrelevant, and divisive. I’ve heard church leaders say we need to pay less attention to what we believe and more attention to how we behave — a false dichotomy if I’ve ever heard one. Many argue for a lowest-common-denominator version of Christianity in which we de-emphasize doctrine and agree to disagree. Even worse, sometimes we get bored with doctrines that really matter. Wax’s new book makes the case for the beauty and necessity of orthodoxy. “The adventure of life is a fight for astonishment, a determination to resist growing bored in a world of wonders,” he writes. Or, as he states later in the book: “…the key to renewal is to return to the only truth that is reliable and sturdy when so much in the world seems fleeting and faddish: the gospel of God delivered once for all to the saints.” Wax isn’t arguing for a heady fascination with dusty doctrines. He’s arguing that we recover the wonder of the amazing truths that God has entrusted to us. He wants us to reject pragmatism, heresy, and — perhaps just as dangerous — dullness to the truth that God’s revealed. In other words, Wax is addressing one of the besetting sins of the church in our age. It’s why I think that his new book really matters. I’d like to see every church leader read it and think about how to apply this book within the church. One of our greatest needs today, as the world gets darker, is to strengthen our grip on truths that will sustain us and that should amaze us. We’re not just meant to believe them. We’re also meant to be changed by them, to find unity around them. They’re meant to inoculate us against the many false teachings circulating around us that threaten to kill us. As we strengthen our grip on the doctrine that Christians have always held, we’ll be better equipped to obey and carry this message into the world. We need to recover the thrill of orthodoxy. ## My Interview with Trevin Wax I was privileged to interview Wax about his book on the [Gospel for Life podcast](https://go.dashhouse.com/podcast?ref=dashhouse.com). If you’re interested in listening to the interview, subscribe using your favorite podcast platform, or listen to the interview below. You can also download a transcript of the interview: [The Thrill of Orthodoxy with Trevin Wax230117 Transcript.pdf266 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/230117-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### Episode Links - [Reconstructing Faith podcast](https://go.dashhouse.com/Ac50?ref=dashhouse.com) #### Books mentioned: - [*The Thrill of Orthodoxy: Rediscovering the Adventure of the Christian Faith*](https://go.dashhouse.com/AmkS?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*Rethink Your Self: The Power of Looking Up Before Looking In*](https://go.dashhouse.com/5Gd4?ref=dashhouse.com) ### In Good Time with Jen Pollock Michel URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/in-good-time-with-jen-pollock-michel/ Last updated: 2024-09-03T19:26:01.000Z I’ve lost track of how many books I’ve read on time and productivity. The problem with many of these books is that they backfire. As Oliver Burkeman writes in [*Four Thousand Weeks*](https://go.dashhouse.com/Bh%5Fh?ref=dashhouse.com), our efforts to make the most of our limited time can actually make things worse: > The problem isn’t exactly that these techniques and products don’t work. It’s that they do work — in the sense that you’ll get more done, race to more meetings, ferry your kids to more after-school activities, generate more profit for your employer — and yet, paradoxically, you only feel busier, more anxious, and somehow emptier as a result. A year ago, I made [some changes](https://www.dashhouse.com/a-personal-update/?ref=gospelforlife.com) in my life in an attempt to make things more manageable. At the end of 2022, I still found myself overcommitted and feeling time-poor even though I’d tried to reduce my commitments, and even though I picked up and tried to apply at least four new books on time this year. I was ready, then, to pick up Jen Pollock Michel’s new book [*In Good Time: 8 Habits for Reimagining Productivity, Resisting Hurry, and Practicing Peace*](https://go.dashhouse.com/BMSX?ref=dashhouse.com). Michel is one of my favorite contemporary writers, and I try to read everything she writes, but this topic especially grabbed me given my own struggles. [![In Good Time](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/images/2024/09/9781540900548.jpg)](https://go.dashhouse.com/BMSX?ref=dashhouse.com) First, a disclaimer about this book: it’s not another book on how to use your time better. If you’re looking for life hacks and productivity techniques, look elsewhere. Of course, there’s a place to learn these techniques, as long as we keep them in their place. In the afterword to the book, Michel writes, “I wonder, finishing these pages, if I’ll give up on reading time management books, which enforce a strict rule for numbering time in productive units. *Probably not*, I admit. I’ll read them, haplessly interested in taming the unruliness of my busy life.” Some of us can benefit from learning basic wisdom principles for making the most of our time. But that’s not where Michel is going with this book. Instead, Michel wants to reimagine our relationship with time. She wants to help us let go of time anxiety by embracing new habits like receive, wait, enjoy, and remember. Missing from these pages is any sense of hustle or pressure. Present within these pages are honest stories, biblical wisdom, and a willingness to challenge our common assumptions about time and productivity. I have to be honest: I think I still want the hacks. Maybe that’s okay, as long as I realize they’re not the answer. I will be thinking about the lessons in this book for a while, learning to live within God’s time rather than trying to wrestle it under my control. Michel is a reliable guide for this endeavor. ## My Interview with Jen Pollock Michel I was privileged to interview Michel about his book on the [Gospel for Life podcast](https://go.dashhouse.com/podcast?ref=dashhouse.com). If you’re interested in listening to the interview, subscribe using your favorite podcast platform, or listen to the interview below. You can also download a transcript of the interview: [In Good Time with Jen Pollock Michel230103 Transcript.pdf268 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/230103-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### Links mentioned: - [Leaf by Niggle](https://go.dashhouse.com/Bi04?ref=dashhouse.com) - [@jenpmichel on Instagram](https://www.instagram.com/jenpmichel/?ref=dashhouse.com) - [@jenpmichel on Twitter](https://go.dashhouse.com/Bi0B?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*In Good Time: 8 Habits for Reimagining Productivity, Resisting Hurry, and Practicing Peace*](https://go.dashhouse.com/BMSX?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*Counterproductive: Time Management in the Knowledge Economy*](https://go.dashhouse.com/Bh%5Fu?ref=dashhouse.com) More on [Amazon](https://go.dashhouse.com/BMSX?ref=dashhouse.com) | [JenPollockMichel.com](https://go.dashhouse.com/5aDm?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Reading the Bible Better URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/reading-the-bible-better/ Last updated: 2024-09-03T19:32:30.000Z We hear a lot of advice about how to grow spiritually. But what actions will make the biggest difference? According to one study, reading the Bible is the number one action you can take to grow. “When it comes to reading the Bible, hands down, this is the input goal that has a direct impact on the total score of all the output goals, or discipleship attributes,” writes Daniel Im in his book [*No Silver Bullets*](https://go.dashhouse.com/BSe5?ref=dashhouse.com), reflecting on a study by Lifeway Research. Im continues: > The more an individual did the input goal of reading their Bible, the higher they scored in all of the output goals. So the more you can help your church to read the Bible, the better they are going to be able to obey God and deny self, serve God and others, share Christ, exercise their faith, seek God, build relationships, and be unashamed about their faith. That’s the good news: Bible reading is strategically important for spiritual growth. Here’s the bad news. Most Christians don’t read the Bible. According to the Bible League in Canada, only one in seven Christians read the Bible at least once a week. Most Canadians, including those who identify as Christian, read the Bible seldom or never. I’m glad that George Guthrie has written [*A Short Guide to Reading the Bible Better*](https://go.dashhouse.com/BSeE?ref=dashhouse.com). Guthrie is the Professor of New Testament at Regent College in Vancouver, British Columbia, and he’s also behind the [*CSB Day by Day Chronological Bible*](https://go.dashhouse.com/BSeI?ref=dashhouse.com). [![Reading the Bible Better](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/images/2024/09/9781433649134_02-scaled-1024x952-1-2.jpg)](https://go.dashhouse.com/BSeE?ref=dashhouse.com) “There is no more important task in life than hearing from God and trusting him on the basis of his Word,” writes George Guthrie at the beginning of his short book. It’s a basic, accessible introduction to Scripture reading that combines good writing, relatable stories, practical guidance, and encouragement. It’s written for a general church audience. “The publisher wanted a book that churches could buy in bulk and distribute broadly to their members,” says [Guthrie](https://go.dashhouse.com/BSeK?ref=dashhouse.com). Guthrie writes for people who’ve never thought about how to read the Bible before. He explains why reading Scripture is important, and then covers the importance of the heart, how to read well, and the tools that will help. Our church has bought a copy of this book for everyone. I’m confident it will be a help to us as we read through the Bible next year. Guthrie’s purpose is clear at the end of the book: “My prayer is that, as a result, you will read the Bible better, and in reading it better, you will read it consistently, and in reading it consistently, you will live it out all the days of your life, to the good of Christ’s Church and to the glory of God.” ## My Interview with Guthrie I was privileged to interview Dr. Guthrie about his book on the Gospel for Life podcast. If you’re interested in listening to the interview, then subscribe using your favorite podcast platform, or listen to the interview below. You can also download a transcript of the interview: [Reading the Bible Better221213 Transcript.pdf249 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/221213-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### Links mentioned: - [georgehguthrie.com](https://go.dashhouse.com/BSgZ?ref=dashhouse.com) - [Bulk orders at Lifeway](https://go.dashhouse.com/BSeV?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [A Short Guide to Reading the Bible Better](https://go.dashhouse.com/BSeE?ref=dashhouse.com) - [Read the Bible for Life](https://go.dashhouse.com/BSfH?ref=dashhouse.com) - [CSB Day by Day Chronological Bible](https://go.dashhouse.com/BSeI?ref=dashhouse.com) More on [Amazon](https://go.dashhouse.com/BSeE?ref=dashhouse.com) | [Lifeway (with bulk discounts available)](https://go.dashhouse.com/BSeV?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Earth Filled With Heaven URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/earth-filled-with-heaven/ Last updated: 2024-09-03T19:41:41.000Z In 2010, I took a three-month sabbatical. We started attending an Anglican Church during my sabbatical, and I discovered how much I treasured liturgy. Liturgy had always been unfamiliar to me. People say it's repetitive and lacks spiritual meaning. I wanted something more, and I found it in the simple Anglican service I attended that summer. Take the written prayers. I was used to extemporaneous prayer, which, when done well, can be helpful. When I first started using the *Book of Common Prayer* for prayers, I felt like I was experiencing something wonderful. It made my own prayers more lively and left me feeling more amazed. My “Amen” came easily at the end of those prayers. I also loved the shape of the service. I used to be familiar with songs followed by a sermon, along with a few other elements. But then I discovered the beauty of prayers of confession, assurances of pardon, creeds, and weekly communion. Later on, I read books like Mike Cosper’s [*Rhythms of Grace*](https://go.dashhouse.com/8BvY?ref=dashhouse.com) and James K.A. Smith’s [*You Are What You Love*](https://go.dashhouse.com/BF5F?ref=dashhouse.com) cemented my appreciation of liturgy. When we started Liberty Grace Church, we included some of the same elements in our public worship. I’m always excited to see a new resource explaining the value of liturgy, especially one that focuses on helping people with a low-church background to appreciate liturgy. That’s why I’m grateful to see [*Earth Filled with Heaven: Finding Life in Liturgy, Sacraments, and other Ancient Practices of the Church*](https://go.dashhouse.com/BF5h?ref=dashhouse.com), written by Aaron Damiani. Damiani knows what it’s like to move from a low church background to begin to appreciate liturgy, so he’s able to help people like me. [![Earth Filled with Heaven](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/images/2024/09/earth-filled-500.jpg)](https://go.dashhouse.com/BF5h?ref=dashhouse.com) Damiani begins the book with his own story. Liturgy and sacrament helped him at one of the lowest moments of his own life: > The historic forms and seasons of the church, including the church calendar and frequent Communion, put the grace of Jesus on full display. It gave me a way to participate in that grace with my kneeling knees, my gazing eyes, my chewing mouth, and my praying voice. It was like that “easy yoke” Jesus talked about with His disciples. It fit, light and easy-like; the longer I wore it, the more I learned of His gentle and lowly heart for me—not just in my head, but in my muscle memory. My soul started to rest, week by week. He then walks the reader through various elements of liturgy: eucharist, baptism, Scripture, passing the piece, prayers of the people, and more. He also helps us see the value of the church calendar for our lives. All of this serves as a counterforce to the direction of the world: > The secular age has left us with growing chaos, loneliness, boredom, anonymity, hopelessness, and polarization. It has eroded core commitments, broken bonds of trust, and left us with too many options and too little meaning. As we practice the sacramental life in the spirit of Jesus, we find that chaos gives way to meaning, loneliness gives way to family, and polarization gives way to peace. When secular life has eroded our humanity, practicing the sacramental life helps us recover it. If you would like to explore liturgy in your own life, I’d highly recommend this book. ## My Interview with Damiani I interviewed Damiani about his book on the [Gospel for Life podcast](https://anchor.fm/insideg4l?ref=dashhouse.com). If you’re interested in listening to the interview, then subscribe using your favorite podcast platform, or listen to the interview below. You can also download a transcript of the interview: [Earth Filled With Heaven221129 Transcript.pdf255 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/221129-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### Links mentioned: - [Aaron Damiani on Twitter](https://go.dashhouse.com/BFB2?ref=dashhouse.com) - [ImmanuelAnglican.org](https://go.dashhouse.com/BFB3?ref=dashhouse.com) - [Immanuel Anglican on Instagram](https://go.dashhouse.com/BFB4?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*Earth Filled with Heaven: Finding Life in Liturgy, Sacraments, and other Ancient Practices of the Church*](https://go.dashhouse.com/BF5h?ref=dashhouse.com) by Aaron Damiani - [The Book of Common Prayer (2019) — PDF](https://go.dashhouse.com/BFBC?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*The Valley of Vision: A Collection of Puritan Prayers & Devotions*](https://go.dashhouse.com/BFAv?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*Ancient Christian Commentary on Scripture*](https://go.dashhouse.com/BFAy?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*No Future Without Forgiveness*](https://go.dashhouse.com/BFB0?ref=dashhouse.com) by Desmond Tutu Check out the book on [Amazon](https://go.dashhouse.com/BF5h?ref=dashhouse.com). ### Sing Loud, Die Happy URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/sing-loud-die-happy/ Last updated: 2024-09-03T19:48:48.000Z Singing is a big deal for Christians. It’s “one of the most repeated commands in Holy Scripture,” according to Jim Thompson, author of [*Sing Loud, Die Happy: An Exploration of How God's Gift of Song Is Meant to Change Us*](https://go.dashhouse.com/A2Hg?ref=dashhouse.com). “It’s right up there with ‘believe’ and ‘do not fear.’” It’s so important that Martin Luther said, “Next to theology, I give to music the highest place and the greatest honor.” And yet I’m not sure that many of us have given much thought to why singing matters to us as Christians. That’s why I’m glad to see Thompson’s book. [![Sing Loud, Die Happy](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/images/2024/09/9781666740882.jpg)](https://go.dashhouse.com/A2Hg?ref=dashhouse.com) Thompson does a few really helpful things within *Sing Loud, Die Happy*: - He provides a biblical theology of singing from Scripture. A good chunk of the book is devoted to tracing singing from the Old Testament and New Testament, with a large section devoted to the psalms. - He also provides an overview of singing in church history. “In the past two thousand years, God has used song to empower churches, sustain sufferers, embolden mission, disciple the faithful, soothe the fearful, convict the proud, unify the cynical, and gladden the humble. Singing gets work done.” - He also gets practical, giving helpful advice for the church and for individuals on how to apply the lessons in this book. This book is comprehensive enough to serve as a seminary textbook, but it’s also personal, readable, and entertaining. I’d recommend it to any Christian who wants to understand why singing matters, and how they can learn to sing in a way that strengthens faith. Thompson concludes *Sing Loud, Die Happy* with these helpful words: > God made you to sing. Tons of people sweat and fret, worrying if they’re rightly following God’s will. But guess what? If singing is one of the most repeated commands in Holy Scripture, and if the divine importance of song has been repeatedly affirmed in history and in science, you can know with confidence that you’re doing God’s will if you just open your mouth and sing. It’s not a trick. It’s not legalism. You don’t have to sweat and fret. He’s not looking for excellence; he’s looking for faithfulness. He knows what’s best for us, so why would we not lean in and lift up our voices? This book has one of the best titles. It’s biblical, entertaining, and practical. And it’s on an important topic. Singing matters, and Thompson will help you to learn why and how. Read it. Enjoy it. Most of all, apply it, for God’s glory and your good and enjoyment. ## My Interview with Thompson I interviewed Jim about his book on the [Gospel for Life podcast](https://anchor.fm/insideg4l?ref=dashhouse.com). If you’re interested in listening to the interview, then subscribe using your favorite podcast platform, or listen to the interview below. You can also download a transcript of the interview: [Sing Loud, Die Happy with Jim Thompson221115 Transcript.pdf229 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/221115-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### Links mentioned: - [Saint Cecilia and the Melody Makers on Spotify](https://go.dashhouse.com/B22j?ref=dashhouse.com) - [Jim Thompson on Bandcamp](https://go.dashhouse.com/B29D?ref=dashhouse.com) - [Jim Thompson on Twitter](https://go.dashhouse.com/B21m?ref=dashhouse.com) - [Jim Thompson on Instagram](https://go.dashhouse.com/B24B?ref=dashhouse.com) - [Fellowship Greenville sermons](https://go.dashhouse.com/B24H?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*A King in His Kingdom: A Narrative Theology of Grace and Truth*](https://go.dashhouse.com/B22J?ref=dashhouse.com) by Jim Thompson - [*A Philosophy of Song and Singing: An Introduction*](https://go.dashhouse.com/B231?ref=dashhouse.com) by Jeanette Bicknell - [*Be Thou My Vision: A Liturgy for Daily Worship*](https://go.dashhouse.com/B23d?ref=dashhouse.com) by Jonathan Gibson - [*Covenant: The Framework of God's Grand Plan of Redemption*](https://go.dashhouse.com/B23h?ref=dashhouse.com) by Daniel Block - [*The Genesis of Gender: A Christian Theory*](https://go.dashhouse.com/B23r?ref=dashhouse.com) by Abigail Favale - [*Seek First: How the Kingdom of God Changes Everything*](https://go.dashhouse.com/B23r?ref=dashhouse.com) by Jeremy Treat - [*Death to Deconstruction: Reclaiming Faithfulness as an Act of Rebellion*](https://go.dashhouse.com/B243?ref=dashhouse.com) by Joshua Porter Check out the book on [Amazon](https://go.dashhouse.com/A2Hg?ref=dashhouse.com). ### The Body and the Christian Life with Charlene Dash URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/the-body-and-the-christian-life-with-charlene-dash/ Last updated: 2024-09-04T14:22:05.000Z Since starting the Gospel for Life podcast, I’ve interviewed a couple of dozen people. This episode’s guest is my favorite so far. Charlene Dash is a gospel-integrated nutrition coach. She supports women experiencing setbacks in health and fitness as they gain competence, strength, freedom, and joy in their nutrition, movement, and living. Char is a Revelation Wellness group instructor and is also certified with Precision Nutrition. And she also happens to be my wife. In this episode, Char talks about how and why to care for our bodies as part of the Christian life. I hope you enjoy this old episode. You can listen below, or find the [Gospel for Life podcast](https://go.dashhouse.com/podcast?ref=gospelforlife.com) on your favorite podcast app. ## Key Ideas - We often overlook the significance of our bodies as the dwelling place of the Holy Spirit. - We also overlook how embodied the Old Testament is. - Our bodies are connected with other dimensions of our lives: our emotions and thought patterns. The gospel helps address these areas. - We all practice habits, but depending on our temperament, we practice them differently. - We face challenges in how we eat and move, in part, because of the effects of the Fall. - God promises to transform every part of us, including our bodies. - We were created a little lower than the angels, but the ascended Jesus — as the God-man — is exalted above the angels and has taken us with him. ## Quotes “The truth, when it’s presented with love and grace, is able through the power of the Spirit to bring healing and wholeness and freedom in a way … that just can’t be touched by keeping track of what you’re eating and making sure that you’re eating dense nutrients.” “Whether we think we’re a habit person or not, we are all habit people.” “We live as human beings in a fallen world. And so to need help or support… is not a reason to be ashamed.” “We don’t do it alone, we don’t walk alone. Our Heavenly Father is providing the resources that we will need. And when we don’t have the resources, and we are seemingly stuck. It’s not that he’s abandoned us. He will come in his time and he will bring those resources.” ## Episode Links - [LiveWholehearted.com](https://go.gospelforlife.com/livewholehearted?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*Rich Wounds: The Countless Treasures of the Life, Death, and Triumph of Jesus*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/8PZ3?ref=dashhouse.com) by David Mathis ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [The Body and the Christian Life with Charlene Dash220620 Transcript.pdf164 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/220620-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### Gospel-Centered Discipleship with Jonathan Dodson URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/gospel-centered-discipleship-with-jonathan-dodson/ Last updated: 2024-09-04T14:52:20.000Z I love pastors who’ve thought a lot about discipleship, and who are able to share their knowledge with others. Jonathan Dodson is such a pastor. He’s the author of [*Gospel-Centered Discipleship*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/85aR?ref=dashhouse.com), which is now in its second edition. He’s also a local church pastor, the founder of [City Life Church](https://go.gospelforlife.com/85aT?ref=dashhouse.com) in Austin, Texas, where he lives with his wife and three children. Dodson is the founder of [GCDiscipleship.com](https://go.gospelforlife.com/P91t?ref=gospelforlife.com) and the author of a number of books including [*The Unbelievable Gospel*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/85aM?ref=dashhouse.com); [*Here in Spirit*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/85aO?ref=dashhouse.com); [*Our Good Crisis*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/85aQ?ref=dashhouse.com); and [*Gospel-Centered Discipleship*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/85aR?ref=dashhouse.com). ![](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/images/2024/09/1840.jpg) I enjoyed talking to Dodson about the re-release of his book *Gospel-Centered Discipleship*. I hope you enjoy this old episode. You can listen below, or find the [Gospel for Life podcast](https://go.dashhouse.com/podcast?ref=gospelforlife.com) on your favorite podcast app. ## Key Ideas - We often veer to the pitfalls of legalism or license rather than the center of spiritual formation, the gospel of grace. - Centering on the gospel is more than a fad. The eternal gospel is always relevant. - We don’t just start the Christian life with the gospel. We continue in it too. - Gospel metaphors help us understand different facets of the gospel. We often focus on atonement and justification. Other metaphors, such as new creation and *Christus Victor*, can help us too. - Every time we open the Bible, we find new discoveries. - The Christian life involves gospel, community, and mission. We’re all probably need to develop in at least one of these areas at all times. - In Jesus we find complexity and depth. Discipleship is really about discovering more of Jesus. - We need more of Christ than we need more attenders and listeners. - Discipleship is often friendship-based. There has to be some level of trust between the mentor and mentee. - You can’t just implement a discipleship program because of its relational nature. - Encourage spiritual friendships in the church. Create environments for friendship. ## Quotes “The eternal gospel of Jesus Christ is always relevant because it can speak to every person in every place, in every situation because it’s outside of time. And the wonderful thing about it is that it’s always good news.” “We’re converted three times: to Christ, the Church, and his mission.” “The joy of discipleship is peeling back those layers and discovering the unsearchable riches of Christ.” “When it comes to discipleship, a lot of that is relational. And if you want to trust, you’ve got to have a relational framework.” “The wise man is not one who reads many books but who prays.” (Kierkegaard) ## Episode Links - [GCDiscipleship.com](https://go.gospelforlife.com/85aU?ref=dashhouse.com) - [JonathanDodson.org](https://go.gospelforlife.com/85b3?ref=dashhouse.com) - [Jonathan Dodson on Twitter](https://go.gospelforlife.com/85b5?ref=dashhouse.com) - [Jonathan Dodson on Instagram](https://go.gospelforlife.com/85b7?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*Gospel-Centered Discipleship*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/85aR?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*Purity of Heart Is to Will One Thing*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/85aZ?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*The Unwavering Pastor*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/85ae?ref=dashhouse.com) ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [Gospel-Centered Discipleship with Jonathan Dodson220516-Transcript.pdf90 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/220516-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### Discipleship in the Local Church with Jamie Strickland URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/discipleship-in-the-local-church-with-jamie-strickland/ Last updated: 2024-09-04T15:08:43.000Z I love talking to people who’ve thought deeply about discipleship. One such person is Jamie Strickland. Jamie serves as pastor of discipleship ministries at [West Highland Baptist Church](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7z6g?ref=dashhouse.com) in Hamilton, Ontario. ![Jamie Strickland](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/images/2024/09/jamie-strickland.jpg) He’s served with Power to Change in Canada, Peru, Denmark and the United Kingdom. In 2015, after serving with Power to Change for 13 years, he transitioned to pastoral ministry, and in 2019 joined the staff at West Highland. I’m excited to talk to Jamie about his experience in leading discipleship in the context of a local church. You can listen to this episode below. ## Key Ideas - Campus ministries can serve as a spiritual greenhouse for people. - We learn to disciple by being discipled. - It’s never too late to be discipled. - We can also learn how to disciple by looking at the ministries of Jesus and the early apostles. - Pastors can invite people to join them in the activities of ministry. Start with one person. - Discipleship doesn’t start with a big program. It starts with making space to meet with someone. - Blend intentionality and relationship as you disciple others. - Help people progress in the various areas of what it means to be a disciple. - Disciple people with the goal of seeing them disciple others. - Look for people who are faithful, available, and teachable. - Even Jesus faced disappointment as he discipled others. ## Quotes “Discipleship is definitely something that you learn by experiencing someone discipling you.” “Sometimes we think we need to start a huge, massive program or something, but really it’s the simplicity of just putting some space in your calendar to meet with someone.” “I don’t think there’s a one size fits all with making disciples.” “A disciple is someone who’s following Jesus, being changed by Jesus and committed to the mission of Jesus.” “Even Jesus faced disappointment in guys that He was investing His time in.” “I can’t meet with everyone, but I can meet with a few who will meet with a few. Who will then hopefully build this disciple-making culture in our church where disciples are being made, raised up, and begin multiplying.” ## Episode Links - [Jamie Strickland on Twitter](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7z6o?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*Desiring God: Meditations of a Christian Hedonist*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7z6p?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*Eight Habits for Growth: A Simple Plan to Becoming More Like Christ*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/5MkD?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*The Master Plan of Evangelism*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7z6r?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*Walk with Me: Simple Principles for Everyday Disciplemaking*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/54eG?ref=dashhouse.com) ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [Discipleship in the Local Church with Jamie Strickland220502-Transcript.pdf81 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/220502-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### Heart and Habits with Dr. Greg Gifford URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/heart-and-habits-with-dr-greg-gifford/ Last updated: 2024-09-04T15:23:16.000Z Many people talk about the importance of habits in the Christian life. But is this topic just a fad? Or do habits help us grow to be more like Christ? In his book [*Heart & Habits*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7sAU?ref=dashhouse.com), Dr. Greg Gifford helps us understand habits from a biblical, historic, and theological perspective. He also helps us learn how to develop habits God’s way. ![Greg Gifford](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/images/2024/09/greg-gifford.jpg) It was my privilege to talk to Dr. Gifford in the latest episode of the Gospel for Life podcast. ## Key Ideas - Habits have become a popular topic due to the success of books like *Atomic Habits*. - The Puritans spoke of habits in terms of character that is formed through frequent practices. - Habits are implicit in Scripture’s present tense, ongoing commands. - Habits are frequent practices that become instinctual. - Aristotle taught us about habits, but he did teach us about the role of the Holy Spirit in granting us a new heart, which leads to new actions. He didn’t think through a biblical lens. The Puritans reinterpreted Aristotle’s findings through the lens of Scripture. - The purpose of habits is the glory of God, the good of people, and only then to be more efficient and productive. - Habits are not a self-centered effort about accomplishing goals and advancing yourself. They are part of your worship of God. - The purpose of our habits helps to shape which habits we develop. Some habits matter more than others. - Many contemporary books on habits don’t focus on our relationship with God. - Start by prioritizing habits that help you grow. Read the Bible, join a local church, give, serve, repent, and meditate on Scripture. - Everyone has habits, including those who don’t think they have habits. - It can be helpful to understand our natural tendencies and giftedness as we develop habits. - The regular ministries of the church — Bible studies, prayer meetings, weekly services, etc. — help to cultivate habits. ## Quotes “Frequent obedience is something that God uses to help transform the desires or the heart.” “What you regularly practice will shape or misshape the type of person that you become, which is your character.” “The number one purpose for habits is not efficiency and productivity … It’s glorifying God and the good of people.” “The Church is very much central to habit formation because it’s central to spiritual formation.” “I found that the people that would invest themselves into the process of developing Godly habits were those that often grew the fastest.” ## Episode Links - [HeartandHabits.com](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7sAx?ref=dashhouse.com) - [Reagan Rose interview: Heart & Habits with Dr. Greg Gifford – S2:E5 – Redeeming Productivity](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7sAV?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*Heart and Habits: How We Change for Good*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7sAU?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3O6n?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*The Four Tendencies*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7sAp?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*Deep Discipleship*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/42bm?ref=dashhouse.com) ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [Heart and Habits with Dr. Greg Gifford220418-Transcript.pdf88 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/220418-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### Childlike Prayer with Jed Coppenger URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/childlike-prayer-with-jed-coppenger/ Last updated: 2024-09-04T18:54:27.000Z God doesn’t need great prayers to do great things. Speaking to him with simple, unwavering faith opens up a new world of possibilities, where you are always blessed and where your challenges become chances to strengthen your connection with Jesus. In [*21 Days to Childlike Prayer*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7koI?ref=dashhouse.com) by Jed Coppenger, you’ll witness how God responds in power and love to your specific prayers. Jed Coppenger is the lead pastor of Redemption City Church in Franklin, TN. He earned his PhD in systematic theology from Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary and lives in Franklin with his wife, Melanie, and their three children. I enjoyed talking to Jed in this episode of the Gospel for Life podcast. ## Key Ideas - We struggle to pray because we have a low view of God and a high view of ourselves. - One of the ways to overcome a high view of ourselves is to embrace childlike prayer. - Desperation is more important than discipline in prayer. - We often learn prayer in the crucible of suffering. - Pray using four prayer prompts. Believe God can do anything, embrace a childlike identity, talk to God about whatever is on your mind, and trust God to do what’s best with your request. - Integrate prayer into every part of your life, because God is present in every part of your life. - There are no easy ministries, but some ministries, like church planting, are even more challenging and call for greater prayer. - Building a culture of prayer begins with the pastor. - Integrate prayer into the rhythms of staff and church life. - It’s important to learn how to pray on the go. - Keep track of answered prayer. It will provide encouragement in your life. ## Quotes “I just never was able to integrate prayer into my prayer life until I went through a really tough time, and it finally clicked.” “If we really believed He would help us, we would ask Him when it comes to our problems and our plans.” “It’s in the dark times, it’s in the tough times when God meets us in an unusual way.” “Your prayer life won’t grow like it could grow unless you get specific with your request.” “It’s not great prayers that lead to great things happening, it’s just a great God that we bring our imperfect prayers to.” “God really can do more in a moment than we can do in a lifetime.” “If I could hear Christ praying for me in the next room, I would not fear a million enemies. Yet distance makes no difference. He is praying for me.” (Robert Murray M’Cheyne) “A big part of the growth that God wants to give us isn’t in the easy places in our life, but it’s in the painful parts of our life.” ## Episode Links - [JedCoppenger.com](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7koL?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*21 Days to Childlike Prayer: Changing Your World One Specific Prayer at a Time*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7koI?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*A Praying Life: Connecting with God in a Distracting World*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3Yy6?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*Spiritual Disciplines for the Christian Life*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7kr1?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*Leadership Pain: The Classroom for Growth*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7kr2?ref=dashhouse.com) ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [Childlike Prayer with Jed Coppenger220404-Transcript.pdf90 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/220404-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### Prayers of REST with Asheritah URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/prayers-of-rest-with-asheritah/ Last updated: 2024-09-04T15:48:25.000Z Do you feel too busy to pray? You’re not alone. We all know that we should be praying more, and we genuinely try to make it happen. Everyone I know, including mature believers, often say they feel like they could improve their prayer life. Today I’m really excited to talk to Asheritah Ciuciu, and she’s written a new book called Prayers of REST. It’s a series of prompts to help you hear God’s voice. She provides guided prayers that focus your mind and heart on Scripture. ## Key Ideas - Our standing with God isn’t based on how well we’re doing in our prayer lives. It’s based on the sacrifice of Jesus. - We sometimes work hard for God but forget to spend time with God. - Jesus invites us not to a self-help program, to productivity, or to a streak of habits. He invites us to himself. - God knows our needs. - God invites us to spend our lives with him, not just to pray to him occasionally. - Prayers of REST invite us to Recite God’s goodness, Express our neediness, Seek his stillness, and Trust his faithfulness. - We can learn to pray using the REST acronym, and we can also help others to learn how to pray in the same way. ## Quotes “Prayer is the vehicle that allows us to come into God’s presence, and it’s all about that person and that relationship.” “It is just our good God to take one of our lowest moments of weakness of saying, ‘I can’t do this,’ and make something beautiful out of it.” “God loves you, and he loves you not for what you’re doing and what you’re accomplishing and how much you’re getting done. He loves you not because of your hustle or your accomplishments or your productivity or your attendance or membership numbers. God loves you because He created you and wants to be in a relationship with you.” “He loves you for who He made you to be, not for what you can accomplish.” “We can never exhaust learning because of our good God.” ## Episode Links - [prayersofrest.com](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7Xo6?ref=dashhouse.com) - [asheritah.com](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7XoF?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*Prayers of REST: Daily Prompts to Slow Down and Hear God’s Voice*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7XoD?ref=dashhouse.com) ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [Prayers of REST with Asheritah220321-Transcript.pdf83 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/220321-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### Gospel Smugness with Blake Long URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/gospel-smugness-with-blake-long/ Last updated: 2024-09-04T15:56:57.000Z Is there a way to share an offensive message to an offended culture while not being gratuitously offensive? Blake Long wants to help us learn how to engage with boldness and gentleness, bluntness and compassion. Blake Long is an author and blogger at [theology-and-life.com](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7Uk1?ref=dashhouse.com). He is married to his wife, Shale, and they have two little girls and a rowdy dog. He received his MTS in Preaching and Pastoral Ministry from Midwestern Baptist Theological Seminary. I enjoyed talking to Blake in this episode of the Gospel for Life podcast. ## Key Ideas - It’s easy to fall into pride in our evangelism. - Following the example of Jesus helps us avoid pride in our evangelism. - We need to learn when to be direct and blunt, and when to be soft-spoken and gentle. - Even when we are kind and gentle, the gospel may still offend. - We need to express genuine love for people in our evangelism. - Behaving in an unChristian manner on social media harms our witness. - God’s love for us is not based on our performance or how we’re feeling. ## Quotes “Evangelism is not a one size fits all encounter.” On social media: “I think it comes down to understanding that we’re still talking to souls. We’re not talking to a screen.” “The people I follow on social media are the people I find encouraging, edifying, and sometimes they challenge me.” ## Episode Links - [Theology and Life](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7Uk1?ref=dashhouse.com) - [Blake Long on Twitter](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7UlH?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*Gospel Smugness: Displaying Christlike Character in Evangelism*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7UkC?ref=dashhouse.com) by Blake Long - [*Humility*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7UkM?ref=dashhouse.com) by Andrew Murray - [*Deeper: Real Change for Real Sinners*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7Ukt?ref=dashhouse.com) by Dane Ortlund - [*Gentle and Lowly: The Heart of Christ for Sinners and Sufferers*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7Uk-?ref=dashhouse.com) by Dane Ortlund ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [Gospel Smugness with Blake Long220307 Transcript.pdf185 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/220307-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### Terms of Service with Chris Martin URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/terms-of-service-with-chris-martin/ Last updated: 2024-09-04T18:51:37.000Z Social media is a gift, but it comes with a dark side. How can we use it wisely? In his new book [*Terms of Service*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7PYc?ref=dashhouse.com), Chris Martin helps us think through the blessings and challenges of living in a social media world. Chris Martin is a content marketing editor at Moody Publishers and a social media, marketing, and communications consultant. He writes regularly in his newsletter, [Terms of Service](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7PYd?ref=dashhouse.com). Chris lives outside Nashville, Tennessee with his wife, Susie, their daughter, Magnolia, and their dog, Rizzo. I was happy to talk to Chris in the latest episode of the Gospel for Life Podcast. ## Key Ideas - We live in a social media world. It is impossible to avoid in today’s culture. - The solution is not necessarily to delete our social media accounts, because that would not solve the challenge. Instead, we must learn how to survive the challenges of social media. - The social internet goes beyond social media companies. It’s ubiquitous. - Many of us aren’t thinking about issues of privacy as we trade our personal information for the privilege of expressing ourselves. - The social internet promises us the love and affirmation we all desire. - Web 3.0 may help move us from a few centralized companies, but will not overcome the issues around human depravity. - To use the social internet wisely, slow down before adopting new technologies. ## Quotes “My primary charge is never delete your accounts.” “There’s no way for us to live outside of social media at this point. It’s really difficult, if not impossible, to live outside of the influence of social media, and it’s increasingly that way.” “We provide so many of these platforms with countless gigabytes of our data, and our data is what makes them billions of dollars. And I think a lot of us don’t understand the gravity of the trade that we have made of our personal information for the ability to express ourselves.” “Attention is the currency of the social internet.” “I just have too robust the theology of original sin and human depravity to think that giving everybody a little bit of power is necessarily going to be better than giving a couple of large companies most of the power.” “Individually, I think we just need to slow down in our quick adoption of these platforms.” ## Episode Links - [Terms of Service newsletter](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7PYj?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*Terms of Service: The Real Cost of Social Media*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7PYc?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*Amusing Ourselves to Death: Public Discourse in the Age of Show Business*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7PYj?ref=dashhouse.com) ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [Terms of Service with Chris Martin220221-Transcript.pdf96 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/220221-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### The 6 Seasons of Calling URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/the-6-seasons-of-calling/ Last updated: 2024-09-04T18:57:52.000Z What if you don’t have a calling from God, but *callings*? In [*The 6 Seasons of Calling*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7JW2?ref=dashhouse.com), Brian Sanders argues that God has ordained six basic seasons of life: 1. Childhood – the season of bonding 2. Adolescence – the season of learning 3. Early Career – the season of serving 4. Mid-Career – the season of creating 5. Late Career – the season of giving 6. Transition – the season of leaving Sanders explains how to live faithfully in your current season with God. ## Key Ideas - Discipleship is not just a system or an algorithm. - Because we are all called to be on mission, we need to help learn our calling as individual believers. - We face six turning points or seasons in our lives. In each season, we keep some of the old but progress tins something new. - Each season of life comes with a unique set of threats and opportunities. - As we get older, more is expected from us. - Each season provides opportunities for a new start. - The last season of your life can be the most fruitful season of your life. - We need to bring leadership back into the realm of aesthetics: helping people feel loved, and leading people to the beauty and attractiveness of Jesus. - Pastors can help shepherd people through each season of calling. ## Quotes “Whatever your discipleship pathway, journey, system, pattern or whatever that you create or imagine, there needs to be like a hole in it, something that you think, well, only God can do that.” “In your sense of uncertainty, you turn to the only one you know can give you certainty.” “Whether it was good or bad, the last season of your life … you get to start over. You’re meant to start over.” ## Episode Links - [Andrew Oswald’s happiness curve](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7JW5?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*The Six Seasons of Calling*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7JW2?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*What Got You Here Won’t Get You There*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/7JW3?ref=dashhouse.com) ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [The 6 Seasons of Calling220207.pdf90 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/220207.pdf "Download") ### The Best of Season Two of the G4L Podcast URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/the-best-of-season-two-of-the-g4l-podcast/ Last updated: 2024-09-05T16:22:01.000Z I’m passionate about the habits in my last book, [*8 Habits for Growth*](https://www.dashhouse.com/8habits/?ref=gospelforlife.com). That’s why I spent so much time writing the book and talking about its themes. But I have so much to learn about each of the habits. I wanted to turn to others and learn from them about each habit too. That’s exactly what I did in season two of the Gospel for Life podcast. I spoke to: - Reagan Rose, founder of [Redeeming Productivity](https://go.gospelforlife.com/5hY7?ref=dashhouse.com), about [making time](https://www.dashhouse.com/making-time-with-reagan-rose/?ref=gospelforlife.com) - Ashley Hales, author of [*A Spacious Life*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/5qhU?ref=dashhouse.com), about [resting and refreshing](https://www.dashhouse.com/rest-and-refresh-with-ashley-hales/?ref=gospelforlife.com) - Michael Bird, author of [*Seven Things I Wish Christians Knew about the Bible*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/5zPq?ref=dashhouse.com), about [engaging the Bible](https://www.dashhouse.com/engaging-the-bible-with-dr-michael-bird/?ref=gospelforlife.com) - Kevin Halloran, author of [*When Prayer is a Struggle*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/66VI?ref=dashhouse.com), about [speaking with God](https://www.dashhouse.com/when-prayer-is-a-struggle-with-kevin-halloran/?ref=gospelforlife.com) - Collin Hansen, co-author of [*Rediscover Church*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/6GIQ?ref=dashhouse.com), about [worshiping and belonging](https://www.dashhouse.com/rediscovering-church-with-collin-hansen/?ref=gospelforlife.com) - Sam Allberry, author of [*What God Has to Say About our Bodies*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/6OQq?ref=dashhouse.com), about [caring for our bodies](https://www.dashhouse.com/what-god-has-to-say-about-our-bodies-with-sam-allberry/?ref=gospelforlife.com) - Nathan Oates, author of [*Stability*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/6WW7?ref=dashhouse.com), about [simplifying](https://www.dashhouse.com/stability-with-nathan-oates/?ref=gospelforlife.com) - Rusty McKie, founder of [Steadfast Ministries](https://go.gospelforlife.com/6jRG?ref=dashhouse.com), about [going the distance by building a Rule of Life](https://www.dashhouse.com/going-the-distance-with-rusty-mckie/?ref=gospelforlife.com) I learned so much by talking to each one of these guests. And now I’ve put together an e-book summary of my interviews with them. You can [download it here](https://www.dashhouse.com/content/files/2022/08/8-habits-for-growth-season2.pdf?ref=gospelforlife.com). Read it, follow the links for more information, and share it with others who may be interested. I hope that Gospel for Life's ministry helps people develop good habits, and that you find this summary useful for your own spiritual journey and for helping others. Download your e-book summary of season two below. [The Best of Season Two of the G4L Podcast8-habits-for-growth-season2.pdf2 MBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/8-habits-for-growth-season2.pdf "Download") ### Going the Distance with Rusty McKie URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/going-the-distance-with-rusty-mckie/ Last updated: 2024-09-05T16:28:54.000Z If we’re going to go the distance, we need practices that will sustain us and help us grow. Many people call this a Rule of Life. But many of us don’t know what a Rule of Life is, or where to begin. Rusty McKie, founder of [Steadfast Ministries](https://go.gospelforlife.com/6jRG?ref=dashhouse.com), wants to help. In this episode, I talk to Rusty about what a Rule of Life is, and how to get started. You can listen to the episode below. ## Key Ideas - A Rule of Life helps us put on paper some of the practices that help us become the person we want to be. - A Rule of Life helps us say yes and no to things in life that help us and hinder us. - Monks developed the idea of a Rule of Life as a way to follow Jesus together in community. - A Rule of Life helps us understand how to follow Jesus by considering our personalities and the culture around us. - Your Rule is a living document that will change over time. - The best place to begin in writing a Rule is with spiritual practices. - Write various practices under categories, such as communion with God, rest, community with others, and work. - A Rule of Life is primarily about relationships. It points us towards joy and life. - Writing a Rule of Life is a good first step. ## Quotes “A Rule of Life helps me decide what are the things in life that I’m going to say yes to so that I can abide more deeply in my relationship with Jesus. And then what are the things in my life that I need to say no to, so that I can abide more deeply in my relationship with Jesus.” “I would not necessarily recommend you look at someone else’s Rule of Life to build out your own. That’s not necessarily a good place to start, in my opinion.” “A Rule of Life primarily for me is about relationship. It’s about my relationship with Jesus, it’s about my relationship with others, and my relationship with Jesus is life-giving.” “It’s all about relationship. It’s not just about our progress or our achievements, it’s about what are the obstacles to union and communion with Christ. And how can we take those obstacles out of the way experientially?” “For the overachievers, the active folks in the room, with your Rule of Life, you probably need to pull the dial back.” ## Episode Links - [Steadfast Ministries](https://go.gospelforlife.com/6jRG?ref=dashhouse.com) - [Who Do You Want to Be?](https://go.dashhouse.com/6jRK?ref=dashhouse.com) - [Wrestle with Chaos – Rule of Life](https://go.gospelforlife.com/6jRH?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*Spiritual Disciplines Handbook*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/6jRa?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*The Emotionally Healthy Leader*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/6jRP?ref=dashhouse.com) ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [Going the Distance with Rusty McKie211220-Transcript.pdf87 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/211220-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### Stability with Nathan Oates URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/stability-with-nathan-oates/ Last updated: 2024-09-05T16:35:04.000Z We’re always on the move, and it’s costing us. We talk a lot about going and doing, about the need for meaningful action, service, and pilgrimage. We need to learn about the benefits of resisting the temptation to remain uprooted. In his book [*Stability: How an Ancient Monastic Practice Can Restore Our Relationships, Churches, and Communities*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/6WW7?ref=dashhouse.com), Nathan Oates draws from some of the best writings on Benedictine spirituality and from his personal experiences raising a family, pastoring a church, and spending time living with monks, Nathan Oates offers a compelling invitation to find inner peace and stillness right where we are. You can listen to the episode below. ## Key Ideas - Our struggle with consumerism and restlessness isn’t new. We read about similar struggles in Benedict’s day 1500 years ago. - A gyrovague is a wandering monk, and an example of what it means to live without stability. - We can learn from the Benedictine Vow of Stability, but we can’t directly import it into our context. - We can make the commitment, “I’m going to be committed to this place to these people and to this shared purpose.” We can refuse to treat community as a commodity. This commitment will transform how we live. - We short-circuit our growth when we’re continually moving. - Stability looks like a lack of activity, but it requires intentionality and focus. - There’s no shortcut to the kind of life that stability can produce. - Staying involved in people's lives for a long time allows us to have a big impact on them. ## Quotes “We don’t develop when we’re constantly moving. A tree can’t produce fruit if you transplant it three or four times. It somehow loses the ability to produce fruit.” “The place teaches me what is real … My home is what’s going to reveal the truth most clearly about who I am and what I value. The place is such a powerful instructor.” “We admire the 40-year marriage, we admire the long-tenured and successful business career… but we seem to repudiate the practice itself of stability.” “There’s no shortcut to 25 years of marriage.” “Celebrate the root that leads to the fruit.” ## Episode Links - [NathanOates.com](https://go.gospelforlife.com/6WWJ?ref=dashhouse.com) - [Emmaus Community](https://go.gospelforlife.com/6WWK?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*Stability: How an Ancient Monastic Practice Can Restore Our Relationships, Churches, and Communities*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/6WW7?ref=dashhouse.com) by Nathan Oates - [*The Rule of Saint Benedict*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/6WWN?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*The Imperfect Pastor*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/6WWO?ref=dashhouse.com) by Zack Eswine ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [Stability with Nathan Oates211206-Transcript.pdf90 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/211206-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### What God Has to Say About Our Bodies with Sam Allberry URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/what-god-has-to-say-about-our-bodies-with-sam-allberry/ Last updated: 2024-09-05T16:40:00.000Z “We’re not our bodies. They’re just containers. What really matters is what’s inside.” I hear words like that all the time. What’s surprising is that I also hear them from Christians. We might be finding it hard to understand the significance of the body according to the Bible, both now and in eternity. That’s why I’m glad to interview Sam Allberry about his new book [*What God Has to Say About Our Bodies*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/6OQq?ref=dashhouse.com). You can listen to the podcast below. ## Key Ideas - Our culture has shifted to emphasize who we feel ourselves to be deep down inside. We tend to see our bodies as incidental. - Our culture tends to view the body as a blank canvas upon which we can express our identities. - Our standards of beauty have become increasingly unrealistic. - Christians often misunderstand the afterlife, seeing it as a non-physical existence. - A biblical view of eternity takes the pressure off having to squeeze everything into life before we die. - When we struggle with our bodies and how others treat us, we can find comfort in knowing that we are not alone, and that the Bible talks about these issues. - We can listen well to the struggles of others without feeling superior or condemning. - Our biological sex is a gift from God. - The Bible gives us a broader range of what it means to be male or female than society often does. - Much of discipleship in the New Testament is expressed in bodily terms. ## Quotes “We’re being presented with a vision of male beauty and attractiveness that is increasingly unattainable even for the people whose images we’re seeing.” “We all feel uglier now than we used to.” “The glory to come is going to make what we go through now feel so trivial by comparison.” “I can actually give myself to the service of others if I really do believe in what the Bible says about my resurrection.” “Having a sense of our own shared fallenness can help. It stops us from being aloof, it stops us from being superior or condemning or judgmental.” “I can receive my biological sex as a gift from God. And sometimes for some people, that will be a very long process to get to the point where they can do that.” “The Bible gives us a far more liberating way of thinking about what it is like to be a man or to be a woman, and then our culture often does.” “Every Christian I meet needs some encouragement today, and goodness knows I do.” ## Episode Links - [Sam Allberry on Twitter](https://go.gospelforlife.com/6OQv?ref=dashhouse.com) - [SamAllberry.com](https://go.gospelforlife.com/6OQw?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*What God Has to Say About Our Bodies*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/6OQq?ref=dashhouse.com) by Sam Allberry ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [What God Has to Say About Our Bodies with Sam Allberry211122-Transcript.pdf82 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/211122-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### Rediscovering Church with Collin Hansen URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/rediscovering-church-with-collin-hansen/ Last updated: 2024-09-05T16:44:47.000Z A lot of people claim to love Jesus, but can’t be bothered with the church. The frequency of church attendance is down. Since the pandemic, some have left the church and don’t plan to return to in-person anytime soon. It’s time to recommit to gathering together as brothers and sisters in Christ. In this episode, Collin Hansen discusses why it’s important that we rediscover church. ## Key Ideas - In the past, pastors had more information. Today, that advantage is gone. - We should consider the church as our main spiritual community where we can encounter different perspectives and people with different opinions and biases. - The church is not primarily a dispenser of information and experiences. - In-person churches can’t match the quality of music and preaching available online, but in-person churches offer something you can’t find anywhere else. - Upheavals are not new, but the recent pandemic is unique in terms of disrupting the gathering of the church and providing an online option that some argue can replace it. - Teach your people what the church is. Aim to build a church that can withstand a pandemic. - Just show up at church, and ask how you can help, and you will get so much benefit as a believer. - Good pastors know where they’ve failed and where they’re vulnerable. - The pandemic won’t last forever. Hold on. - Periods of tumult are often accompanied by an unusual work of God. - Every new technology brings unintended consequences. - Bad news is easy to find. To spot good news, step away from the screen and look for God’s work in your neighborhood, church, and family. ## Quotes “The physical gathering is the actual thing that keeps you in line with God’s plan and keeps you distinct from everything else.” “We can complain a lot about younger generations, and then you stop and say, but who taught the younger generations? Who taught people that they should come to church as a consumer? Well, churches, churches taught them that.” “I don’t trust any church leaders who haven’t failed. That doesn’t mean Gary the church leader has to go through an abuse scandal, no, it’s just that leadership is a crucible of exposing you. And you are lucky if God exposes your need to repent early before you can do a lot of damage.” “The opportunity I see for the church right now is certainly to repent and to come back to him.” “I would probably give my standard Monday morning advice, which is don’t make any decisions about your future on a Monday morning if you’re a pastor. Probably things are not as bad as they appear and things are always changing. So you just don’t know what’s around the corner. So if possible, if you can hang on.” “If history is any indication it could be a movement of God, unlike anything we’ve seen in a long time.” ## Episode Links - [The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill podcast](https://go.gospelforlife.com/6GIR?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*Rediscover Church: Why the Body of Christ Is Essential*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/6GIQ?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*Gospelbound: Living with Resolute Hope in an Anxious Age*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/6GIP?ref=dashhouse.com) ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [Rediscovering Church with Collin Hansen211108-Transcript.pdf90 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/211108-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### When Prayer is a Struggle with Kevin Halloran URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/when-prayer-is-a-struggle-with-kevin-halloran/ Last updated: 2024-09-05T16:49:40.000Z This season, we’re working through each of the habits in [*8 Habits for Growth*](https://www.dashhouse.com/8habits/?ref=gospelforlife.com). Now we are discussing the fourth habit: praying, or speaking with God. I don’t know anyone who doesn’t struggle to pray. Kevin Halloran has written a helpful book called [*When Prayer is a Struggle: A Practical Guide for Overcoming Obstacles in Prayer*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/66VI?ref=dashhouse.com). Kevin helps us pinpoint areas of weakness in your prayer life and take immediate steps to overcome them. You can listen to the episode below: ## Key Ideas - Let God’s sovereignty drive you to prayer rather than give you an excuse not to pray. - Remembering simple gospel truths can motivate us to pray. - We sometimes focus on the duty of prayer so much that we lose sight of the privilege we have to be able to pray. - Praying Scripture can help guide us and give our minds a path to follow. - We need good systems to pray intentionally for others. - Instead of focusing on prayer itself, focus instead on prayer as the means for knowing God and for shaping our lives and our hearts according to his will. - We sometimes struggle in prayer because we forget to think of God as our Father. You can run to your Father with anything. - Find and remove distractions that keep you from prayer. - When you get distracted, just pick up where you left off and keep praying. - Plan a regular rhythm of prayer. - Use the habit stacking technique to add prayer to something you are already doing. - When feeling anxious, bring your anxiety to God, and focus on him instead of your anxieties. ## Quotes “He can control the whole universe and he understands what you’re asking, what you need, and so that’s very inviting in terms of prayer.” “Remembering simple gospel truth for me is what motivates me the most to pray and helps me overcome the obstacles that I have.” “Without a growing faith and a growing love for God, trying to grow in prayer is not going to be useful.” “We need to put our eyes on God and warm our hearts with what he’s done for us in Christ.” “Knowing God, knowing Christ and prayer is a major way that we know God, communicate with him, and live in that relationship.” “The more we do hide from God, the worse everything is in the end.” “I can run to my Father with anything.” “The Lord just deepens my appreciation for the simple things I learned in Sunday school and those are often the things that transform my life the most.” ## Episode Links - [PrayerMate app](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3YyV?ref=dashhouse.com) - [KevinHalloran.net](https://go.gospelforlife.com/66VG?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*When Prayer is a Struggle: A Practical Guide for Overcoming Obstacles in Prayer*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/66VI?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3O6n?ref=dashhouse.com) ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [When Prayer is a Struggle with Kevin Halloran211025-Transcript.pdf87 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/211025-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### Engaging the Bible with Dr. Michael Bird URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/engaging-the-bible-with-dr-michael-bird/ Last updated: 2024-09-05T16:54:25.000Z Most of us believe that we should read the Bible, but statistics show that Christians are having a hard time doing so. We have questions about how to begin and how the Bible was assembled, how to interpret it, and more. Dr. Michael Bird wants to help. In his latest book, [*Seven Things I Wish Christians Knew about the Bible*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/5zPq?ref=dashhouse.com), Dr. Bird helps us understand what the Bible is, how it came to be, and how we can learn to appreciate it on its own terms. You can listen to the episode below: ## Key Ideas - Preventive pastoral care can help us deal with questions about the Bible. - The Bible is not a collection of memorable quotes. It’s a literary document written over centuries that must be understood on its own terms. - We can misuse Scripture by seeing it only as devotional wisdom or timeless dogma, without being aware of our own biases as we read it. We must learn to read it on its own terms. - Wrestling with Scripture is not a sign of disloyalty. It’s a sign that we’re taking it seriously. - The Bible is a book of hope that communicates God’s love for the world. - We can learn how to understand Scripture by looking at how the apostles understood it, finding the connection to Jesus. - No matter how long we read Scripture, we will continue to discover new things. - Read Scripture widely, but really get to know a particular section of Scripture. - To read the Bible, start with a simple plan and a good study Bible. - Pastors must learn the issues that people are facing, and show what it looks like to read Scripture in light of those issues. ## Quotes “If people know roughly these seven things, they’re more likely to have greater confidence in the Bible and to be less flustered when they come across something that sounds a little bit weird or they’re not too sure how to explain it.” “Maybe, just maybe the post World War II consumerist, hyper-individualistic religious culture that you live in is not normal or hasn’t been around everywhere in the world. And in fact, you’re the person who’s got the odd view because you’re somewhat new on the scene.” “Having a little bit of occasional skepticism is actually the sign of an inquiring faith, a faith that wants to grow and engage and wrestle with God. It’s not a sign of weakness and it’s certainly not an attack.” “The Bible, irrespective of what people may think about it, pro and con, has had the biggest effect on Western civilization and it’s the basis, to be perfectly frank, for pretty much everything good in Western civilization.” “I tell students when they hand you that Master of Divinity, I hope you do not believe them because the rest of your life should be spent not mastering the Bible, but hopefully struggling to be mastered by it.” “I think it’s good for anyone to have one part of Scripture that’s something of a hobby horse. And over a life through your reading, preaching, teaching, studying, you can develop a certain extra expertise in that particular area.” ## Episode Links - [Dr. Bird’s Substack](https://go.gospelforlife.com/5zPp?ref=dashhouse.com) - [Mike Bird on Twitter](https://go.gospelforlife.com/5zPr?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Book mentioned: - [*Seven Things I Wish Christians Knew about the Bible*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/5zPq?ref=dashhouse.com) ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [Engaging the Bible with Dr. Michael Bird211011-Transcript.pdf87 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/211011-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### Rest and Refresh with Ashley Hales URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/rest-and-refresh-with-ashley-hales/ Last updated: 2024-09-05T17:00:00.000Z This season, I’m working through the habits from my new book [*8 Habits for Growth*](https://www.dashhouse.com/8habits/?ref=gospelforlife.com). And the second habit is one that’s easily overlooked: rest and refresh. We’re told that freedom and opportunity are our ticket to the good life. Get out there and follow your dreams! Be the hero of your own story! Find your happiness! Live your best life! It seems that limitless possibilities await anyone with vision and willingness to hustle their way through life. Rather than feeling accomplished, being limitless makes us do more and try harder, which leaves us feeling drained and unsatisfied with life and faith. There is a better way, a more spacious life. Contrary to our previous belief, having numerous options and constantly rushing is not the key to a fulfilling life. The life we crave is found within the confines of God’s loving limits. Ashley reminds us that by living within boundaries, we find a purposeful, joyful, and restful life. This is the spacious life — finding true freedom within the good limits given to us by our good God. That’s what Ashley Hales writes about in her new book [*A Spacious Life*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/5qhU?ref=dashhouse.com). It’s an invitation to a different way of living. You can listen to my interview with Hales below. ## Key Ideas - A lot of our busyness comes from the lie that what we do is who we are. - Culture sends us the message that we must hustle and perform to make our lives count. - We lose out on God’s gifts when we try to earn what we’ve already been given. - Limits are good. Part of sin is trying to go past our God-given limits. - Our limited are like dashboard warning lights. They are warnings that something is going on underneath, and invitations to knowing God. - In God’s kingdom, we can recover our smallness and creatureliness as a gift. - Technology is a gift, but it can tempt us to elevate ourselves to a godlike position. Embodiment in real community is an even greater gift. - Rest orients us to our work. - Rest is a way of reminding us that we are cared for and seen, and that we don’t have to prove ourselves. ## Quotes “A lot of our exhaustion isn’t simply about how full our calendars are, but this sort of sense that what we do is who we are.” “We really lose out on the gifts that God has for us and for our communities when we choose instead to try to earn for ourselves the things that we’ve already been given by God.” “Maybe my limit is like the light on my car that tells me that there’s something going on underneath … I think our limits ultimately are invitations to knowing God.” “it’s only in the Kingdom of God that we know that our smallness is a gift.” “Rest is a gift from a good God and Sabbath shows me that I am really incapable of providing all that I need.” “We didn’t need more arguments, we really needed an invitation.” ## Episode Links - [Finding Holy Podcast](https://go.gospelforlife.com/5qi9?ref=dashhouse.com) - [Karen Swallow Prior on the Viral Jesus podcast](https://go.gospelforlife.com/5qiZ?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*A Spacious Life: Trading Hustle and Hurry for the Goodness of Limits*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/5qhU?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*The Tech-Wise Family: Everyday Steps for Putting Technology in Its Proper Place*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/5qha?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*Subversive Sabbath: The Surprising Power of Rest in a Nonstop World*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3Ruj?ref=dashhouse.com) ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [Rest and Refresh with Ashley Hales210926-Transcript.pdf86 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/210926-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### Making Time with Reagan Rose URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/making-time-with-reagan-rose/ Last updated: 2024-09-21T18:11:05.000Z In season two of the Gospel for Life podcast, we’ll be talking about the eight habits from my book [*8 Habits for Growth*](https://www.dashhouse.com/8habits/?ref=gospelforlife.com). The first habit is Make Time. The idea is to make time regularly for what matters most, including developing and practicing Christian life habits. I spoke to Reagan Rose, the creator of [Redeeming Productivity](https://go.gospelforlife.com/PATQ?ref=gospelforlife.com), a website and podcast that assists Christians in being more productive for God's glory. He explores productivity from a Christian perspective by using Scriptures to develop a unique Christian belief system regarding work, family, efficiency, technology, and setting goals. You can listen to the episode below. ## Key Ideas - We’re overly connected and stimulated. We face many opportunities competing for our attention. - We are finite creatures who want to do more than our limits allow. - Our time is God’s, not ours. Our responsibility is to use it well. - Embracing our limits is a key step in using our time well. - One of the keys to productivity is learning to say no. - To use your time well, begin by understanding that you exist to glorify God. - We live in a world that’s been damaged by sin. Work and productivity will be hard in this broken world. - To build habits, start simple, and build from there. - We may struggle to build good habits, but we still need to learn discipline. It’s essential to the Christian life. - A morning routine and consistent sleep can help in building habits. - We have enough time to do what God has called us to do. ## Quotes “The most important productivity technique that we could all learn and be better at is the practice of saying no.” “Start simple, and build from there.” “You might not be as good as someone who is naturally more disciplined, but that doesn’t free you from the obligation to be obedient.” “It’s not when you miss one, it’s when you miss two, and then it becomes three and four and five.” “I have exactly the right amount of time to do what God has called me to do, and to me, that’s just so encouraging.” ## Episode Links - [Redeeming Productivity](https://go.gospelforlife.com/5hY7?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*8 Habits for Growth*](https://www.dashhouse.com/8habits/?ref=gospelforlife.com) - [*Four Thousand Weeks*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/5hY8?ref=dashhouse.com) ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [Making Time with Reagan Rose210913-Transcript.pdf85 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/210913-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### Introducing Season Two URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/introducing-season-two/ Last updated: 2024-09-07T19:03:20.000Z On Monday, September 13, we’re launching season two of the Gospel for Life podcast. We’re going to be looking at each of the habits in Darryl’s new book [*8 Habits for Growth*](https://www.dashhouse.com/8habits/?ref=gospelforlife.com): - Make Time - Rest and Refresh - Engage the Bible - Speak With God - Worship and Belong - Care for Your Body - Simplify and Prioritize - Go the Distance I’ll be interviewing guests like Reagan Rose, Ashley Hales, Michael Bird, Collin Hansen, and more. Please subscribe to the podcasts on our [podcast page](https://www.gospelforlife.com/podcast/), or use your favorite podcast app. Download the trailer transcript: [Season 2 TrailerSeason-2-Trailer.pdf53 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/Season-2-Trailer.pdf "Download") ### Twelve Principles for Making Disciples URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/twelve-principles-for-making-disciples/ Last updated: 2024-09-08T01:50:46.000Z In the first season of the Gospel for Life podcast, I read twelve books and spoke with twelve prominent figures in disciple-making. It was helpful and a lot of fun. Here are twelve of the key principles I learned, with links for you to follow to find out more. You can also download an e-book (PDF) with these lessons. Feel free to share the e-book with others. [Twelve Principles of Making DisciplesPrinciples-of-Making-Disciples.pdf340 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/Principles-of-Making-Disciples.pdf "Download") ## Making disciples is about living within a different story. We’re all formed by stories, either God’s story, or some other story we use to make sense of the world. Three primary stories shape us today: - the liberation narrative - the wellness narrative, and - the self-invention story As we make disciples, help people recognize false stories and help people live in God’s story. “I like to think of theology is the study of reality, what is ‘in Christ’ and that’s even more real than what the scientists study, because ‘in Christ’ is the beginning of a new creation.” (Kevin Vanhoozer, author of [*Hearers and Doers*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4IaQ?ref=dashhouse.com)) [More from Episode 7](https://www.gospelforlife.com/hearers-and-doers-with-dr-kevin-vanhoozer/) ## Discipleship is about transformation at the deepest levels of our lives. God intends for us to be transformed deeply, including the 90% of us that list beneath the surface. He also intends for us to live with breadth, learning from the different streams and traditions within the church. “The deeply formed life is about depth and breadth.” (Rick Villodas, author of [*The Deeply Formed Life*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4PYN?ref=dashhouse.com)) [More from Episode 8](https://www.gospelforlife.com/the-deeply-formed-life-with-rich-villodas/) ## We’ve overcomplicated making disciples. We tend to drift toward programs and curricula. While these can be useful, making disciples is an intentional relational process. It’s not just about teaching information. It’s about inviting people into our lives, and inviting them to walk with us as we walk with God. “God often works in some slow ways, and also we want to be about building depth in people’s lives and not just completing a program.” (Bill Mowry, author of [*Walk With Me*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/54eG?ref=dashhouse.com)) [More from Episode 12](https://www.gospelforlife.com/walk-with-me-by-bill-mowry/) ## The Bible is central to our walk with God. We’re always going to face resistance to reading the Bible. The enemy of our souls, our own fallen natures, a hostile world, and distraction all conspire against us. Despite the obstacles, you can learn to know your Bible and love it. Don’t just get through the Bible. Wrap your arms around it. Enjoy it. “If you have 50 more years left in your life, why not get to know the Bible and really enjoy the process?” (Nate Pickowicz, author of [*How to Eat Your Bible*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3DNM?ref=dashhouse.com)) [More from Episode 2](https://www.gospelforlife.com/eating-your-bible-with-nate-pickowicz/) ## Growing in Christ involves knowing Scripture, knowing God, and building disciplines. Every believer needs to learn to participate in the biblical story (the Bible), grow in their knowledge of who God is and who we are (theology), and regularly participate in private and corporate intentional action (spiritual disciplines). “The disease isn’t that we’re too deep. It’s that we’re far too shallow. We need local churches who want to invite people into the depths and the richness of having a relationship with Jesus and the Triune God.” (J.T. English, author of [*Deep Discipleship*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/42bm?ref=dashhouse.com)) [More from Episode 5](https://www.gospelforlife.com/deep-discipleship-with-j-t-english/) ## Habits play a key role in our walk with God. We often wait for desire to lead us into action. Instead, we can use habits to lead us into desire. “Bodily motions and habits can inscribe faith far more deeply in us than just at the information level.” (Jen Pollock Michel, author of [*A Habit Called Faith*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3U8j?ref=dashhouse.com)) [More from Episode 4](https://www.gospelforlife.com/a-habit-called-faith-by-jen-pollock-michel/) ## Discipleship involves our whole lives, including our bodies. God created us as embodied beings. Our bodies play an important role in our relationship with God. Whenever we can, we should preach and teach and disciple about embodiment. We should talk about not only spiritual disciplines, but also physical disciplines, exercise, nutrition, rest, and sleep. “The foundation for our relationship with God is the fact that we are embodied. That’s the beginning point.” (Gregg Allison, author of [*Embodied*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4Uv8?ref=dashhouse.com)) [More from Episode 9](https://www.gospelforlife.com/embodied-with-dr-gregg-r-allison/) ## Pastors play a crucial role in making disciples. Seminaries do certain things well, but the church is the ideal environment for making disciples. Pastors can set the expectation of what normal Christianity looks like. If you want your church to adopt a culture of discipleship, start by setting an example. Don’t try to impose a discipleship program overnight. Start small and grow. “Discipleship is messy and takes time. It requires great patience. It requires a faithful plodding.” (Jared C. Wilson, author of [*Gospel-Driven Ministry*](https://www.dashhouse.com/discipleship-and-gospel-driven-ministry-with-jared-c-wilson/?ref=gospelforlife.com)) [More from Episode 6](https://www.gospelforlife.com/discipleship-and-gospel-driven-ministry-with-jared-c-wilson/) ## Disciple-making must deal with what it means to follow Jesus in our particular time and place. It’s not enough to think about discipleship in a timeless sense. We must work out what it means to follow Jesus in the particular time in setting that we’ve been placed. Developing general habits is good, but we must also develop subversive habits that confront the particular temptations and challenges we’re going to face the as Christians today. “The gospel is timeless, but we must work out what it means to follow Jesus in the particular time and setting that we’ve been placed.” (Trevin Wax, author of [*Eschatological Discipleship*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/316t?ref=dashhouse.com)) [More from Episode 1](https://www.gospelforlife.com/discipleship-in-our-time-with-trevin-wax/) ## Developing healthy digital habits is a big discipleship challenge for the 21st century. Most of us have made digital content our main input, and it’s making us sick. Churches can help train people in media literacy and the development of healthy digital habits. “Even your average faithful church-going Christian is actually being discipled more by their online habits and echo chambers.” (Brett McCracken, author of [*The Wisdom Pyramid*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3IQD?ref=dashhouse.com)) [More from Episode 3](https://www.gospelforlife.com/the-wisdom-pyramid-with-brett-mccracken/) ## As you make disciples, help others face distortions of Christianity. Key influencers are peddling false versions of the Christian faith. One example is the new prosperity gospel. This distortion of Christianity is hip, focuses on giving a good experience, and promises that you will live an extraordinary life. “I worry, not only are we following a version of God that we’ve made up and we’ve constructed, but also we’re setting up a generation for major disappointment with God when all their dreams don’t really come true.” (Dean Inserra, author of [*Getting Over Yourself*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4gnJ?ref=dashhouse.com)) [More from Episode 10](https://www.gospelforlife.com/getting-over-yourself-with-dean-inserra/) ## As you make disciples, help others face objections to Christianity. We live in a culture that’s hostile to Christianity. Sometimes we avoid preparing people to deal with objections to Christianity. The church can and should expose people to these ideas, and prepare them to deal with them. “One of the ways to prepare students for college is to introduce them and expose them to non-Christian thinking in some sort of way that normally we don’t do.” (Michael Kruger, author of [*Surviving Religion 101*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4n1W?ref=dashhouse.com)) [More from Episode 11](https://www.gospelforlife.com/surviving-religion-101-with-dr-michael-kruger/) ## Questions 1. What is the principle that surprised you the most? 2. Which principles are the strongest in your life and ministry? 3. Which principles need more attention in your life and ministry? 4. What is one practical step you can take to implement one of these principles? #### ### Walk With Me by Bill Mowry URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/walk-with-me-by-bill-mowry/ Last updated: 2024-09-07T19:17:23.000Z Have we overcomplicated, over-systematized, and over-formalized making disciples? That’s the question Bill Mowry asks in his new book [*Walk With Me: Simple Principles for Everyday Disciplemaking*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/54eG?ref=dashhouse.com). Mowry wants to help us declutter and deprofessionalize the Great Commission. You can listen to this episode below. ## Key Ideas - We've overcomplicated disciple-making. We tend to emphasize programs or curricula rather than an intentional relational process. - The solution to our feelings of inadequacy is Jesus’ promise of his presence and authority. - We can picture disciple-making as inviting people to walk with us as far as we’ve walked. We can also partner with others in the church who’ve gone farther. - Jesus gave us an example of sharing struggles with others in disciple-making. - Disciple-making is more than just teaching information. It’s about inviting people into our lives. - A priority practice in disciple-making is helping people grow in their love and worship of God, and nurturing that relationship. - Disciplemaking can be as simple as reading the Bible with another believer. - Organic doesn’t mean haphazard. Organic discipling is highly intentional. - It’s important for us to have a picture in our minds of what a disciple should know, do, and be. - Be careful about discipling people into your preferences and applications. - One of the keys to disciple-making is demonstrating love to others. - When people change slowly, remember that God works on a different timeline than we do. - When making disciples, aim to help others become disciple-makers by keeping your process simple and explaining why you do what you do. - Build accountability, application, and affirmation into your disciplemaking relationships. - Pastors can begin to create a culture of disciple-making by modeling it. A good goal is to spend 10% of ministry time in disciple-making. - Before planning, disciple-making should be demonstrated. - God still works through our disciple-making efforts even when we make mistakes. - Nobody is too old to be a disciple-maker with others. ## Quotes “I think we’ve made the idea of making disciples complicated. Now, one popular book on disciple-making has at the end of the book 32 things you need to disciple somebody in. And I think I can’t even disciple myself in 32 things.” “God often works in some slow ways, and also we want to be about building depth in people’s lives and not just completing a program.” “You’ve got something to offer. Start right where you are.” “Discipling is not about passing on information and people accumulating the right knowledge or doctrine. That’s part of it … But it’s really about imparting our life in Christ, and part of that life in Christ is having him meet us at our point of need and our trials and our temptations, inviting him in and so that I’m setting an example for somebody else.” “When we think about something being organic, it really implies not so much that it’s haphazard, but it’s highly intentional and highly disciplined and there’s an end goal in mind.” “Man, I didn’t realize that after I became a Christian that there’d be so much paperwork to do.” “The key to making it transferable is that we have to keep it simple enough, and we have to encourage people to be thinking about how they can intentionally pass it on to somebody else.” “If you’re going to build a disciple-making culture, the leadership of the church, particularly the senior pastor has to be engaged in modeling it.” “No matter the age I’m at, I’m going to keep at it.” ## Episode Links - [Navigator Church Ministries](https://go.gospelforlife.com/54i3?ref=dashhouse.com) - [Navigator 2:7 Series](https://go.gospelforlife.com/54iD?ref=dashhouse.com) - [Alongsider.com](https://go.gospelforlife.com/54eH?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*Walk With Me*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/54eG?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*The Ways of the Alongsider*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/54hr?ref=dashhouse.com) ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [Walk With Me by Bill Mowry210719-Transcript.pdf101 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/210719-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### Surviving Religion 101 with Dr. Michael Kruger URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/surviving-religion-101-with-dr-michael-kruger/ Last updated: 2024-09-07T19:26:55.000Z Many young adults find college exciting, but also challenging. Some students may be confronted with the various challenges to Christianity and the Bible for the first time. That’s why Dr. Michael Kruger’s book [*Surviving Religion 101: Letters to a Christian Student on Keeping the Faith in College*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4n1W?ref=dashhouse.com) is so important. It’s helpful not just for college students but for anyone who is facing tough questions about the Christian faith such as the exclusivity of Christianity, Christian intolerance, homosexuality, hell, the problem of evil, science, miracles, and the reliability of the Bible. Dr. Kruger is president and professor at Reformed Theological Seminary in Charlotte, North Carolina, and a leading scholar on the origins and development of the New Testament canon, and author of many books. Listen to the episode below: ## Key Ideas - At some level, we are not doing an adequate job preparing young adults for the questions they will face in college. - Churches often focus on making sure people are converted, and helping them live like Christians. We can forget to help them *think* like Christians. - People don’t form their beliefs just on facts, but on our prior worldview. Opposition to Christianity isn’t neutral, but based on a grid through which opponents see reality. - Because of common grace, we should expect that many unbelievers are happy and live moral lives. - We can prepare people to deal with objections to Christianity by exposing them to these ideas. - Pastors and preachers should not assume that listeners agree with them. They must persuade them that what they are teaching is true. - We should teach the difficult parts and teachings of the Bible. If we don’t, we are setting people up for a fall later. - Universities are intended to introduce people to a multiplicity of views. Today, though, many thoughts are outlawed, and only one view is encouraged. - The church must grapple with issues of sexual and spiritual abuse. ## Quotes “Professors at secular colleges aren’t neutral. They already have a grid through which they’re interpreting reality.” “One of the ways to prepare students for college is to introduce them and expose them to non-Christian thinking in some sort of way that normally we don’t do.” “It’s one thing to believe something. It’s another thing to know something, but it’s an entirely different thing to try to explain or articulate something to an audience that’s not sympathetic to you.” “I think what pastors need to do is pick up the art of persuasion, to make an argument, try to show that what you believe makes sense.” “We’ve got to take the problem and introduce it into the bloodstream, so to speak, in small doses, so that people are prepared to battle it.” “Certain ideas are outlawed from the get go. And we know this that professors and schools are not interested in debates that are interested in discussions. They’re interested in indoctrination. They’re trying to make sure that everyone leaves with a particular view.” ## Episode Links - [Canon Fodder (michaeljkruger.com)](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4n1Y?ref=dashhouse.com) - [“Why Didn’t My Pastor Tell Me About That?”](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4n1a?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*Surviving Religion 101: Letters to a Christian Student on Keeping the Faith in College*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4n1W?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*Confronting Christianity: 12 Hard Questions for the World’s Largest Religio*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4n1U?ref=dashhouse.com)*n* - [*10 Questions Every Teen Should Ask (and Answer) about Christianity*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4n1Q?ref=dashhouse.com) ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [Surviving Religion 101210705-Transcript.pdf85 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/210705-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### Getting Over Yourself with Dean Inserra URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/getting-over-yourself-with-dean-inserra/ Last updated: 2024-09-07T19:25:36.000Z [*Getting Over Yourself*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4gnJ?ref=dashhouse.com) is a call for Christians to reject the hollow messages of personal prosperity and to return to the humble truths of the gospel. You will learn how to recognize this harmful popular belief in culture and churches and see its serious consequences. And, perhaps most importantly, you’ll learn how to combat it with gospel truth that leads to the abundant life Jesus actually desires for His people. Discover the beauty in losing yourself — and ultimately in gaining him. My guest, Dean Inserra, is founding pastor of City Church in Tallahassee, Florida. Dean is married to Krissie, and they have two sons and a daughter. Dean likes baseball, wrestling, and the Miami Hurricanes. Listen to the episode below: ## Key Ideas - Key influencers are promoting a false version of the Christian faith. Because it’s new, we haven’t seen all the consequences yet. - The new prosperity gospel is savvy and attractive. It tells us that God wants to unlock our potential and to help our dreams come true. It focuses on personal branding. It doesn’t want you to live an ordinary, simple life. - The new prosperity gospel only makes sense in an affluent Western culture. - The new prosperity gospel sounds just Christian enough to be okay, but it emphasizes brokenness instead of sin, a comeback instead of repentance. It focuses on living a good life on the world’s terms rather than God’s terms. Churches built on the new prosperity gospel aim to give worshipers a good experience. - The new prosperity gospel preachers believe in orthodox Christianity, but emphasize “theology light” and the good life. They minimize biblical theology and misuse Scripture. - We must examine both our message and motives to guard against buying into the new prosperity gospel. - Preachers can be influenced toward the new prosperity gospel by the people they follow. - The new prosperity gospel does not prepare us to live an ordinary life away from all the trappings of success. - Churches can help people who’ve been discipled by the new prosperity gospel to see the beauty of the real gospel. ## Quotes “This new prosperity gospel is really cool. It’s really hip, it’s not cheesy at all. It’s trendy, it looks really great.” “I worry, not only are we following a version of God that we’ve made up and we’ve constructed, but also we’re setting up a generation for major disappointment with God when all their dreams don’t really come true.” “Any Christian I know would be okay with saying that Jesus has to increase … We just want to do it with him. Just take me with you.” “The greatest blessing of God is God himself.” “Don’t equate having God’s blessings with having God.” ## Episode Links ### Book mentioned: - [*Getting Over Yourself: Trading Believe-in-Yourself Religion for Christ-Centered Christianity*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4gnJ?ref=dashhouse.com) ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [Getting Over Yourself with Dean Inserra210621-Transcript.pdf97 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/210621-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### Embodied with Dr. Gregg R. Allison URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/embodied-with-dr-gregg-r-allison/ Last updated: 2024-09-07T19:30:28.000Z The cultural conversation of the body has morphed into a confused and controversial debate. Many Christians have adopted the dangerous, gnostic belief that our physical bodies are inherently evil. We need to rediscover God’s design for us as embodied creatures. In his new book, [*Embodied: Living as Whole People in a Fractured World*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4Uv8?ref=dashhouse.com), Gregg R. Allison PhD, invites us to embrace the statement, “I am my body.” I discuss Dr. Allison's book and why it's important to understand the body's role in discipleship in this episode. Listen to the episode below: ## Key Ideas - The Church has been negatively influenced by Gnosticism, which emphasizes the goodness of the soul or the spirit but denigrates the physical aspect of human nature. - God created us as embodied beings. Our bodies play an important role in our relationship with God. - We will spend our entire existence as embodied creatures. The only exception is a relatively short, abnormal period between our death and the resurrection in which we will long for our resurrected bodies. Our future is an embodied one. - Our bodies are central to who we are. We are not *only* our bodies, but we are our bodies. - Our bodies are not just another thing to steward like time or money. Our bodies belong in a different category, because we *are* our bodies. - Our hearts may deceive us, but our bodies always tell the truth. We are either a male or we are a female. - Whenever we can, we should preach and teach and disciple about embodiment. We should talk about not only spiritual disciplines, but also physical disciplines, exercise, nutrition, rest, and sleep. - Jesus’ embodiment emphasizes the importance of and God’s design for our bodies. - If you would like to improve your health, begin with a more accurate understanding of embodiment, and then work that theology out in practices like nutrition and exercise. - Anything good — even our bodies — can become an idol if we’re not careful. Ask friends to warn you if they think you are making an idol of your body. - Many pastors struggle to care for their bodies. They lead sedentary lives and overwork. We must see ministry as a whole-life marathon, not a sprint, and pace ourselves. Pastors should also invite people to speak into our lives. - We must guard against contemporary views that measure personhood by what someone is able to contribute. - God works in our lives in powerful ways during times of discipline and sifting. - Authors write alone, but are powerfully shaped by the community of people around them. ## Quotes “The foundation for our relationship with God is the fact that we are embodied. That’s the beginning point.” “We will not be fully conformed to the image of Jesus until he returns and gives us our new glorified resurrected bodies. That is our future.” “We are our bodies, and so we care for ourselves as embodied people.” “We are sexed all the way down … My body always tells the truth.” “Whenever we have the chance, we should preach and teach and disciple about embodiment. We should talk about not only spiritual disciplines, but also physical disciplines, exercise, nutrition, rest, sleep.” “Jesus’ embodiment … screams about the importance of our embodiment.” “Virtual relationships just don’t cut it. They’re not as they should be.” “If you’re 35, 40 years old and you’re sprinting in Christian ministry, you will burn out after a couple of years.” “A culture of death has settled, at least in the West, and it’s appalling.” “I do believe obviously authors write, But I am learning that we are authors in community.” ## Episode Links - [Gregg R. Allison on Facebook](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4UvA?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*Embodied: Living as Whole People in a Fractured World*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4Uv8?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*40 Questions about Roman Catholicism*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4Uv6?ref=dashhouse.com) ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [Embodied with Dr. Gregg R. Allison210607-Transcript.pdf87 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/210607-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### Hearers and Doers with Dr. Kevin Vanhoozer URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/hearers-and-doers-with-dr-kevin-vanhoozer/ Last updated: 2024-09-07T20:00:58.000Z Doctrine is critical to the role of making disciples. Dr. Kevin Vanhoozer, author of many books including [*Hearers and Doers: A Pastor’s Guide to Making Disciples Through Scripture and Doctrine*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4IaQ?ref=dashhouse.com), explains why doctrine matters, and how we can find our place in God’s story. Listen to the episode below: ## Key Ideas - We’re all formed by stories, either God’s story, or some other story we use to make sense of the world. - Three primary stories shape us today: the liberation narrative, the wellness narrative, and the self-invention story. - Pastors must understand the main stories that culture tells us, and help congregations become culturally literate, and live in the big story of Scripture. - Good preaching helps to call out false stories and help people live in God’s story. - Doctrine is practical, because it helps us learn about God’s story and our place within it. - Theology tells the story of what it means to live in Christ. - We should discard the metaphor of pastor as CEO or entertainer, and embrace the metaphors of pastors as public theologians, doctors, and fitness instructors. - The church must become fit so that it can serve its purpose: to act as representatives of the Kingdom of God, speaking and doing things that Christians should be doing. - The evangelical imagination is the ability to live in God’s story, even if we can’t see it with our senses. - Ministry isn’t easy, but we can take the pressure off. We’re not supposed to know everything or do everything. That’s God’s role. - Change takes time. Think of changing a church culture as changing family traditions. ## Quotes “If you think I’m off on a doctrinal rabbit hole that has nothing to do with practical ministry, stop me. Call me on it. Force me to show you how it’s practical.” “If doctrine isn’t somehow involved in the process of making disciples, then it’s defective.” “I like to think of theology is the study of reality, what is ‘in Christ’ and that’s even more real than what the scientists study, because ‘in Christ’ is the beginning of a new creation.” “Pastors are theologians because they’re there to help people understand God and all things in relation to God.” “What should concern pastors is the fitness of their members for gospel citizenship.” “If you feel overwhelmed, just remember that you’re not supposed to know everything about everything, but you’re supposed to understand the gospel and the gospel can transform everything.” ## Episode Links - [Center for Pastor Theologians](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4IaZ?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*Hearers and Doers: A Pastor’s Guide to Making Disciples Through Scripture and Doctrine*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4IaQ?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*The Rise and Triumph of the Modern Self*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4JHG?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*The Pastor as Public Theologian: Reclaiming a Lost Vision*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4IaT?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*Metaphors We Live By*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4IaW?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*Faith Speaking Understanding: Performing the Drama of Doctrine*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4IaX?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*Pictures at a Theological Exhibition: Scenes of the Church’s Worship, Witness and Wisdom*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4IaY?ref=dashhouse.com) ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode: [Hearers and Doers with Dr. Kevin Vanhoozer210510-Transcript.pdf87 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/210510-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### The Deeply Formed Life with Rich Villodas URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/the-deeply-formed-life-with-rich-villodas/ Last updated: 2024-09-08T01:55:44.000Z It's tempting to live superficially, just focusing on our actions instead of addressing the deeper matters of the heart. But God wants us to be deeply formed: to live lives with both depth and breadth. He wants us to change profoundly and then live by important values as we engage with the world. In [*The Deeply Formed Life*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4PYN?ref=dashhouse.com), Rich Villodas explains how this kind of life is possible, so we can live in the richly rooted place we all yearn for: a place of communion with God, a place where we find our purpose in life. In this podcast episode, I talk to Villodas about how to live the deeply formed life. Listen to the episode below: ## Key Ideas - It’s important to learn from different streams within the Christian tradition and to hold lessons from these streams together. - Diversity within the church is desirable, but it’s also a struggle. - The evangelical tradition emphasizes Scripture and truth; the Pentecostal tradition emphasizes experience; mainline traditions emphasize engagement with the world. We need all three emphases. - God intends for us to be transformed deeply, including the 90% of us that list beneath the surface. He also intends for us to live with breadth, learning from the different streams and traditions within the church. - The gospel forms a new family in which the fragmentation that exists between humans is destroyed. It speaks to issues of racial division. - We must learn to integrate spirituality and sexuality. - One of the best gifts we can offer to others is a non-anxious presence. - The first job of a pastor is what David describes in [Psalm 27:4](https://biblia.com/bible/esv/Ps%2027.4?ref=gospelforlife.com): “One thing have I asked of the LORD, that will I seek after: that I may dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, to gaze upon the beauty of the LORD and to inquire in his temple.” - When we see God inaccurately, it leads to discouragement and frustration in the process of growth. - We should aim to cultivate the skill of compassionate self-confrontation in our lives. - To help people become deeply formed, think theologically and move slowly. - The creativity and perseverance of pastors during the past 15 months is deeply encouraging. ## Quotes “There’s no one tradition and no one stream that has a monopoly on truth, gospel truth, Christian truth.” “The deeply formed life is about depth and breadth.” “I think the best gift that a pastor brings to a congregation is not necessarily or primarily theological rigor, sociological research, historical nuance, political understanding … I think the best gift of pastor brings a congregation is a non-anxious presence.” “The best gift I give to my staff to our community and to the world at large is my own ongoing transformation in Jesus Christ.” “Success is not simply to be numbers driven. True success is: how is my life with God? And how am I leading others to have that kind of life with God as well?” “If we can begin to approach ourselves with that compassionate self-confrontation and having our images of God healed, I think it makes a world of a difference for how we deal with our own brokenness.” “I am also encouraged by the creativity and the perseverance of pastors.” ## Episode Links ### Book mentioned: - [*The Deeply Formed Life: Five Transformative Values to Root Us in the Way of Jesus*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4PYN?ref=dashhouse.com) ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [The Deeply Formed Life with Rich Villodas210524-Transcript.pdf83 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/210524-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### Discipleship and Gospel-Driven Ministry with Jared C. Wilson URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/discipleship-and-gospel-driven-ministry-with-jared-c-wilson/ Last updated: 2024-09-07T20:04:25.000Z New and old pastors need to be reminded of what matters most in ministry. In his new book [*Gospel-Driven Ministry*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4ApV?ref=dashhouse.com), Jared Wilson looks at the biblical qualifications for pastors, and then describes a gospel-centered approach to the core practices of pastoral ministry. In this episode, I ask Jared to reflect on discipling within a gospel-driven ministry. You can listen to the episode below: ## Key Ideas - The Western phenomenon of the sole professional pastor has created a model of church as dispenser of goods and services. It transforms the pastor into the solo presenter of information, entertainer, and vision caster. It falls short of the biblical vision of church, and can lead to disastrous results. - Real discipleship can feel inefficient and unproductive. Discipleship is messy and requires time and patience. It requires a faithful plodding. - Our modern understandings of ministry tend to be industrial, but the Scriptural metaphors for ministry are more agricultural. While there are things we can do in ministry, there are many things we can’t control. - Discipleship requires both introverts and extroverts to stretch beyond what comes naturally to them. - **Disciple in proximity** — Discipleship requires that we get close enough to people. - **Disciple with priority** — Wise pastors prioritize the discipling of those who are farther along in the faith. - **Disciple personally** — Discipleship is not just about knowing more information, it’s about transformation. That requires asking deeper questions and gradually dealing with personal and hidden issues. - Seminaries do certain things well, but the church is the ideal environment for making disciples. - Pastors can set the expectation of what normal Christianity looks like. If you want your church to adopt a culture of discipleship, start by setting an example. - Don’t try to impose a discipleship program overnight. Start small and grow. - Invite others to see Jesus not as taskmaster, coach, or efficiency expert, but as friend. - Be patient with others. Expect slow growth. Offer them gospel and safety and time. - Pastors: don’t feel bad if you get discouraged sometimes. - God knew that our moment of crisis was coming. He determined that there would be a COVID class of pastors, and he stewarded this situation to the pastors that we have right now. - God is raising up young future leaders to shepherd the church, and it’s encouraging. - If you are not a pastor, commit to being a low-maintenance church member who allows your pastor to breathe. ## Quotes “Discipleship is messy and takes time. It requires great patience. It requires a faithful plodding.” “Personally discipling others means being near to them, their problems, their concerns, being able to apply the gospel in ways that are specific to them. And that requires actually getting close to people.” “One of my biggest regrets from my last pastorate in particular was how little time I spent with low maintenance church members.” “Discipleship is not just about knowing more information, it’s about transformation. And that requires asking deeper questions and going to more hidden places.” “What the pastors are, the church will become.” “Most churches don’t become a culture of discipleship overnight. They have to be trained over time.” “Programs are best suited for giving people the outlet for a desire they already have. And they’re not great for creating a desire that people don’t have.” “It all begins with your own communion with Christ.” “At what pace do normal people change? Are we more impatient than the Holy Spirit is with people’s lives? Sometimes we can be stricter than Jesus, who is the holiest person who ever lived.” “He determined that there would be a COVID class of pastors, and in his wisdom, he stewarded this situation to the pastors that we have right now.” “I want to be the best church member that I can be, or the lowest maintenance church member that I can be for my pastor.” ## Episode Links - [John Wesley’s accountability questions](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4ApQ?ref=dashhouse.com) - [David Powlison’s x-ray questions (PDF)](https://gospelforlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/04/xray.pdf?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*Gospel-Driven Ministry: An Introduction to the Calling and Work of a Pastor*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4ApV?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*Prodigal Church: A Gentle Manifesto against the Status Quo*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4ApW?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*Gospel-Driven Church: Uniting Church Growth Dreams with the Metrics of Grace*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4ApX?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*The Trellis and the Vine: The Ministry Mind-shift That Changes Everything*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4ApY?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*Knowing God*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/4ApZ?ref=dashhouse.com) ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode: [Discipleship and Gospel-Driven Ministry with Jared C. Wilson210426-Transcript.pdf102 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/210426-Transcript.pdf "Download") ### Deep Discipleship with J.T. English URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/deep-discipleship-with-j-t-english/ Last updated: 2024-09-07T20:08:30.000Z In his book [*Deep Discipleship*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/42bm?ref=dashhouse.com), J.T. English helps churches think about how to establish environments and relationships where people can be trained, grow, and be sent as disciples. Listen to the episode below: ## Key Ideas - The church is the primary place to make disciples. We shouldn’t need to leave the church to learn how to serve the church. - The disease isn’t that we’re too deep. It’s that we’re far too shallow. We need local churches who want to invite people into the depths and the richness of having a relationship with Jesus and the Triune God. - Churches should make discipleship accessible, but also invite people, inch by inch, to the explore the inexhaustible depths of who God is. - In seminaries, we are responsible for our own growth. In churches, we are responsible to help others grow, making churches the ideal context for discipleship to take place. - It’s important to build community within a church, but that is not exclusively Christian or the same as discipleship. - Churches need both community environments and learning environments. - Pastors must not begin by asking what people want. They must begin by asking what people need in order to grow. - Every believer needs to learn to participate in the biblical story (the Bible), grow in their knowledge of who God is and who we are (theology), and regularly participating in private and corporate intentional action (spiritual disciplines). - We cannot love a God we do not know. - Knowing God is intensely practical. - Regardless of the size of your church, focus on discipling future possible pastors, elders, and leaders. - COVID is an opportunity for us to release lesser things and increase our dependence on God. - If the gospel is not leading to a gracious church culture, we are doing theology wrong. - Reading history can help to encourage us as we see the challenges other people have faced and how they became better leaders as a result. ## Quotes “The fact that I had to leave my local church in order to lead in the local church! … It blew my mind.” “The disease isn’t that we’re too deep. It’s that we’re far too shallow. We need local churches who want to invite people into the depths and the richness of having a relationship with Jesus and the Triune God.” “Being in community is not synonymous with discipleship. It is a necessary ingredient, but you can be in community of people who aren’t following Jesus.” “If I’m giving people things that are nice but not necessary, I’m failing as a pastor.” “If theology is what you believe about God and there’s nothing more practical, and if you can give me something more practical, then I’ll quit my job and go do that.” “If God is using this season to, in your heart and in your life, create a greater desire and need for him, then that’s a win.” “If our doctrine isn’t creating us to be more gentle and lowly, meek and Christ-like, then we should probably throw our doctrine away.” ## Episode Links - [The Village Church Institute](https://go.gospelforlife.com/42bn?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*Deep Discipleship*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/42bm?ref=dashhouse.com) by J.T. English ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode: [Deep Discipleship with J.T. English210412.pdf88 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/210412.pdf "Download") ### A Habit Called Faith by Jen Pollock Michel URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/a-habit-called-faith-by-jen-pollock-michel/ Last updated: 2024-09-08T01:26:49.000Z Habits play a central role in human behavior. They also play an important role in faith. In fact, habits can help lead us to faith as we learn to see, know, live, love, and obey. In this episode, Jen Pollock Michel talks about her book [*A Habit Called Faith*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3U8j?ref=dashhouse.com), and how we can use habits to awaken and deepen our faith. You can listen to the episode below: ## Key Ideas - Many habits are bodily practices. They help to inscribe faith at a deeper level than information. - The habits of faith can help to unlock a backdoor into faith. - We often wait for desire to lead us into action. Instead, we can use habits to lead us into desire. - It’s better that we help people work through the more challenging passages of Scripture rather than avoiding them. - Stories help us connect with truths in a deeper way. - Immersing ourselves in Scripture helps us to see the world the way that God sees it. - Reading Scripture is part of training ourselves to live the Christian life. - Many parts of the Christian life aren’t instinctive or reflexive, which is why it’s necessary to cultivate habits of faith. - You can follow a plan when reading Scripture, but you’re also free to let your curiosity and desire determine where you read. - Bible reading is more than an individual discipline; it’s a communal practice. - To build habits, start small. - People need practical guidance to build habits like Scripture, prayer, fellowship, and confession. - Instead of pursuing productivity, pursue fruitfulness. ## Quotes “Bodily motions and habits can inscribe faith far more deeply in us than just at the information level.” “Habit can carry us through seasons of wilderness.” “Just practice the motions of faith, and you might find that those motions almost open a backdoor into faith.” “Faith is not a reflex. What is reflexive to us as human beings is desire for autonomy and self rule and life on our own terms. And so that’s why I feel like getting into the Bible is a really important habit.” “What’s reflexive to human beings is this feeling that God could never love us, that we are so bad and so messed up and so screwed up that we’re beyond redemption. And that’s not the story that you find in Scripture.” “Productivity is far more related to machines than it is to humans. The life of faith in Scripture is described as a fruitful life.” ## Episode Links - [JenPollockMichel.com](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3U92?ref=dashhouse.com) - [Imprint Magazine](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3U98?ref=dashhouse.com) - [Englewood Review of Books podcast](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3U99?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*A Habit Called Faith: 40 Days in the Bible to Find and Follow Jesus*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3U8j?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*Teach Us to Want: Longing, Ambition and the Life of Faith*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3U8%5F?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*Keeping Place: Reflections on the Meaning of Home*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3U90?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*Surprised by Paradox: Surprised by Paradox: The Promise of “And” in an Either-Or World*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3U91?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*The Divine Hours*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3U8x?ref=dashhouse.com) - [*Reforesting Faith: What Trees Teach Us About the Nature of God and His Love for Us*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3Vm1?ref=dashhouse.com) ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [A Habit Called Faith by Jen Pollock Michel210329.pdf90 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/210329.pdf "Download") ### The Wisdom Pyramid with Brett McCracken URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/the-wisdom-pyramid-with-brett-mccracken/ Last updated: 2024-09-08T01:30:27.000Z The Internet is a blessing, but it also presents a challenge. With endless information at our fingertips, how can we cultivate a life of wisdom? It’s one of the greatest discipleship challenges today. Brett McCracken has created [*The Wisdom Pyramid*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3IQD?ref=dashhouse.com) to help us increase our intake of enduring, trustworthy sources (like the Bible) while moderating our consumption of less reliable sources. Listen to the podcast below: ## Key Ideas - Most of us have made digital content our main input, and it’s making us sick. - The overwhelming quantity of digital information forces our brain into a continual triage mode, which robs us of the energy we need for deep, reflective thinking. - Developing healthy digital habits is a big discipleship challenge for the 21st century. - Churches can help train people in media literacy and the development of healthy digital habits. - Wise inputs must focus first on what is most enduring and what is closest to God (e.g. Bible and church). - The more removed we are from nature, the more likely we are to lead foolish lives. - Nature reveals God’s beautiful abundance. - Beauty enables us to orient to God not just with our minds, but with our entire bodies. - In a digital world, it’s healthy to be limited by our location and the people around us. ## Quotes “We’re just eating the digital version of Skittles and Doritos and doughnuts all day throughout the day. And none of it is really nutritious for us.” “Constant distraction is a greater temptation for humans today than any generation of humans prior have faced.” “Nature reveals his beautiful abundance. He didn’t have to create tens of thousands of species of hummingbirds, or he didn’t have to create however many hundreds of thousands of species of orchids there are in the world, but he did, and that’s just amazing.” “Even your average faithful church-going Christian is actually being discipled more by their online habits and echo chambers.” ## Episode Links - [The Gospel Coalition](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3IQj?ref=dashhouse.com) - [BrettMcCracken.com](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3IQm?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*The Wisdom Pyramid*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3IQD?ref=dashhouse.com) by Brett McCracken - [*Uncomfortable*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3IQQ?ref=dashhouse.com) by Brett McCracken - [*Hipster Christianity*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3IQa?ref=dashhouse.com) by Brett McCracken - [*Gray Matters*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3IQc?ref=dashhouse.com) by Brett McCracken - [*Pensées*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3IQd?ref=dashhouse.com) by Blaise Pascal ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode: [The Wisdom Pyramid with Brett McCracken210315-Brett-McCracken-The-Wisdom-Pyramid.pdf91 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/210315-Brett-McCracken-The-Wisdom-Pyramid.pdf "Download") ### Eating Your Bible with Nate Pickowicz URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/eating-your-bible-with-nate-pickowicz/ Last updated: 2024-09-08T01:35:01.000Z In this episode, Nate Pickowicz talks about his struggle to read Scripture and explains how we can enjoy reading and understanding the Bible. ## Key Ideas - We’re always going to face resistance to reading the Bible. The enemy of our souls, our own fallen natures, a hostile world, and distraction all conspire against us. - Despite the obstacles, you can learn to know your Bible and love it. - Don’t just get through the Bible. Wrap your arms around it. Enjoy it. - To make reading the Bible a habit, we should prioritize it as much as we would if we were being paid a million dollars to do so. - The way pastors preach determines how people study and learn the Bible. - Don’t just power through life. Enjoy the simple graces God gives us along the way. ## Quotes “The enemy of our souls wants us to stay out of the Bible, so that’s going to be a huge struggle for us.” “You can get into your Bible and learn it and love it.” “If you have 50 more years left in your life, why not get to know the Bible and really enjoy the process?” “If it’s a priority for you, if you or if you’re desiring to make it a priority, then you’ll find ways.” “What you do in the pulpit sets the tone for what people are going to do at home.” “I think it’s very easy for us to power through and miss the small things. But I’m just trying to learn to be thankful for what God gives me in the normal moments of life.” ## Episode Links - Nathan on [Twitter](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3DNL?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*How to Eat Your Bible: A Simple Approach to Learning and Loving the Word of God*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3DNM?ref=dashhouse.com) by Nate Pickowicz - [*Reviving New England: The Key to Revitalizing Post-Christian America*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3DNq?ref=dashhouse.com) by Nate Pickowicz - [*Why We’re Protestant: An Introduction to the Five Solas of the Reformation*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3DNp?ref=dashhouse.com) by Nate Pickowicz - [*The American Puritans*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/3DNO?ref=dashhouse.com) by Nate Pickowicz ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode. [Eating Your Bible with Nate Pickowicz210301.pdf76 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/210301.pdf "Download") ### Discipleship in Our Time With Trevin Wax URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/discipleship-in-our-time-with-trevin-wax/ Last updated: 2024-09-08T01:44:05.000Z This first episode of the Gospel for Life podcast features Trevin Wax, an author, blogger, and senior vice president at LifeWay Christian Resources. Trevin brings a unique perspective on discipleship, blending academic insight with practical wisdom. This episode is for you if you want to navigate faith in today's culture or approach discipleship with a new perspective. Trevin will discuss important ideas from his books, such as the significance of knowing our history and culture when it comes to discipleship, and how we can change our perspective on self-identity based on the gospel. Trevin's insights will challenge and inspire church leaders, dedicated Christians, and anyone curious about faith in the modern world. Join us for a conversation that promises to reshape your understanding of discipleship and its relevance in our time. ## Key Ideas - It’s not enough to think about discipleship in a timeless sense. We must work out what it means to follow Jesus in the particular time and setting that we’ve been placed. - It's important to have good habits in general, but as Christians, we should also cultivate specific habits that help us face the unique temptations and challenges of today. - Expressive individualism is one of the key evangelistic and discipleship issues we must face today. - Discipleship resources are helpful, but it's important to also have personal relationships that demonstrate the practical aspects of following Jesus. - One of the big battlegrounds for us in our generation is going to be over anthropology: what it means to be human. ## Quotes “We’ve got to have wisdom to know what faithfulness looks like at this moment.” “The gospel is timeless, but we must work out what it means to follow Jesus in the particular time and setting that we’ve been placed.” “Discipleship is caught as much as it is taught. There is certainly a teaching element to it, but there also is modeling and an invitation model to it.” ## Episode Links - [Trevin’s blog](https://go.gospelforlife.com/316n?ref=dashhouse.com) - Trevin on [Twitter](https://go.gospelforlife.com/316p?ref=dashhouse.com) and [Facebook](https://go.gospelforlife.com/33B%5F?ref=dashhouse.com) ### Books mentioned: - [*Eschatological Discipleship: Leading Christians to Understand Their Historical and Cultural Context*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/316t?ref=dashhouse.com) by Trevin Wax - [*Rethink Your Self: The Power of Looking Up Before Looking In*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/317E?ref=dashhouse.com) by Trevin Wax - [*This Is Our Time: Everyday Myths in Light of the Gospel*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/33Bq?ref=dashhouse.com) by Trevin Wax - [*America’s God: From Jonathan Edwards to Abraham Lincoln*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/33C5?ref=dashhouse.com) by Mark Noll - [*To Flourish or Destruct: A Personalist Theory of Human Goods, Motivations, Failure, and Evil*](https://go.gospelforlife.com/33CA?ref=dashhouse.com) by Christian Smith - [*The Multi-Directional Leader: Responding Wisely to Challenges from Every Side*](https://amzn.to/47kr7Nv?ref=gospelforlife.com) by Trevin Wax ## Transcript Download a PDF transcript of this episode: [Discipleship in Our Time With Trevin Wax210215-Transcript-updated.pdf86 KBdownload-circle](https://www.gospelforlife.com/content/files/2024/09/210215-Transcript-updated.pdf "Download") ### Introducing Gospel for Life Podcast URL: https://www.gospelforlife.com/introducing-gospel-for-life-podcast/ Last updated: 2024-09-08T01:56:43.000Z Hey, my name is Darryl Dash, a pastor and author living in Toronto, Canada. And I’d like to welcome you to the Gospel for Life podcast. This podcast is going to be all about churches making disciples. It’s all about the task that Jesus has given us. I love how J.T. English puts it in his book [*Deep Discipleship*](https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1535993529/ref=as%5Fli%5Fqf%5Fasin%5Fil%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&tag=g4l01-20&creative=9325&linkCode=as2&creativeASIN=1535993529&linkId=89a8c1dd5cfa45f42fbb756b6ccb4f46&ref=dashhouse.com): > We see that we are losing market share in the world of ideas and in the rhythms of people’s everyday lives… > > We are on our heels, and we just want the bleeding to stop, so we have lowered the bar, and we have settled for a lowest-common-denominator discipleship. > > Unfortunately, I believe many of us have misdiagnosed the disease and are mistreating the church. Our ministry disease is not that the evangelical church is too deep, but that it is far too shallow… We are treating the symptoms of the wrong disease. Deep discipleship is about giving people more Bible, not less; more theology, not less; more spiritual disciplines, not less; more gospel, not less; more Christ, not less. And so I want to look at how we can go deep, how we can raise the bar instead of lowering it, and how we can see our people formed into spiritual maturity. I want to talk to some of the people who are thinking about how to do this. And so I’ve got some exciting guests lined up, and I can’t wait to share them with you. Our first official episode should be dropping on Monday, February 8. So thanks for tuning in today. Please subscribe using your favorite podcast app. And please let your friends know about this podcast. See you on February 8. ####